Why do men remarry younger women?

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Anonymous wrote:Can an older man really keep up with a younger woman? All my friends (who are in their 20s) have said that the older dudes they have dealt with have been lackluster in the bedroom.

Your friends obviously aren't that attractive.

older men put more work in pleasing women to keep them. They aren’t selfish lovers

I was with 15+ older men and they were so-so

Men just treat dating women like shopping for a fresh steak that’s all. Good to know we are nothing than a wet warm hole for 99% men

Not 99% of men but 99% of men you pick. Men will sleep with lots of women but the bar for commitment is much higher.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a man and dated for a few years after divorce. I was in my mid to late 50s. One thing I like about younger women was their sense of adventure in life. They're usually less set in their ways and more open to trying new things.

They also tend to be better in bed, although there there are women in their 50s and 60s who are fantastic in bed. (When I say fantastic I mean responsive, not just skilled in the ways of pleasing a man.) I noticed that I tend to crave sex with younger women much more even though the sexual experience itself isn't always better with younger women. Maybe that's a function of biology or chemistry.

A 10 to 15 year age gap is good for me. A 20 year ago gap didn't work for me, partly because I was embarrassed by the reactions I got from other people. I have to admit that other people's reactions affected me. Older women looked annoyed when I walked into a room with my much younger girlfriend. I actually did have a strong emotional and sexual connection with her but I broke it off. We also were in very different stages in life and it didn't seem to make sense to stay together.

I'm now in a relationship with a woman around 15 years younger. She does look younger than me but she doesn't look like she could be my kid. She's successful and economically independent. It's good.

This is interesting. Older women dating younger men do not feel embarrassed at all. To the contrary they feel empowered. You should take cues from them and stop giving a f**k

Maybe he feels the much younger women are not really into him… There is nothing more embarrassing and humiliating to know that your partner is with you because they can’t find anyone interesting in their age group; or are dating you for financial gain and not really enjoying themselves with you in bed.
I’m a woman and don’t know how men are handling this with much younger women. To me men who are 15+ years older just look too old and not sexually attractive

You need to live your life in a way such that you do not have any regrets when you die.

When a man dies at 90 with a wife who is 24 years old, he wont have any regrets in life.

Maybe I’m viewing it differently as a woman. But I would have great regrets that I wasted years of my life on transactional relationships, don’t have anyone who is a true supportive partner, and basically a stranger who has nothing in common with me is by my side when I die.

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Anonymous wrote:When I read a post like this, I think people are thinking of 25 years ago. I don’t see older men dating or marrying younger women. I know of zero examples I am 47 and divorced for five years in the last 48 hours. Here are the ages of the men who have texted me and who I’ve been on dates with: age 28, 31, 31, and 40. I’m not sleeping with any of them right now I have before (with 28 and 31)— who I’ve actually known for about two years and they’re still interested.

I am 59, and my gf is 26. We are planning to get married.

All of my divorced 50s friends got married to younger, hotter, thinner women.

Go to any elementary school event in McLean and you will see a lot of older men with much younger wives.

I’ve met zero men who want to produce more babies in their 50s. But good luck to you changing diapers

The wife can change the diapers. Many such cases.

Of course when you basically pay for services some women would do anything.

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Anonymous wrote:Can an older man really keep up with a younger woman? All my friends (who are in their 20s) have said that the older dudes they have dealt with have been lackluster in the bedroom.

Your friends obviously aren't that attractive.

older men put more work in pleasing women to keep them. They aren’t selfish lovers

I was with 15+ older men and they were so-so

Men just treat dating women like shopping for a fresh steak that’s all. Good to know we are nothing than a wet warm hole for 99% men

Not 99% of men but 99% of men you pick. Men will sleep with lots of women but the bar for commitment is much higher.

I don’t know if a wet P and being very money hungry and young is a particular high bar. I avoid men who say they are primarily date much younger women

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Anonymous wrote:I am a man and dated for a few years after divorce. I was in my mid to late 50s. One thing I like about younger women was their sense of adventure in life. They're usually less set in their ways and more open to trying new things.

They also tend to be better in bed, although there there are women in their 50s and 60s who are fantastic in bed. (When I say fantastic I mean responsive, not just skilled in the ways of pleasing a man.) I noticed that I tend to crave sex with younger women much more even though the sexual experience itself isn't always better with younger women. Maybe that's a function of biology or chemistry.

A 10 to 15 year age gap is good for me. A 20 year ago gap didn't work for me, partly because I was embarrassed by the reactions I got from other people. I have to admit that other people's reactions affected me. Older women looked annoyed when I walked into a room with my much younger girlfriend. I actually did have a strong emotional and sexual connection with her but I broke it off. We also were in very different stages in life and it didn't seem to make sense to stay together.

I'm now in a relationship with a woman around 15 years younger. She does look younger than me but she doesn't look like she could be my kid. She's successful and economically independent. It's good.

This is interesting. Older women dating younger men do not feel embarrassed at all. To the contrary they feel empowered. You should take cues from them and stop giving a f**k

I don’t know too many cougar older women who enjoy dating or marrying men who only use them as a wallet. It’s been always considered a low class and desperate for a woman to pay for sex or long term commitment
But men do this all the time which is fine. But please, don’t fool yourself that 20+ younger women actually want you for how well you aged . Everyone gets old and ages about the same.

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I was 28 dating a 45 year old guy. I think he, like a lot of guys just like younger women. He was kind of messed up from a divorce, other relationships and we were in different life phases so it did not last long. It was a time waste but he did help me with a few issues I had from a previous relationship. Now I tend to stick with men my own age.

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Anonymous wrote:I am a man and dated for a few years after divorce. I was in my mid to late 50s. One thing I like about younger women was their sense of adventure in life. They're usually less set in their ways and more open to trying new things.

They also tend to be better in bed, although there there are women in their 50s and 60s who are fantastic in bed. (When I say fantastic I mean responsive, not just skilled in the ways of pleasing a man.) I noticed that I tend to crave sex with younger women much more even though the sexual experience itself isn't always better with younger women. Maybe that's a function of biology or chemistry.

A 10 to 15 year age gap is good for me. A 20 year ago gap didn't work for me, partly because I was embarrassed by the reactions I got from other people. I have to admit that other people's reactions affected me. Older women looked annoyed when I walked into a room with my much younger girlfriend. I actually did have a strong emotional and sexual connection with her but I broke it off. We also were in very different stages in life and it didn't seem to make sense to stay together.

I'm now in a relationship with a woman around 15 years younger. She does look younger than me but she doesn't look like she could be my kid. She's successful and economically independent. It's good.

I appreciate this honest response. You mentioned craving sex more with younger women even though the experience was the same. I think this goes away in the long run though. After some period of time that thrill dissipates. I experienced this in a relationship with an older man. A person becomes more than just the thrill of their sexual appeal. At least I hope men are this way.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can an older man really keep up with a younger woman? All my friends (who are in their 20s) have said that the older dudes they have dealt with have been lackluster in the bedroom.

Your friends obviously aren't that attractive.

older men put more work in pleasing women to keep them. They aren’t selfish lovers

I was with 15+ older men and they were so-so

Men just treat dating women like shopping for a fresh steak that’s all. Good to know we are nothing than a wet warm hole for 99% men

Some of the holes aren't warm, and some of the holes aren't wet...