Why do men remarry younger women?

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Anonymous wrote:When I read a post like this, I think people are thinking of 25 years ago. I don’t see older men dating or marrying younger women. I know of zero examples I am 47 and divorced for five years in the last 48 hours. Here are the ages of the men who have texted me and who I’ve been on dates with: age 28, 31, 31, and 40. I’m not sleeping with any of them right now I have before (with 28 and 31)— who I’ve actually known for about two years and they’re still interested.

I am 59, and my gf is 26. We are planning to get married.

All of my divorced 50s friends got married to younger, hotter, thinner women.

Go to any elementary school event in McLean and you will see a lot of older men with much younger wives.

I’ve met zero men who want to produce more babies in their 50s. But good luck to you changing diapers

To truly make your post a passive-aggressive FU you should have started it with a "Bless your heart!"

I know a few older dads, and if I become one I'll be thrilled. I did most of the diaper changes with the kids from my first marriage. It's not that difficult or time-consuming to change a diaper.

Dads in mid 50s and above with babies look ridiculous. And not just ridiculous but socially irresponsible and selfish. Older male genes bring much higher risk of serious mental illness, autism, and other disorders. Mostly it just seems like a pathetic attempt to remain relevant and to prove your manhood, with the children bearing the cost of having 75 -year-old dad's when they're graduating from high school. These guys think they are proving something but real men at that age should be stepping into their role as grandfathers.

The few I know in that situation don't give af what someone posting on DCUM thinks because they are loaded and have a hot young wife.

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Anonymous wrote:Not much different talking to a woman 25 vs 45 these days. Women are all watching the same tiktoks, saying the same things, looking at the same things, same pop culture references, whatever. The only difference is salary and looks. I'll take looks.

I've said this a million times when I've gotten the "what do you even talk about" speech from women friends my own age and their disapproval that I'm dating another 26yo.

I don’t know any 40s women who watch shows or TikTok’s in my circle. Most don’t even have Instagram and prefer museums, jazz, classic concerts .

Madame, you are terrible misinformed.

Not PP, but I am in my 40s. I don't have instagram. I don't watch TikTok.

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Because they're hotter?

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I am a man and dated for a few years after divorce. I was in my mid to late 50s. One thing I like about younger women was their sense of adventure in life. They're usually less set in their ways and more open to trying new things.

They also tend to be better in bed, although there there are women in their 50s and 60s who are fantastic in bed. (When I say fantastic I mean responsive, not just skilled in the ways of pleasing a man.) I noticed that I tend to crave sex with younger women much more even though the sexual experience itself isn't always better with younger women. Maybe that's a function of biology or chemistry.

A 10 to 15 year age gap is good for me. A 20 year ago gap didn't work for me, partly because I was embarrassed by the reactions I got from other people. I have to admit that other people's reactions affected me. Older women looked annoyed when I walked into a room with my much younger girlfriend. I actually did have a strong emotional and sexual connection with her but I broke it off. We also were in very different stages in life and it didn't seem to make sense to stay together.

I'm now in a relationship with a woman around 15 years younger. She does look younger than me but she doesn't look like she could be my kid. She's successful and economically independent. It's good.

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Younger is wetter than older.

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Anonymous wrote:Younger is wetter than older.

You should really try it dry. You may discover that its very pleasurable, feeling super tight and slightly lubricated. Or use lube. And watch less porn with spraying Ps- it’s rarely factual.

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Why do dogs lick their balls?

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Anonymous wrote:Can an older man really keep up with a younger woman? All my friends (who are in their 20s) have said that the older dudes they have dealt with have been lackluster in the bedroom.

Your friends obviously aren't that attractive.

older men put more work in pleasing women to keep them. They aren’t selfish lovers

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Anonymous wrote:Can an older man really keep up with a younger woman? All my friends (who are in their 20s) have said that the older dudes they have dealt with have been lackluster in the bedroom.

Your friends obviously aren't that attractive.

older men put more work in pleasing women to keep them. They aren’t selfish lovers

I was with 15+ older men and they were so-so

Men just treat dating women like shopping for a fresh steak that’s all. Good to know we are nothing than a wet warm hole for 99% men

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Anonymous wrote:Can an older man really keep up with a younger woman? All my friends (who are in their 20s) have said that the older dudes they have dealt with have been lackluster in the bedroom.

Your friends obviously aren't that attractive.

older men put more work in pleasing women to keep them. They aren’t selfish lovers

I was with 15+ older men and they were so-so

Men just treat dating women like shopping for a fresh steak that’s all. Good to know we are nothing than a wet warm hole for 99% men

That hole just feels too good...

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Anonymous wrote:I am a man and dated for a few years after divorce. I was in my mid to late 50s. One thing I like about younger women was their sense of adventure in life. They're usually less set in their ways and more open to trying new things.

They also tend to be better in bed, although there there are women in their 50s and 60s who are fantastic in bed. (When I say fantastic I mean responsive, not just skilled in the ways of pleasing a man.) I noticed that I tend to crave sex with younger women much more even though the sexual experience itself isn't always better with younger women. Maybe that's a function of biology or chemistry.

A 10 to 15 year age gap is good for me. A 20 year ago gap didn't work for me, partly because I was embarrassed by the reactions I got from other people. I have to admit that other people's reactions affected me. Older women looked annoyed when I walked into a room with my much younger girlfriend. I actually did have a strong emotional and sexual connection with her but I broke it off. We also were in very different stages in life and it didn't seem to make sense to stay together.

I'm now in a relationship with a woman around 15 years younger. She does look younger than me but she doesn't look like she could be my kid. She's successful and economically independent. It's good.

