He prob just made up that rule or someone told him that to make himself feel better.
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OP we are in the same position and hoping that DS can make it as a junior. Assuming it would be JV since he was not chosen as a Sophomore. I also think he is as good as some of the kids who made the team but its hard to know what the coach is looking for or wether they saw the good or the not so good in a huge tryout.
Good luck to your son, mine is pretty crushed, as am I. It sucks so hoping some extra work this year pays off. |
| Yes, but if your kid didn't make the team last year, odds aren't great for making JV this year. JV is to develop for varsity. A kid that doesn't make JV as a sophomore probably isn't making varsity as a senior. Not unless there is a new coach or there is some huge growth spurt/increase in ability. |
It sounds like HS soccer isn't a good fit for your family. |
Yeah I realize the odds aren't great but DS hasn't hit a big growth spurt yet and is also relatively new to soccer so there is a lot of potential to grow! Anyway, point being it happens. With a lot of work there is always a chance. |
A big part of making a HS team is being known. Known to the coach but also known to the upperclassman and especially captains. Coaches lean heavily on their trusted varsity players to decide who to pick. The way to become known is to attend offseason workouts. Your son should talk to the coach to find out. Get to know the other players on the team. Unless your kid is an obvious standout, it's very hard to make enough of an impression just from a few days of tryouts. |
| Why play on the high school team? It doesn't help with recruiting and only increases the risk of injuries. Focus on academics and aim to get on the highest team with his club. |
Didn’t hurt me. But there’s something wrong with you. |
Recruiting? A kid that doesn't make their JV team sophomore year isn't getting recruited to play in college. Not everyone has that goal. Some just like to play soccer. |
Playing for a school team can be a huge part of a kids identity, confidence, and social experience in high school. And it can be a lot of fun! Most kids who play HS sports have no plans to play in college. |
| Wish the high end kids would just play ECNL, GA, MLS Next and leave HS soccer to the regular kids. Everyone would be better off. Too much wear and tear for the high end kids. They certainly don’t do this with the academies in Europe. |
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Based on the comments in this forum, it seems a kid playing in HS is more important to parents identity than the kids. The training is way too concentrated on running and strength and the games are poor quality. Can't see why it's so much fun (over club soccer) |
| I think a lot of this depends on whether or not there's a Freshman team. |
Different lanes for different kids. I have a daughter starting HS next year and one who has graduated from HS. The older one chose what she wanted to do in HS for activities. We won't tell our younger one what to do. We let them make their own decisions about activities. Just get good grades. You sound like a parent overly concerned about your kids not playing HS sports. |