Anonymous wrote:It's a rich kids sport.
Kids who are not good at football, can't hit a baseball, etc
I am not an ex-lacrosse guy, but did play another sport in college and had a very brief professional career when I didn't survive the first round of cuts as an undrafted free agent at an NFL training camp. My young kids play lacrosse and football. I have a different take on the stated elitism. Lacrosse is an expensive sport, but so is ice hockey, baseball and other sports my kids tried. I think a big difference that causes a lot of hostility with some parents is the apparent fact that dads who played greatly influence outcomes. Where I grew up kids played lacrosse to step out of the brutal fairness of games like football and basketball. Getting a scholarship for college in those sports is a lot harder and more competitive. It also won't matter one bit of your son inherits "football IQ" from dad. Lacrosse people love to keep going on like the sport is brain surgery and their kids have been incubated to excel early. As my boys have aged up, I've noticed a two things. First, kids who are the best athletes leave lacrosse because they see full scholarship possibilities in football, basketball and don't see it in lacrosse. Second, one major factor is cost. Lacrosse is an expensive ride for middle school and early high school. If you just focus on being the best player in your high school team and one of the best players in the high school league, that isn't nearly enough and might not even be helpful. I have never seen a college recruiter at a high school lacrosse game. I am sure some posters will write that at the top very expensive prep schools there is some college coach attention, but I don't call that a coverage of high school lacrosse. I have also never been to a single high school football game my son played in where there were no college recruiters. In football you have to rise up from a huge population of kids who play to get noticed as a sophomore or as a junior. In lacrosse, getting noticed is arranged for you by the club team events and other club team showcases. Sadly I do agree that lacrosse has worked very hard as a sport to stay privileged and exclusive. That hurts the game and eventually will only help football, basketball, baseball and other sports versus lacrosse. If you are a 12 year old kid who is a great athlete but don't have a dad who played the game and is connected in this lacrosse system, you are much better off playing another sport.
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