Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You ladies (and I will use that term loosely), are pathetic. I would think that me coming out and admitting that I have an issue would cause people to try to help and have some compassion. I read this entire thread and it seems like after I admitted my problem, that made you all turn it up times 1000. I really wish that us women could rally around each other and support each other more. And if there are black women in her putting me down? Aren't you tired of others putting us down? I still love you all because I'm that type of person. Thanks for listening to the show.
I can't decide if I believe this is Danni or not, I guess it doesn't matter as she has at least read some of these posts.
Admitting to having anxiety is NOT a problem. I think the problem many of us had was talking about private business such as your husband not giving you enough sex, saying you understand why people cheat, and complaining out him not loving you after you admitted you have different love languages. I respect you for doing the research about love languages to try and work it out, but you have to recognize that it's not his nature to do things a certain way and realize that he is showing you love the best way he knows how. I am not for a Danni/Slim divorce. I'm also not for blaming your anxiety and other issues for all of your problems. I know anxiety is a real thing as I know several people that have severe anxiety, but they don't blame every misfortune in their life on it. They don't use it as an excuse to be an asshole.
Listeners do not like Danni because she is negative towards others while acting like she is the shit. Confidence is great but not when it has passed over to arrogance. There are lots of things about Danni's personality that are unbearable for those of us that are former listeners. Instead of reacting with more negativity, maybe think about why people are upset. Why block people that disagree? You could engage in conversation instead and you might change their mind, sure you might not but it would not leave us feeling this way. Or just don't respond at all. I'm sure the Kane show gets tons of text, fb msgs, etc. If you aren't responding to positive feedback (as I know since I have texted and gotten no response) why are you responding to the negative? If you insist on being in the public eye you need to grow a stronger backbone.
Race doesn't have to do with why people don't like you so not sure why you had to mention black women putting you down. My mom always said there are assholes in every race. So don't pull the race card of all black women should love you. Seriously... think about how you are portraying yourself to listeners. If you are really just an asshole, then I guess that's that. But if you aren't, then stop being one. Maybe then there wouldn't be so many people that dislike you and your attitude.
just sayin'