Hi, that was my post and I was a public school teacher before and after the school in that post. Public is 1000x better! |
I'm a teacher at a private school and cannot thank you enough for your kind comment! I sent my own children to private schools, and we paid full price at those schools ($40,000 plus per year for each child). Never in a million years did I expect concierge service for my children or my family. Our family looked for a community dedicated to the academic and social-emotional growth of our children -- with an emphasis on character development and values. These school communities were strong and did not cater to the "concierge service" mindset. And -- perhaps because of that -- the waiting list was long enough for those schools to undertake outplacement for "concierge service" families. My children benefited enormously from their schools and continue to have strong ties to them. A school that cultivates a "concierge service" mentality is not a school that will last. Too many disparate (and irreconcilable) demands can't build a strong community. |
| It’s such a shame it feels impossible to have honest conversations about this in person on campus. Some of the issues raised whether about pay, hours, language, parental engagement or perhaps rather the manner in which they engage are real issues. So often conversations descend into attacks, which doesn’t solve anything. If we could discuss, perhaps we could all find common ground and solutions could emerge. Though perhaps that is admittedly wishful thinking |
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All this and low pay too!
https://twitter.com/abughazalehkat/status/1561845478534389760?t=D55ewe_IHXIky7fG76pe_A&s=19 |
Did you quote a tweet? I’m a private school teacher and this board is so biased. Many of us teach in private school for decent wages and less complaints than the myriad of public school teacher complaints. I’m not picketing for working air conditioning and small class size today. |
| Just checked our suburban VA private. No open teaching positions in upper or.lower school, not even for subs. |
Probably not the "decent wages." Come on. |
You're talking about the $40,000 and up schools, where the average student's parents are enormously wealthy and, among other things, the time value of money is such that those concierge services may well be worth it. The number of such schools is miniscule. The average private school tuition is ~$11,000. |
How many schools around here cost 11k? Even parochial is twice that for non-catholics |
I'm the PP you mentioned in this comment - and am glad that my comment was helpful. I fully agree with you - we are new to private, was a pandemic and um, un-budgeted decision for us - but one that was very needed for our kid post-covid who is an excellent student but not a fit for a big environment right now. Following up as your comment, as it really resonate me in thinking about the summer camp I and now my child attend. Completely agree that leading through community as you outline, rather than catering to this "concierge" mindset is what has drawn long term value, long kid waitlists and homegrown staff that competes for the roles as more people want to work there than they have spots in that example as well. Quite frankly, being able to build that type of environment is meaningful true leadership in my book, is "built to last". Thank you for your teaching and for sharing your thoughts as it helped to solidify what I want the right environment is for our family as we explore High School next year and to avoid so much of this "noise" (with our private as a contender, as we have been really pleased thus far). |
This is very helpful. Thanks. Everything you said makes sense. Teaching is an underpaid profession. |
I agree somewhat although I think the biggest issue is a lack of leadership. The concierge model often leads to pay-to-play dynamics and a degraded experience/community. It can take some time for the school's reputation to decline, but I agree with the PP teacher who stated that the concierge model isn't healthy in the long term and creates a muddled focus with the many fractured interests. Good management knows how to prioritize resources, has a clearly defined mission, has a vested interest in supporting employees well, and emphasizes an inclusive and warm community. |
as the parent of several students who graduated from area private schools, I can vouch for the truth of this statement! The concierge schools don't last. A school lasts when it knows itself and stands tall as such. Families who fit will come and help build a community dedicated to shared values. Families whose values are different can find another school that better matches their values. |
maybe she meant decent people? Parents, kids raised with manners and humility and who don’t treat teachers like staff? |
Where. Unless it’s Catholic, no school cost that in DC. Even HTS in Georgetown and St Peter’s on the Hill are almost $20k |