This is interesting. Older women dating younger men do not feel embarrassed at all. To the contrary they feel empowered. You should take cues from them and stop giving a f**k

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Anonymous wrote:I am a man and dated for a few years after divorce. I was in my mid to late 50s. One thing I like about younger women was their sense of adventure in life. They're usually less set in their ways and more open to trying new things.

They also tend to be better in bed, although there there are women in their 50s and 60s who are fantastic in bed. (When I say fantastic I mean responsive, not just skilled in the ways of pleasing a man.) I noticed that I tend to crave sex with younger women much more even though the sexual experience itself isn't always better with younger women. Maybe that's a function of biology or chemistry.

A 10 to 15 year age gap is good for me. A 20 year ago gap didn't work for me, partly because I was embarrassed by the reactions I got from other people. I have to admit that other people's reactions affected me. Older women looked annoyed when I walked into a room with my much younger girlfriend. I actually did have a strong emotional and sexual connection with her but I broke it off. We also were in very different stages in life and it didn't seem to make sense to stay together.

I'm now in a relationship with a woman around 15 years younger. She does look younger than me but she doesn't look like she could be my kid. She's successful and economically independent. It's good.

This is interesting. Older women dating younger men do not feel embarrassed at all. To the contrary they feel empowered. You should take cues from them and stop giving a f**k

Maybe he feels the much younger women are not really into him… There is nothing more embarrassing and humiliating to know that your partner is with you because they can’t find anyone interesting in their age group; or are dating you for financial gain and not really enjoying themselves with you in bed.
I’m a woman and don’t know how men are handling this with much younger women. To me men who are 15+ years older just look too old and not sexually attractive

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Anonymous wrote:I am a man and dated for a few years after divorce. I was in my mid to late 50s. One thing I like about younger women was their sense of adventure in life. They're usually less set in their ways and more open to trying new things.

They also tend to be better in bed, although there there are women in their 50s and 60s who are fantastic in bed. (When I say fantastic I mean responsive, not just skilled in the ways of pleasing a man.) I noticed that I tend to crave sex with younger women much more even though the sexual experience itself isn't always better with younger women. Maybe that's a function of biology or chemistry.

A 10 to 15 year age gap is good for me. A 20 year ago gap didn't work for me, partly because I was embarrassed by the reactions I got from other people. I have to admit that other people's reactions affected me. Older women looked annoyed when I walked into a room with my much younger girlfriend. I actually did have a strong emotional and sexual connection with her but I broke it off. We also were in very different stages in life and it didn't seem to make sense to stay together.

I'm now in a relationship with a woman around 15 years younger. She does look younger than me but she doesn't look like she could be my kid. She's successful and economically independent. It's good.

This is interesting. Older women dating younger men do not feel embarrassed at all. To the contrary they feel empowered. You should take cues from them and stop giving a f**k

Maybe he feels the much younger women are not really into him… There is nothing more embarrassing and humiliating to know that your partner is with you because they can’t find anyone interesting in their age group; or are dating you for financial gain and not really enjoying themselves with you in bed.
I’m a woman and don’t know how men are handling this with much younger women. To me men who are 15+ years older just look too old and not sexually attractive

You need to live your life in a way such that you do not have any regrets when you die.

When a man dies at 90 with a wife who is 24 years old, he wont have any regrets in life.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a man and dated for a few years after divorce. I was in my mid to late 50s. One thing I like about younger women was their sense of adventure in life. They're usually less set in their ways and more open to trying new things.

They also tend to be better in bed, although there there are women in their 50s and 60s who are fantastic in bed. (When I say fantastic I mean responsive, not just skilled in the ways of pleasing a man.) I noticed that I tend to crave sex with younger women much more even though the sexual experience itself isn't always better with younger women. Maybe that's a function of biology or chemistry.

A 10 to 15 year age gap is good for me. A 20 year ago gap didn't work for me, partly because I was embarrassed by the reactions I got from other people. I have to admit that other people's reactions affected me. Older women looked annoyed when I walked into a room with my much younger girlfriend. I actually did have a strong emotional and sexual connection with her but I broke it off. We also were in very different stages in life and it didn't seem to make sense to stay together.

I'm now in a relationship with a woman around 15 years younger. She does look younger than me but she doesn't look like she could be my kid. She's successful and economically independent. It's good.

This is interesting. Older women dating younger men do not feel embarrassed at all. To the contrary they feel empowered. You should take cues from them and stop giving a f**k

Maybe he feels the much younger women are not really into him… There is nothing more embarrassing and humiliating to know that your partner is with you because they can’t find anyone interesting in their age group; or are dating you for financial gain and not really enjoying themselves with you in bed.
I’m a woman and don’t know how men are handling this with much younger women. To me men who are 15+ years older just look too old and not sexually attractive

You need to live your life in a way such that you do not have any regrets when you die.

When a man dies at 90 with a wife who is 24 years old, he wont have any regrets in life.

Assuming he didn't modify his will where she ends up with all assets and his previous kids are handed his ashes.

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Anonymous wrote:When I read a post like this, I think people are thinking of 25 years ago. I don’t see older men dating or marrying younger women. I know of zero examples I am 47 and divorced for five years in the last 48 hours. Here are the ages of the men who have texted me and who I’ve been on dates with: age 28, 31, 31, and 40. I’m not sleeping with any of them right now I have before (with 28 and 31)— who I’ve actually known for about two years and they’re still interested.

I am 59, and my gf is 26. We are planning to get married.

All of my divorced 50s friends got married to younger, hotter, thinner women.

Go to any elementary school event in McLean and you will see a lot of older men with much younger wives.

I’ve met zero men who want to produce more babies in their 50s. But good luck to you changing diapers

The wife can change the diapers. Many such cases.