My husband raped me

[Anonymous]

I feel so sad, hurt, and scared. I don't know what to do.

[Anonymous]

Please call the National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1.800.656.HOPE

There are trained professionals that will be able to talk through your feelings and options. There is also an online hotline that appears to be more like an online chat, so that is perfect if you aren't ready to verbalize your feelings.

http://www.rainn.org/

Best to you.

[Anonymous]

Thank you so much PP

[Anonymous]

You need to get yourself to a safe place where you won't be attacked again while you figure out how to take care of yourself and get the help you need. Can you leave?

[Anonymous]

You also need to call the police and report him. Most states no longer have laws that "permit" a man to rape his wife (google your state to confirm). What he did is a crime.

[Anonymous]

i hope this isnt some joke and am glad people posted real help for the OP

[Anonymous]

A few more numbers in case you need them OP.

http://www.apa.org/pi/women/programs/violence/domestic-violence.aspx

[Anonymous]

so sorry for you OP . Please take care of yourself, get yourself out of harms way!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Please call the National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1.800.656.HOPE

There are trained professionals that will be able to talk through your feelings and options. There is also an online hotline that appears to be more like an online chat, so that is perfect if you aren't ready to verbalize your feelings.

http://www.rainn.org/

Best to you.

Why would she call this before calling the police?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Please call the National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1.800.656.HOPE

There are trained professionals that will be able to talk through your feelings and options. There is also an online hotline that appears to be more like an online chat, so that is perfect if you aren't ready to verbalize your feelings.

http://www.rainn.org/

Best to you.

Why would she call this before calling the police?

To get support and advice re her next steps. Short-term and long-term.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Please call the National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1.800.656.HOPE

There are trained professionals that will be able to talk through your feelings and options. There is also an online hotline that appears to be more like an online chat, so that is perfect if you aren't ready to verbalize your feelings.

http://www.rainn.org/

Best to you.

Why would she call this before calling the police?

Because reporting someone you love to law enforcement for a violent crime is a terrifying proposition, particularly when you are in shock over this having happened. Of course She should take every step to protect herself, including getting the police involved but seeking out other support from professionals who Can help you navigate this emotional minefield is vitally important. The police dont solve everything, in fact in a case like this I can easily see this victim met with disbelief and ridicule if it's not handled properly and the help PP directs her to can help navigate that Scary process.

[Anonymous]

I think the advice here is right and honestly, the thread should be closed now. Otherwise it encourages hoaxes and abusive posts.

[Anonymous]

I'm so sorry for you, OP. Please call the numbers provided. There ARE people who care and will support you. You may feel alone, but you are NOT! You just need to make that call so people know you need help.

[Anonymous]

Thank you for the numbers pp. I want to call the police but i am terrified. The soonest I can get away from him is this weekend for reasons I dont want to say. I know people on this board. I feel so betrayed. Im going to call one of those numbers, because i have no one to talk to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thank you for the numbers pp. I want to call the police but i am terrified. The soonest I can get away from him is this weekend for reasons I dont want to say. I know people on this board. I feel so betrayed. Im going to call one of those numbers, because i have no one to talk to.

Please do OP. You can call the DC Rape Crisis Center 202-333-RAPE (7273). In almost every call they deal with rape, they understand what you have experienced and your fear. Talk to them.