I think I'm getting fired tomorrow
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Anonymous
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Got an ominous email from my crap-tactic new boss. She's pretty much had it in for me since she started 3 months ago. I'm actually on my 3rd boss in 20 months, but who's counting? My company sucks for a multitude of reasons, and it will be so much better for my mental health, because this job really has sucked the life out of me. My life will not end, we save enough that we can live for over a year on one income, so I know we are super lucky, but it still feels really crappy to get fired, right? I've never been fired before, so I don't know, but I think I will know in about 12 hours.
This is the only place outside my immediate family that I can admit that I will get fired, so its been cathartic. |
Anonymous
| I was fired once and it was a blessing. At my next job I was employee of the month after only two months. Just take some tIme to breathe. Sorry you have to go through this! |
Anonymous
| If you don't mind sharing, what did the email say? Try not to worry because you don't know for sure. Hang in there, keep your head up and send out those resumes ASAP. GL. Let us know how it goes tomorrow. |
Anonymous
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I was fired once.
Honestly, it was much much better than figuring out how to give your notice. In my field of work everything is so personal that giving notice is just gut wrenching! GL and enjoy your break  You'll sigh in relief when you walk out those doors for the last time.
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Anonymous
| Good luck OP. Hope whatever happens ends up being a blessing. Please let us know how it goes tomorrow. |
Anonymous
| Being fired really does suck, but it says so much more about your boss than it does about you. You've definitely got the right attitude. Enjoy your time away and good luck in your new position. |
Anonymous
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I'd tidy up like a PP suggested. Any last phone calls you need to make? Any personal stuff on your computer? Any particular thanks you'd like to give? How's your standing in the coffee club? The admin birthday next week, did you already contribute? Anyone eyeing your computer chair? Whatever your version of housecleaning is, get to it. My work is generally research-based, so I would have memos regarding next steps at the ready so that the people relying on me wouldn't get screwed in the process. I also wouldn't want to give the boss the opportunity to badmouth my level of productivity or leave her able to scapegoat me in any way. I'd package files and back-up data to pass along to partners and assistants, along with thanks. I was let go from a contract recently and just hate that I wasn't able to distribute some of the items I'd been planning to just days later. It chafes. I was also unable to respond to a colleague's request and I feel awful about that. The director waited until I'd gone home to send an email and paid out the entire six months of the contract term. Of course she never told me why I'd been fired. I think they just decided to transform a (less-expensive) part-time they hired after me to full-time. All I'm saying is maybe closure would be a good thing. Breathe deeply and carry on. |
Anonymous
| if you are fired, generally can collect unemployment. not so if you quit. |
Anonymous
| I've never been fired but how do you address this at your next job if asked? |
Anonymous
| Happened to me TWICE! Both times, it was for the best, and the next job was so much better. Hang in there. |
Anonymous
I agree with you about housecleaning. I don't agree with you about lying to your family -- folks may get suspicious if you just up and leave without a job in the wings. At least I know my wife would get suspicious, and I don't want to get in the realm of getting up pretending to go to a job. |
Anonymous
At least you can collect unemployment while you are looking 
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Anonymous
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Nice. I agree that sometimes being laid off is a blessing in disguise. Good luck OP. Let us know how things go. Agree w/ others about housecleaning. Also bring a big bag for your stuff. |
Anonymous
| If you aren't fired today I'd say start looking for a new job. Mostly because no one deserves to be treated badly and you deserve better. Keep your chin up, take the high road, and you'll come out on top. Enjoy the vacation. |