In the town where I am from there are actually two youth orchestras. There is the real one run by actual musicians and then there is a fake one started by the parents of children who didn’t get into the real one. the fake one has a name that sounds more impressive to people that don’t know. the fake one also runs a concerto competition every semester with five winners, so that every child in the fake orchestra can claim that they won the concerto competition. what concerns me about the five minute read is that it’s much easier to pull a fast one and package your child as a concerto contest winner from the fake youth orchestra and it’s doubtful that someone who was hired as a temp and he’s getting paid by the hour is going to have the in-depth knowledge to know the difference between the two orchestras in an area. I’m sure the same thing goes on with sports teams and debate teams, and other types of extracurriculars. If there were smaller numbers of applicants and they were all read by actual full-time admissions people there would probably be if you were opportunities for lying an exaggeration because you would expect these people to catch these things |
+1 extremely naive |
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True story from this admission cycle -
1. Kid starts a non profit, 2. Hires College counselors and essay writers 3. Talks about the impressive amount of money their non profit has raised and donated to XYZ cause 4. Admitted to a T-10 Anyone know how a HS student was able to raise such an impressive amount of money? Not surprisingly all that money came from one source - The parents of the same HS student. "Holistic" admission process works! |
But you're writing that as if they have nothing else going on. The kind of student with those resources has been encouraged to perform in the classroom all the while. It's not like a D student is getting into a top college because they started a non-profit. The non-profit is probably one of many things that make them stand out in the admissions process. |
Spoiler: Nobody is actually reading all that crap your snowflake wrote. I really can't believe smart parents still believe that nonsense. Most kids are filtered out by software. Will they EVER admit that? No. |
Honestly, that should disqualify him for admission at any school let alone a T-10 even if they are the best at everything. I cannot believe someone is actually defending this type of behavior. |
I hear your concern, but your view is also really biased. Is this orchestra truly fake (ie. They don't actually play) or are they just an alternative that you deem lesser? Maybe they are using the competition to draw better players and become a better orchestra. An area can have several orchestras. We have mcyo, pvyo, dcyo plus some great hs orchestras. Your kid can always add that their orchestra is the most competitive in the area in tgeir description. Also, if your kid is that good, they should have all state or individual competition wins to corroborate. No need to denigrate a start up orchestra! Also, it takes a lot more tgan 1 orchestra membership to distinguish an applicant from another. |
T10s want full-pay high stats rich kids whose parents will donate. Everyone knows that. Nobody was duped, as you suggest. It's just a rich kid signaling s/he's rich. |
What many things most of the 17 years old kids possibly have It's bullshit |
Everyone is lying on their apps. Nobody verifies anything. Elite colleges want rich elbowy b.s. artists. Ruthless strivers who know how to play the b.s. game. |
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So the AOs can't tell which orchestras are fake, which charities are not real, and everything else that is wrong with these kids, despite the fact that they do this for a living...
BUT The people who CAN tell all these differences are, coincidentally, the parents of the kids they don't admit? Wow that's quite a coincidence. |
???. What are the impressive accomplishments of your kid that were overlooked? |
| Honestly, this thread is making me quite depressed. |
+1- Seems like orchestra mom is just as loony as crazy soccer mom. Wonder if she has the "real" orchestra magnate next to the "COEXIST" sticker on her car. |
Seriously. The doom and gloom post are mostly people with poor coping skills, who have to believe that everyone else is an idiot and can't just deal with disappointments and move on. |