His credit card gave me the ick

Anonymous
Ick?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Am I crazy for this bothering me? Nice date and he pays. He uses a metallic card which caught my eye because it had shiny eye-catching flowers on it. I say that's a really pretty card, even the waitress noted it's a pretty card. I think he was embarrassed by us calling it pretty, because it's sort of feminine? Instead of admitting he ordered it, his face turned a little red and he says it's just the replacement version they sent them. I don't know if the feminine card bothered me or just his lack of agency. Whatever the case it's been bothering me all week.

If this bothers you so much then why try dating. The ICK? isn't this some Gen Z term high schoolers use? Lol.
Anonymous
All in favor of this guy running, not walking, away from OP say aye!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:All in favor of this guy running, not walking, away from OP say aye!

AYE
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
For the love of God, stfu. It’s a flower credit card. It’s for women. End of story.


Are you stupid enough to believe that because the card has flowers on it, it is made for women? If it had an NFL logo, would it be made for men?

You have no idea how to be masculine, much less be a man. You need to stop trying to make up for your lack of masculinity by labeling something like someone's credit card as something "for women".


It’s no wonder why so many women in DC are married to down low gay men. Totally deluded and in denial.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
For the love of God, stfu. It’s a flower credit card. It’s for women. End of story.


Are you stupid enough to believe that because the card has flowers on it, it is made for women? If it had an NFL logo, would it be made for men?

You have no idea how to be masculine, much less be a man. You need to stop trying to make up for your lack of masculinity by labeling something like someone's credit card as something "for women".


It’s no wonder why so many women in DC are married to down low gay men. Totally deluded and in denial.

Wrong, PP is totally right. Any male who thinks it makes them “down low gay” to have flowers on a credit card is gay AF. That’s not an insult, it’s a fact that you are gay/bi and completely supressing it. It also makes you way less masculine than a man who is bi and owns it and comfortable with a credit card. But to be clear, having that card does not make one gay. It does, however, make anyone who has a problem with it, very insecure and probably homosexual and neurotic.
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Anonymous wrote:I like very masculine men, and this would not bother me at all. It wouldn't even register with me to have a response either way.


You have to go out of your way to request these unique Amex platinum cards, they’re not the default. It would also take no more than 24 hours to have the card replaced with the default card via overnight delivery. It would be masculine to admit he ordered that specific card and kept it because he too likes it and thank the ladies for the compliment. Instead he got red-faced, defensive and blamed Amex for sending it to him, which is deceptive, effeminate and weak.


He ordered it. It could have been plain platinum or the paint splatter version.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He sounds like a weirdo. Does he happen to be in the Navy?


“That whole Navy thing.”

“Navy thing?”


This sounds familiar. In what movie was that a quote?
Anonymous
Sounds like a typical Tinder date. Frumpy and judgemental "professional" just not worth the effort.

It's a really weird dynamic. The women tend to be undesirable, yet they are the ones that don't really value men.

It's a million times better outside the US. I'm not sure if it's DC, online dating, or social media, but the difference is mind blowing and causes me to be concerned about our society.
Anonymous
as someone in frekin MS, I know that does not even matter
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Ick?



You know, silly. Like, yucky.
Anonymous
He ordered it. It could have been plain platinum or the paint splatter version.


He ordered a replacement card. You have no idea why he received the version the bimbo he went out with saw on their date. He might not have checked the imprints on the card, or AMEX may have sent him the flower card as the default selection. Most importantly, it does not matter to anyone whose brain is alive.

The bottom line here is that she was not impressed that her date used a credit card with flowers on it. Her shallowness and stupidity are compounded by people like you, who would judge someone by the imprints on their credit card.
Anonymous
You know, silly. Like, yucky.


You should not use mommy's computer without her permission. This is an adult site, where we talk about adult things.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Men can’t win.


if she didnt have a vagina , we would not care.
If it weren't for the V, there would be a bounty on them.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Wait you had a date with C F Frost? I have been trying to date him since I got his first letter inviting me to AMEX

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