This. If you tweaked the original question a bit and asked would you feel good if your DC attended HYPSM but would have been happier at a T150, what would the answer be? |
adding... this was back in the 90s though, before FAANGs had a tight relationship with the universities there. Location for your area of interest definitely helps a lot. If you can't get into a T20 for your major, go to a university in an area that has a lot of jobs in your field. that is what my DC will be doing. Our flagship is ranked much higher but doesn't have the major DC wants. So they are looking at a T100-110, and one that people around here consider a commuter school, but it's got the major DC wants and in an area that is known for that field. |
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I don't think it matters at all. It depends on your child. If he/she puts forth an effort, they will be fine.
Also, some of these lower ranked schools are in better areas for jobs. |
| Priority is fit and quality of life within field of interest. Fingers and toes are crossed |
He doesn't know what he wants to do. The specific school he got in is top 5 in the country for one thing, very good for another field. He "might" be interested in those two but completely undecided at this point. Big school so all sorts of majors offered. |
This is a good situation to be in - it means he has options. |
| My DH went to a school ranked near 150. He is very successful. He doesn’t want our kids to go to a T20. |
I worked with a valedictorian who was rejected from every excellent college she applied to. She was stellar in her thinking and work ethic, had a great sense of humor and was a collaborative colleague. Truly rare in these regards. Maybe her high school didn’t support her, maybe they didn’t know how to advise her. Maybe it was really bad luck. I don’t know what wrong. She’s fine; people like this find their way. That’s why valedictorians wind up at 50-125 schools. |
OP here and my ds is not valedictorian (not sure why this poster thought he was!) He is top 10% at a very large high school. Some good students at his school got deferred/denied from the school this post is about. Our issue is our flagship is where every great in-state student wants to go, often over Ivies or prestigious private schools. Then other school is a theoretical target, but has become competitive. Even this school he got into is now difficult to get into. |
The money is a big assumption here. I was valedictorian and I went to our in-state flagship (ranked in the 80s) for free with a stipend over the T20 I got into which claimed to meet 100% of financial need but offered me (with my project manager dad and stay-at-home mom) a whopping $1k a year. It wasn’t a hard choice. |
+1 |
Did he apply to Vtech? |
+1 Many of us who went to more selective schools during the 1990’s have had to deal with this issue and accept the current landscape. Glad things are working out well for your son! My kid looked at schools that I may never have considered for myself 30 years ago and it was a good eye-opener for me to see the world of opportunity outside T-50. |
Ms. Valedictorian, your first sentence makes no sense. |
I’m glad to hear this. Sounds like the school knows what they are doing. My spouse works at a small school, and they focus on job placement for an area where they specialize. This is a smart strategy for a school. |