Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???

[Anonymous]

I've been married 3 times. I don't recommend any woman be my 4th, but a few want to anyway.

[Anonymous]

I would never have gone on a 2nd date!

[Anonymous]

My 45 year old BF who has been divorced 3 times recently proposed. I have known him and his family for over 35 years. I am once divorced. I was with my ex for over 25 years. My 3x DF’s first marriage - married very young- lasted 14 years. Second marriage-this one I truly question- really can’t fathom his judgment in marrying her, lasted 4 years. Third - spur of the moment “let’s get married” didn’t last long at all after she shut out his young daughter only after marriage. I constantly question his judgment in choosing women-sometimes looking in the mirror at myself. I truly am in love him-with all my heart and soul. Love shouldn’t be judged by a number. It’s the most horrible feeling to question your love and wonder if you are the one who should’ve been years ago-Or if it’s just an ongoing cycle.... hardest thing ever.

[Anonymous]

My incredibly hot, but extremely deceitful and mean, HS gf got divorced from husband number three last summer and is already posting cutesy couple pictures of her and her new bf. She's 44.

It takes a lot of work and mental illness to have 4 (she had a live in bf in her 20s) serious, long term relationships blow up before 45.

[Anonymous]

I once heard a man who had been married four times and was ready to embark on his fifth say he obviously likes being married because he's been married so many times.

Years later, I'd love to ask him exactly what he gets out of being married knowing, based on his track record, that divorce and the pain and financial drain that goes with it, is probably around the corner.

I'd want to know exactly what someone's looking for when they are so hooked on being married but it's often a bust. Is it love? Is it a live-in chef? Is it splitting the bills? Or just plain old loneliness on New Year's Eve?

[Anonymous]

Maybe wouldn’t be the fourth but the third can be a charm — both my parents found lasting relationships on the third try (mom married someone twice divorced, dad was twice divorced and found love on the third — both marriages lasted)

[Anonymous]

Nope. And I’ve been married twice. I figure if this 2nd time doesn’t work out it’s on me and marriage just isn’t for me.

[Anonymous]

OMG no. If you are a gambler and like to take chances, sure. If lasting marriage isn’t your goal, no no no.

[Anonymous]

How can he possibly have any money left? Or is the triple-divorcee a woman?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of my grandmother's recently married for the 4th time. Married at 18, husband died in ww2, remarried immediately, second husband also died in ww2. Five or six years later remarried again. Married for 45 or so years until her husband died of liver cancer. Remarried a guy she met at the nursing home.

Yes, but she has 1 divorce not 3 or 4. She was a widow 2 times and divorced 1

No, she has 0 divorces. All 3 of her previous husbands died.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My 45 year old BF who has been divorced 3 times recently proposed. I have known him and his family for over 35 years. I am once divorced. I was with my ex for over 25 years. My 3x DF’s first marriage - married very young- lasted 14 years. Second marriage-this one I truly question- really can’t fathom his judgment in marrying her, lasted 4 years. Third - spur of the moment “let’s get married” didn’t last long at all after she shut out his young daughter only after marriage. I constantly question his judgment in choosing women-sometimes looking in the mirror at myself. I truly am in love him-with all my heart and soul. Love shouldn’t be judged by a number. It’s the most horrible feeling to question your love and wonder if you are the one who should’ve been years ago-Or if it’s just an ongoing cycle.... hardest thing ever.

You can love someone and have a committed relationship without getting married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of my grandmother's recently married for the 4th time. Married at 18, husband died in ww2, remarried immediately, second husband also died in ww2. Five or six years later remarried again. Married for 45 or so years until her husband died of liver cancer. Remarried a guy she met at the nursing home.

Yes, but she has 1 divorce not 3 or 4. She was a widow 2 times and divorced 1

No, she has 0 divorces. All 3 of her previous husbands died.

Black widow

[Anonymous]

Have you met my ex husband!?!? Actually if you have , he’s lying. He just got divorced from wife #4! I was his 2nd. And remember one thing . Who’s the common denominator?

[Anonymous]

Since this thread in 9 years old, chances are the person in question has had another divorce.

[Anonymous]

I'm that 3X married guy. I have no desire to marry again but it has not deterred the women in my LT relationships from wanting it. Please, do not marry this 3x married guy unless you want to be x #4