Oliva Wilde and Jason Sudeikis divorce

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Anonymous wrote:Those text messages...yikes. What was so special about this salad dressing?

I need the recipe!

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The biggest takeaway I got from all this (assuming these claims are true) is that Jason Sudeikis is......NOT Ted Lasso. He sounds borderline abusive, not just to Olivia but to the nanny as well. At times both of them are telling him they are scared of him and the nanny refuses to come down to see him. He gets angry with the nanny for daring to communicate with Olivia (who is the mother of the kids she is responsible for), he makes her go to sessions with his life therapist so the therapist can get dirt on Olivia from her, he fires her in a drunken rage for doing so and throws her out of the house where she lives. What is all this?

All the headlines are focusing on the "affair" (and salad dressing), but how are people ignoring all this problematic behavior?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Those text messages...yikes. What was so special about this salad dressing?

Truly dying to know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
The biggest takeaway I got from all this (assuming these claims are true) is that Jason Sudeikis is......NOT Ted Lasso. He sounds borderline abusive, not just to Olivia but to the nanny as well. At times both of them are telling him they are scared of him and the nanny refuses to come down to see him. He gets angry with the nanny for daring to communicate with Olivia (who is the mother of the kids she is responsible for), he makes her go to sessions with his life therapist so the therapist can get dirt on Olivia from her, he fires her in a drunken rage for doing so and throws her out of the house where she lives. What is all this?

All the headlines are focusing on the "affair" (and salad dressing), but how are people ignoring all this problematic behavior?

Agreed. He sounds absolutely terrible. I haven't watched Ted Lasso yet and now I feel even less interested.

Remember when he won an award for it during the pandemic, and when it cut to him for an acceptance speech, he was clearly high?

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Wow. OW really made a mess of her privileged life.

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Anonymous wrote:
The biggest takeaway I got from all this (assuming these claims are true) is that Jason Sudeikis is......NOT Ted Lasso. He sounds borderline abusive, not just to Olivia but to the nanny as well. At times both of them are telling him they are scared of him and the nanny refuses to come down to see him. He gets angry with the nanny for daring to communicate with Olivia (who is the mother of the kids she is responsible for), he makes her go to sessions with his life therapist so the therapist can get dirt on Olivia from her, he fires her in a drunken rage for doing so and throws her out of the house where she lives. What is all this?

All the headlines are focusing on the "affair" (and salad dressing), but how are people ignoring all this problematic behavior?

I think he sounds panicky about his family and life falling apart after finding about about the deception and lies of a cheating partner. And someone who is coping by drinking too much. He has lost all control over his life and is trying to find a way to get a little back. His behaviour is problematic but it could be very context specific. He is at home with the kids while his wife is out sleeping with someone else and living away for 'work'. That has made a lot of men and women very angry and hurt.

Interesting the nanny clearly doesn't like either of them! It isn't very often you see a celebrity nanny prepared to spill on their bosses as it means no more Hollywood work for them. She was obviously fed up enough she decided to take the Daily Mail paycheck and blow it up!

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I'm not sure why OW thinks that HS will behave any differently with her than he has with the other women he has been with. When kids are in the mix, that is a huge thing to consider.

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Anonymous wrote:Ugh this all so messy- I really feel for those kids. A father who maybe has a drinking problem, mother has taken off with new boy toy, and the nanny who they were probably very attached to never got to say goodbye to them. So sad.

No nanny who cared about the kids would run to Daily Mail with private texts to create more drama for the family. Whatever people may think of JS/OW’s conduct, the nanny’s behavior is unambiguously malicious and out of bounds. The kids are lucky to be rid of her.

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Anonymous wrote:
The biggest takeaway I got from all this (assuming these claims are true) is that Jason Sudeikis is......NOT Ted Lasso. He sounds borderline abusive, not just to Olivia but to the nanny as well. At times both of them are telling him they are scared of him and the nanny refuses to come down to see him. He gets angry with the nanny for daring to communicate with Olivia (who is the mother of the kids she is responsible for), he makes her go to sessions with his life therapist so the therapist can get dirt on Olivia from her, he fires her in a drunken rage for doing so and throws her out of the house where she lives. What is all this?

All the headlines are focusing on the "affair" (and salad dressing), but how are people ignoring all this problematic behavior?

I think he sounds panicky about his family and life falling apart after finding about about the deception and lies of a cheating partner. And someone who is coping by drinking too much. He has lost all control over his life and is trying to find a way to get a little back. His behaviour is problematic but it could be very context specific. He is at home with the kids while his wife is out sleeping with someone else and living away for 'work'. That has made a lot of men and women very angry and hurt.

Interesting the nanny clearly doesn't like either of them! It isn't very often you see a celebrity nanny prepared to spill on their bosses as it means no more Hollywood work for them. She was obviously fed up enough she decided to take the Daily Mail paycheck and blow it up!

There have been past reports of this nanny harassing Sudeikis and Wilde since she was fired. I suspect she went to DM to get paid because her reputation as a nanny was trash and she couldn’t get hired by anyone else. Would you trust this person to care for your child?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
The biggest takeaway I got from all this (assuming these claims are true) is that Jason Sudeikis is......NOT Ted Lasso. He sounds borderline abusive, not just to Olivia but to the nanny as well. At times both of them are telling him they are scared of him and the nanny refuses to come down to see him. He gets angry with the nanny for daring to communicate with Olivia (who is the mother of the kids she is responsible for), he makes her go to sessions with his life therapist so the therapist can get dirt on Olivia from her, he fires her in a drunken rage for doing so and throws her out of the house where she lives. What is all this?

