Jen Hatmaker

[Anonymous]

Nope not same person. Just multiples of us have eyes to see the same thing. I doubt Brandon is trolling this site too often. More likely only looks when he gets a tip off there is new discussion about shady management at Legacy Collective before he left.
Then again he may check this site out to feel validated in his struggles during his marriage to a narcissist. Could be comforting to know he wasn’t crazy she really does create alternate realities and uses people for her own gain. Imagine how much gaslighting he experienced those 25 years together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nope not same person. Just multiples of us have eyes to see the same thing. I doubt Brandon is trolling this site too often. More likely only looks when he gets a tip off there is new discussion about shady management at Legacy Collective before he left.
Then again he may check this site out to feel validated in his struggles during his marriage to a narcissist. Could be comforting to know he wasn’t crazy she really does create alternate realities and uses people for her own gain. Imagine how much gaslighting he experienced those 25 years together.

Oh, so it’s not the same person bc you say so. Gottcha. 👌

[Anonymous]

Big Sass has posted in here before.

[Anonymous]

I think it’s funny this paranoia about who is posting. Maybe they are, maybe they aren’t, but I tend to believe the ones who come forward and say, nope that weird post was just another one of y’all speculating like crazy.
I’d hope if they do watch this thread at all it’s started to chip away at some of their blind spots over overt dysfunctions. Not likely but perhaps planting some seeds.

[Anonymous]

Idk who is posting or looking but I definitely agree that Brandon and his girlfriend have obvious chemistry. Jen and her man do not.

[Anonymous]

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Others are valuable and worthy to Jen but only in how they elevate her own value, status, and worth.

That part. 👏🏻

[Anonymous]

I need to take a break from Jen, I think. The latest "we camp" post seems unhinged and delusional. Maybe would make sense for someone in their teens. These are not healthy people.

And this comes from a place of genuine concern, because I don't enjoy snark about people's health/bodies, etc - Jen is so flushed, all the time, and I'm not sure if she's aware of it? - I really am concerned she has some kind of health issue going on she doesn't know about? Hopefully she does. I also know her current hair color just makes it look way worse - maybe worse than it would otherwise?

[Anonymous]

If you put an older picture of Jen next to a current one it honestly looks like a different person.
Where there seemed to be a sparkle, she now has a weirdly desperate look
I'm all for hair color, but no one could think this suits her.
And the redness...I don't think she seems stable and she sure doesn't look healthy. I think any sensible therapist would be concerned about her view of her relationship. The ink isn't dry on the divorce papers, but she believes she has "put in the hard work"...Whirlwind courtships can occasionally work out, but Jen is trying too hard. Like she wanted this story to happen and Tyler happened to be in the right place to be the male character. I hope I am wrong !

[Anonymous]

She promoted / linked to about 16 items in her me camp posts. A few were local places, but everything else was the clothes she was wearing,, a virtual therapist for 10% off with Jen’s special code, and the rest promotions for her stuff. Book club, legacy, me course, etc. Got to keep trying for that money and to keep her persona front and center

[Anonymous]

Jen is acting like a love addict. Which is a common malady amongst codependents. Tyler is the dude she’s chosen to be her prop as she weaves these romantic fantasies. No it’s far from healthy or sustainable.
When she pushed him to define the relationship she forced his hand. He already had a one middle aged Caucasian woman for his closest bff. Did really need another? His local gal pal is so precious to him he’s already designated her a permanent fixture no matter what his relationship with Jen turns into. Jen accepted these terms because she needed a man now and assumes she can renegotiate later if needed.
There’s no way his Nashville crew can’t see the unhealthiness of this situation, let alone his Las Vegas family. But he’s made it this far without marrying so they trust his ability to untangle himself from women when he needs to do so. He is in this cause she’s marketing him to her celebrity influencer friends and let’s face it Jen’s a ton of fun when you are the recipient of her love bombs..plus they have Lots of commonalities: Christian upbringing with a remaining affection for Jesus, broadway, SJW ism, dreams of being the highest level influencers.
It’ll live it’s life cycle, then they’ll part as friends who realize they need different things.

[Anonymous]

It’s takes a whole lotta effort to keep your sexual attraction as high as Brandon and his girlfriend. At their ages it requires concerted time, money and energy. For her that’s likely included a boob job, Botox, fillers, hormones, gym membership, careful diet and youthful Victoria secretish clothing. Brandon is most likely hitting the testosterone pellets and working out to keep those muscles built up.
Generally when people put that much effort into their appearance at these ages it’s cause they long to hold onto their youth and have an active sex life. I’m not knocking it, to each their own. But to pretend there isn’t a crap load of chemistry between them requires willful blindness.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you put an older picture of Jen next to a current one it honestly looks like a different person.
Where there seemed to be a sparkle, she now has a weirdly desperate look
I'm all for hair color, but no one could think this suits her.
And the redness...I don't think she seems stable and she sure doesn't look healthy. I think any sensible therapist would be concerned about her view of her relationship. The ink isn't dry on the divorce papers, but she believes she has "put in the hard work"...Whirlwind courtships can occasionally work out, but Jen is trying too hard. Like she wanted this story to happen and Tyler happened to be in the right place to be the male character. I hope I am wrong !

I looked at her Facebook page the other day, and the difference in her profile picture next to her cover photo (from her last book) was just weird and odd.

[Anonymous]

Jen’s latest post is all just a plug for online therapy and she’s getting called out in the comments.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s takes a whole lotta effort to keep your sexual attraction as high as Brandon and his girlfriend. At their ages it requires concerted time, money and energy. For her that’s likely included a boob job, Botox, fillers, hormones, gym membership, careful diet and youthful Victoria secretish clothing. Brandon is most likely hitting the testosterone pellets and working out to keep those muscles built up.
Generally when people put that much effort into their appearance at these ages it’s cause they long to hold onto their youth and have an active sex life. I’m not knocking it, to each their own. But to pretend there isn’t a crap load of chemistry between them requires willful blindness. [/quoto

Omg enough already. You are literally the only person saying this…over and over and over again. My God. We get it Brandon. You are getting laid. Now please just go away.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s takes a whole lotta effort to keep your sexual attraction as high as Brandon and his girlfriend. At their ages it requires concerted time, money and energy. For her that’s likely included a boob job, Botox, fillers, hormones, gym membership, careful diet and youthful Victoria secretish clothing. Brandon is most likely hitting the testosterone pellets and working out to keep those muscles built up.
Generally when people put that much effort into their appearance at these ages it’s cause they long to hold onto their youth and have an active sex life. I’m not knocking it, to each their own. But to pretend there isn’t a crap load of chemistry between them requires willful blindness.

Brandon is dumb as a box of rocks. I’m here to hate on Jen but he’s getting some hate points now.