Is it more attractive to be a short woman?

Anonymous
I’m a tall woman (6foot), and I think men prefer short. I also limited my dating pool because I find taller men sexy. I hate being tall, but there is NOTHING I can do about it. So I try not to stress and reach the high shelf for the small people in the grocery store when they ask. I also pay waaaaaay too much for clothes because tall sizes in regular stores are too short. Life sucks and then you die! Luckily, I still found men to date and married a 6’4’ man.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I feel like being a short woman is a perk similar to being a blonde. Men love short women and seem very attracted to them.


Ok, but unlike being blonde, this isn’t something that can be changed if you happen to be tall.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I’m a tall woman (6foot), and I think men prefer short. I also limited my dating pool because I find taller men sexy. I hate being tall, but there is NOTHING I can do about it. So I try not to stress and reach the high shelf for the small people in the grocery store when they ask. I also pay waaaaaay too much for clothes because tall sizes in regular stores are too short. Life sucks and then you die! Luckily, I still found men to date and married a 6’4’ man.


Yes, but again this is relative. You feel men prefer short women because most women are shorter than you. You're taller than the average man, and since generally men prefer to be taller than their partner, that makes it harder. And since you prefer men to be taller than you, that makes it even harder.

But a 5'7" woman is 5 inches shorter than you and still "tall" in the sense that she's taller than the average woman but a substantial amount.

The fact that men prefer women shorter than 6' feet is like saying women with short hair because most men would not be attracted to a woman with hear to her ankles.
Anonymous
I’m 5’o” and I dated a man who is 6’3” and although he really turned me on it was hard having to stand on a stair or tiptoes to kiss him. We did great in bed though.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Some short women, if the proportions are otherwise good, when they have large breasts, they can look absolutely gigantic, but in a sexy attractive way. Taller women aren't often able to pull off the gigantic boob look in quite the same way.

Short women with gigantic natural boobs who aren't obese. Every man wants one of those.


Yes!!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Summary of this thread (and every other thread like it, there are SO many):

Short women: Men like shorter women the best, yes? We can all agree.
Other women/men: Um, people like all kinds of things, plenty of men like average height or tall women, sexual preferences are pretty varied, for most men other factors like body type or beauty will be more important than height, what about all the tall actresses and models who are clearly deemed sexy/beautiful, etc.?
Short women: no, tall women are ogres, not feminine, can't get dates, probably bad people. short women are the sexiest, men like the shorties the best, spinners, etc.!
Tall women: Ok, fine then -- short women get fat and blobby in middle age, men who like very short women are probably pedophiles, why would you want your partner to be staring at your navel all the time.
Short women: HOW DARE YOU DISPARAGE MY HEIGHT! RUDE!

Every time. It is very, very tiresome.

This is like the female version of the napoleonic complex and I do not understand. If you would just stop (falsely) asserting that short women are universally more sexually attractive, you would not bait people into saying nasty things about short women. If you disparage women of other heights, you are going to get the same abuse thrown right back. Every time.

Increasingly I feel like the goal is specifically to reach the point where people are like "whatever, men who like shorties are probably pedophiles" and the short women who start or encourage these threads are just poking and poking until they get that response and then can act shocked and offended.

You need therapy.


Shockingly accurate summary.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Not all men loves short women, its not a unanimous and monolithic preference.


+1

If there is 10"+ height differential, it tends to look like a circus act.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m 6’2” and adore short girls - they give great hugs. I’m not sure why that is but they really get in there and go tight! When Insay short I’m thinking 5’5” and below.


This comment perfectly encapsulates the truth, which is that men do prefer women who are shorter than they are. But 5'5" is on the tall side of average for a woman.

To someone who is 6' or more, we're all short! So I guess we're all hot. Hurray.


Hey. Do you know what "average" means, even?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not all men loves short women, its not a unanimous and monolithic preference.


+1

If there is 10"+ height differential, it tends to look like a circus act.

I mean, women with men shorter than them also look kind of funny.
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