All the headlines are focusing on the "affair" (and salad dressing), but how are people ignoring all this problematic behavior?

OW is not exactly mom of the year for leaving her kids with their dad she is scared of. All this to run around with HS, not exactly a great father figure either.

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They never married so little incentive to work at it from either side.

Agree. Another place where the formal framework of marriage is an incentive to work on it though the tough time and elevate both partners to make it through stronger and more committed. My husband and I have navigated many ups and downs and I think it helped us to know there’s no easy way out- we are in it for good and happy to be here working on it together!!!

Totally. That's why divorce is so rare, especially in Hollywood.

Except they were never married to each other.

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Anonymous wrote:
The biggest takeaway I got from all this (assuming these claims are true) is that Jason Sudeikis is......NOT Ted Lasso. He sounds borderline abusive, not just to Olivia but to the nanny as well. At times both of them are telling him they are scared of him and the nanny refuses to come down to see him. He gets angry with the nanny for daring to communicate with Olivia (who is the mother of the kids she is responsible for), he makes her go to sessions with his life therapist so the therapist can get dirt on Olivia from her, he fires her in a drunken rage for doing so and throws her out of the house where she lives. What is all this?

All the headlines are focusing on the "affair" (and salad dressing), but how are people ignoring all this problematic behavior?

I think he sounds panicky about his family and life falling apart after finding about about the deception and lies of a cheating partner. And someone who is coping by drinking too much. He has lost all control over his life and is trying to find a way to get a little back. His behaviour is problematic but it could be very context specific. He is at home with the kids while his wife is out sleeping with someone else and living away for 'work'. That has made a lot of men and women very angry and hurt.

Interesting the nanny clearly doesn't like either of them! It isn't very often you see a celebrity nanny prepared to spill on their bosses as it means no more Hollywood work for them. She was obviously fed up enough she decided to take the Daily Mail paycheck and blow it up!

There have been past reports of this nanny harassing Sudeikis and Wilde since she was fired. I suspect she went to DM to get paid because her reputation as a nanny was trash and she couldn’t get hired by anyone else. Would you trust this person to care for your child?

Right. The DM pays and reputable sources don’t. That’s not saying it’s all fiction, but no matter what else actually went on in that household, the nanny sucks for cashing in. Hope this 15 seconds of fame was worth it, she won’t be nannying again.

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Anonymous wrote:
The biggest takeaway I got from all this (assuming these claims are true) is that Jason Sudeikis is......NOT Ted Lasso. He sounds borderline abusive, not just to Olivia but to the nanny as well. At times both of them are telling him they are scared of him and the nanny refuses to come down to see him. He gets angry with the nanny for daring to communicate with Olivia (who is the mother of the kids she is responsible for), he makes her go to sessions with his life therapist so the therapist can get dirt on Olivia from her, he fires her in a drunken rage for doing so and throws her out of the house where she lives. What is all this?

All the headlines are focusing on the "affair" (and salad dressing), but how are people ignoring all this problematic behavior?

I think he sounds panicky about his family and life falling apart after finding about about the deception and lies of a cheating partner. And someone who is coping by drinking too much. He has lost all control over his life and is trying to find a way to get a little back. His behaviour is problematic but it could be very context specific. He is at home with the kids while his wife is out sleeping with someone else and living away for 'work'. That has made a lot of men and women very angry and hurt.

Interesting the nanny clearly doesn't like either of them! It isn't very often you see a celebrity nanny prepared to spill on their bosses as it means no more Hollywood work for them. She was obviously fed up enough she decided to take the Daily Mail paycheck and blow it up!

There have been past reports of this nanny harassing Sudeikis and Wilde since she was fired. I suspect she went to DM to get paid because her reputation as a nanny was trash and she couldn’t get hired by anyone else. Would you trust this person to care for your child?

Right. The DM pays and reputable sources don’t. That’s not saying it’s all fiction, but no matter what else actually went on in that household, the nanny sucks for cashing in. Hope this 15 seconds of fame was worth it, she won’t be nannying again.

It's clearly not fiction - she has the texts.

And that's the most hilarious threat I've ever read: You won't be nannying in this town again! Do you hear me? You won't be nannying here again!

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Anonymous wrote:Ugh this all so messy- I really feel for those kids. A father who maybe has a drinking problem, mother has taken off with new boy toy, and the nanny who they were probably very attached to never got to say goodbye to them. So sad.

No nanny who cared about the kids would run to Daily Mail with private texts to create more drama for the family. Whatever people may think of JS/OW’s conduct, the nanny’s behavior is unambiguously malicious and out of bounds. The kids are lucky to be rid of her.

AYFKM? The parents are in charge and they need to parent. If Sudeikis is abusive then dump him before you move on OW.

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Anonymous wrote:Ugh this all so messy- I really feel for those kids. A father who maybe has a drinking problem, mother has taken off with new boy toy, and the nanny who they were probably very attached to never got to say goodbye to them. So sad.

No nanny who cared about the kids would run to Daily Mail with private texts to create more drama for the family. Whatever people may think of JS/OW’s conduct, the nanny’s behavior is unambiguously malicious and out of bounds. The kids are lucky to be rid of her.

AYFKM? The parents are in charge and they need to parent. If Sudeikis is abusive then dump him before you move on OW.

According to OW, she did. Her side of the story is that they had broken up earlier in the year but because of the pandemic, they agreed that they would continue living together so they could be a "Covid bubble" with their kids. JS would not be the first guy to not accept the end of a relationship, even when the other party has made it clear that they're done.

Not telling you who to believe, but that's her side of the story.