It is wild to me when people who don’t have money buy soda. I was poor in my 20s and I wasn’t spending my grocery money on drinks (tap water is free when you rent), or desserts. I remember once being stuck in line behind this woman who was clearly broke and screaming at the cashier about a 50 cent coupon for her soda and that wasn’t working and just thinking….put the soda back and get some frozen spinach dummy. |
What? Lots of people aren’t overweight and don’t have disordered eating. Those people (like my family) just have thin genes. |
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I'm shocked there aren't more people making excuses. WaPost and NY times has been pushing this whacky stuff for years. " Poor people are starving" Really, they sure as hell don't look like it. "Poor people eat bad food because it's the only joyful thing in their sad life" Really, these people don't know about true poverty. These people are doing great compared to the poor in other countries. "Poor people live in a food desert" Ah ok, seem to be doing pretty good for living in the middle of a "desert." And they can't drive anywhere because no spark plugs. And spark plugs on backorder, Amazon can't deliver. And bus driver called off sick. And friends and family have covid. Kid has ADHD and can't drive. And they only sell Twinkies at the grocery store so what do you expect them to eat. |
I mean, these are all valid excuses. I met an Uber driver today who used to live in what he called a crash house. In Arlington. He said the landlord had set up 3 bunk beds in each bedroom of a 3 br apartment and also rented out the walk in closet separately. 19 people living there. There’s no way anyone there was cooking a pot of stew. In my younger years I lived in a studio in DC and one of my neighbors had 3 adults living in a studio. Maybe they were cooking a pot of stew, but to the above poster’s point, they might not be calling maintenance. |
There’s so many ignorant tells in your post, but this is The one I’m going to point out. Starving and malnourished are completely different things. Many people experiencing poverty and food insecurity ARE starving for food that actually nourishes their brains and bodies. Calories aren’t the problem, government subsidies take care of that. It’s so clear based on this post and so many others that this is another issue that the extremely privileged group DCUM refuses to understand, and that’s not can’t understand, that’s refuses to understand, until Thanksgiving comes and they need a volunteer opportunity for them and their kids to share on Insta. The poors are there solely to make you feel superior about your “choices” and position in life, until You need them to feel humble about how #blessed you are, even though you hate that hashtag. |
Why don’t you put some facts in your posts instead of lecturing people? Back it up. How many people in the US are starving or malnourished? Not living in a food desert but clinically undernourished. |
| I agree with OP to some extent. The average nonwhite low-income family doesn't feed their kids lentils and rice, or beans and rice. Those meals are healthy and cheap. I also cook a lot of chili over spaghetti. The average American doesn't "know" or "care" about eating healthy. Excuses, excuses. |
My parents are poor but always have soda fully stocked. I don't think food stamps should pay for soda or maybe just $5 a month limit. |
The average white low-income family doesn’t do that either. It’s mostly immigrants and rich people cooking from scratch. Half a century of industrial food manufacturing, coupled with women entering the workforce en masse and turning to convenience foods because they didn’t have time to cook, meant most people lost the tacit knowledge for cooking. If you have a lot of time and/or money to throw at it you can relearn it. My great grandmother cooked everything from scratch because that’s all she could afford/all that was for sale. My grandmother used canned food because now they were middle-class and prosperous. My mother fed us frozen vegetables and pasta. I spent a lot of time reading cookbooks and practicing. I hope to teach my kids so that when they’re adults this is just “what one does.” |
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I kind of get what OP is saying. My parents grew up poor in the 40’s and 50’s and ate home cooked, generally healthy food. My grandparents shopped and cooked.
My father’s parents were in NYC and didn’t have a car but took the train/bus to shop and fed a family of 9. My mother’s parents were a little better off and lived in NJ, right outside of NY. My grandfather had a car so they could get to the store. They had a yard and grew a lot of vegetables. They even grew figs, blueberries, strawberries. There was no fast food or going out to dinner. My grandmother was always cooking and fed a family of 7 plus borders they took in. She also took a trip south once a year for canning and brought preserved food back. I know conditions aren’t the same today there are a lot of single heads of households who work. My grandmothers didn’t work so they had time to plan meals and cook for their large families. |
Soda is about the cheapest “treat” out there. If you were only “poor” in your twenties, you might not get that. Also, frozen spinach usually costs more than a soda — so I’m guessing you included that bit for the joy of calling a stranger whose circumstances you didn’t actually know a “dummy”. And, yeah, tap water, while not exactly “free”, is included in the rent. It often tastes terrible though, and may have other issues— including lead pipes— that might make it a problematic choice. I’m guessing that you didn’t spend your “poor” 20s in Flint. |
The person in front of me buying the soda was also not living in flint Michigan. We were in an area where the tap water was just fine. But again, excuses, excuses. Also why is poor in quotations? I was poor. It’s not something I am proud of but I had a tough few years in my 20s. Also at that time, yeah a pack of frozen spinach was the same or less in cost than a two liter of soda. |
You are correct. They are actually malnourished because they are eating crap. Nobody expects these people to eat organic chicken from Wegmans, but the vast majority of these people are making horrible choices. |