For starters, some know their kids will do just fine in college and life without pushing for them to start Alg or Geometry in 6th grade. |
can you elaborate more on your comment? So few of us who have experience at more than one school to be able to compare and I'd love to know more about how you do so. helps me know which questions to ask! |
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Sorry if I missed this but what does colorism have to do with anything? Are light skinned black folks the only ones attending Shepherd and living in SP? |
plus most of the people commenting have kids in elementary school only. Agree most people have no idea what they are talking about |
I truly wish folks wouldn't comment on things they know nothing about. Detroit has had a strong magnet and GT program for decades. I went to a GT school in Detroit from 3rd grade and it rivaled some of the D.C. privates in offerings. I took computer science, art, and algebra in 7th grade. I would wholeheartedly send my kids to a similar school if it was available to EOTP parents. |
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To answer the OP's original question: we moved to MD.
While it would be great to win a spot in the lottery at a Deal-feeder or a handful of good charters we repeatedly didn't. Nor could we afford to move to those zones right away or justify the cost of a temporary move to one without substantially compromising our standard of living: and for what...a DC zip code? We believe in the idea of strong neighborhood schools and sent our child to ours in DC for 4 years. It worked well, until it didn't, and though it is heartbreaking and embarrassing to pull out for greener and more affluent pastures, our child is not an experiment, so we did. We are sad about the entire situation but 3 years later we do not regret it. DCPS will never solve its issues until it or the city or our country is able to take care of peoples' basic needs before, or in tandem with, educational priorities. This problem is about so much more than education, and it is not fair. |
Well, I answered the question about rigor above (new learning techniques/social and emotional development). I have current MS and HS kids. |
| New poster here. To answer the original question, we have mid-elementary aged children (3rd & 2nd) and we play the lottery every year to get into a Hardy or Deal feeder. We will try our luck for some MS charters in 5th/6th, and when that all presumably fails we will stay at our not so great (but walkable to us) charter through 8th. We supplement academically already with things like writing, grammar, and extra curriculars, and will continue to do so. We cannot afford private so that’s out of the question. |
Agreed, the majority of cities have magnet programs. I can't name one other than DC that doesn't. Was in a magnet program in Memphis ages ago. The lack of knowledge is pretty sad. |
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We have gone private but will give the lottery one more shot this year before we give up until HS. We won't move school to school. Researched moving to MD but that doesn't guarantee anything. They are having major issues in MOCO. Curriculum 2.0 is horrible and too much confusion. That's the only county we looked at because of our commutes.
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| For those lotterying into hardy or deal readers. I thought you can only stay through the terminal grade in your school not pyramid! Am I wrong? |
I wish this could be stickied. It's basically what every well meaning family ends up doing if they don't get lucky on the lottery and there is no shame in wanting what is best for your child Agree the real problem is concentrated poverty, parents not knowing how to parent properly, causing achievement gaps that are too great to close |
The obvious problem is that the economic competition around the world does tend to value rigor in K-8 learning. As an immigrant from the UK, I've been underwhelmed by the DCPS curriculum for academic subjects in the upper elementary grades, particularly ELA. We like our Capitol Hill neighborhood and urban lifestyle, but find that we must supplement extensively to try to keep up with the curriculum in our native country, and the sort of rigor we encountered for our oldest child at an ordinary "state" school in London before we moved to DC. In London, kids who worked behind grade level were not permitting in regular classrooms until they'd caught up, other than for special subjects. They were pulled out for intensive small group work until they caught up. No kidding. We will leave it to DCPS to celebrate big shifts in socio-emotional development in middle school. BASIS or move for us. |
I really doubt this person has personal experience with both middle schools (if any). What is “real rigor” anyway? How do you know if your child is being challenged? To what extent does that actually matter? |