Neither did my daughter, and she's a pretty stellar student. I had to tell her over and over again not to take things personally. |
Not the PP you are attacking but why spoiled? That seems like an odd choice of words. If his classmates had worse grades and less of other things schools say are important and got in over her son, wouldn't anger be a normal response? If you were up for a promotion and were the one best qualified and had worked your butt off for it, and your boss took your less qualified co-worker, I would expect you to be angry as well. |
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Sports make sense. Why? Because athletically gifted kids have a skill set to bring in the door. The rest of it is all bullish*t - a numbers game for rankings in magazines that don't mean squat, except to politicians and snobby parents. |
Sorry, I was referring to the PPs saying how dare he thought he would get into one of those 8 schools. He is that good: he would be #1 in Sidwell, STA, Maret, GDS.... though not TJ. If he was their own kid, those PPs would be totally pissed. All his teachers, counselors and principal said they were shell shocked. OP is right, it is scandalous. |
^^^Then start your own college and you can make the rules. |
It makes sense for the school to have a diverse student body. It gives students a better experience than going to a school where everyone is a clone of themselves. Students hear different ideas and different ways of thinking and they are stretched by it. It is not just a numbers game. Some assets are not represented in the test scores. |
The vast majority of the colleges listed above are private. Why would any of them care what politicians want? USNWR rankings are not in any way based on geographic or racial or ethnic makeup, so rankings aren't driving any school's efforts to diversify. Where private colleges are seeking diversity, they are doing so BECAUSE THEY WANT TO. You don't have to like it. |
Not the PP, but it's a totally sane EA strategy. Wouldn't end badly because you'd know the results in time yo submit other apps if necessary. |
I am sure some of the rejected kids will end up starting their own business instead of working for other people. I would. Knowing how fucked up the system is. |
You have no way of knowing how this kid would stack up at these privates. None. This is really common with a lot of Asian parents. They come up with some ranking system where their kids come out ahead, and then get bent out of shape when others don't agree with their criteria. Obviously these schools don't see this kid as quite the catch you do. Get over it. |
My DH interviews for an Ivy. This year it seemed as if the kids with personality got accepted. The kid who started a jam making club at school beat out the one with 10 APs; the kid who was the only republican at his overwhelmingly liberal school beat out the kid who took the Johns Hopkins summer class. |
Really? If that's all you know about someone, in this context, it just seems like product differentiation (and of a type that requires upper middle class resources). Not clear to me why these facts should be relevant to elite college admissions. I'm perfectly willing to believe that there's a great kid behind these labels (and congrats to him on his admissions success!), but c'mon, it's a sign that something's really messed up if these are the sorts of things that decide who goes to which college. |
I suspect that undergrad matters in academia primarily because it's schools like Harvard where faculty urge some of their best students to consider academia rather than law or medicine. |
Thanks for clearing that up. Makes more sense now. Didn't mean to make you feel attacked; just curious. |