My 4 year old DS called me a moron today

[Anonymous]

He said it is what Daddy calls you, Mom. It hurts.

[Anonymous]

Wow, that is unfortunate.

[Anonymous]

Okay, at first I was going to say that's adorable---like when my son referred to something as asinine. Then I saw that he learned the word from your DH and I just want to choke the SOB on your behalf.

Not cool.

The idea that your son may pick up a general lack of respect for women from the way your husband treats you would be incredibly painful. Sorry, OP.

Time for a sit-down with DH. This has got to stop.

[Anonymous]

I was going to question why it took until 4 for your son to say something rude to you.

The problem is your H, not your son.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was going to question why it took until 4 for your son to say something rude to you.

The problem is your H, not your son.

The problem is her as well. Why the hell do women allow this crap until it becomes a problem, I have no idea....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He said it is what Daddy calls you, Mom. It hurts.

To me this says that your son hears it and knows it's wrong and feels sorry for you and angry at his dad. He doesn't know how to espress all that, however.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was going to question why it took until 4 for your son to say something rude to you.

The problem is your H, not your son.

The problem is her as well. Why the hell do women allow this crap until it becomes a problem, I have no idea....

Well, you marry what you think is a nice normal guy, and then you quit your job and have his baby, and he becomes an abusive a hole. How exactly do you recommend that OP stop "putting up" with his crap?

[Anonymous]

Wow. I'd take a nice week long trip away by myself for Christmas and let those two have each other.

[Anonymous]

OP, that sucks. Your DH sounds like a jerk. I don't care what the situation is, you don't call your spouse a moron, especially in front of the kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was going to question why it took until 4 for your son to say something rude to you.

The problem is your H, not your son.

The problem is her as well. Why the hell do women allow this crap until it becomes a problem, I have no idea....

Well, you marry what you think is a nice normal guy, and then you quit your job and have his baby, and he becomes an abusive a hole. How exactly do you recommend that OP stop "putting up" with his crap?

Take the child and yourself to the police station, file a report, have him arrested, stay with family members, you do what you have to do to protect yourself and your child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was going to question why it took until 4 for your son to say something rude to you.

The problem is your H, not your son.

The problem is her as well. Why the hell do women allow this crap until it becomes a problem, I have no idea....

Well, you marry what you think is a nice normal guy, and then you quit your job and have his baby, and he becomes an abusive a hole. How exactly do you recommend that OP stop "putting up" with his crap?

Take the child and yourself to the police station, file a report, have him arrested, stay with family members, you do what you have to do to protect yourself and your child.

She'll be laughed out of the station! Do you realize what cops see these days? To file a report claiming "my husband and son called me a moron" will get her nowhere.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was going to question why it took until 4 for your son to say something rude to you.

The problem is your H, not your son.

The problem is her as well. Why the hell do women allow this crap until it becomes a problem, I have no idea....

Well, you marry what you think is a nice normal guy, and then you quit your job and have his baby, and he becomes an abusive a hole. How exactly do you recommend that OP stop "putting up" with his crap?

Take the child and yourself to the police station, file a report, have him arrested, stay with family members, you do what you have to do to protect yourself and your child.

She'll be laughed out of the station! Do you realize what cops see these days? To file a report claiming "my husband and son called me a moron" will get her nowhere.

You are talking about "abuse" and abuse, verbal or physical, will be taken very seriously at the police station. Once again, remove yourself from the situation if it is that serious.

[Anonymous]

You are talking about "abuse" and abuse, verbal or physical, will be taken very seriously at the police station.

See, this is what happens when a locally-focused website leaks into national usage. I don't know where you're writing from, PP -- Lenexa, Kansas? Pleasant Hills, AZ? -- but here in the District of Columbia, your basic MPD officer will not give you the time of day if you complain about name calling that ends there. Not only that, you'll probably get a lecture on wasting their resources.

There were two carjackings in Ward 3 this week, did everyone catch that? Do they have carjackings where you live PP?

So simpering about your husband being a douche, well, no.

(and OP, you do have my sympathy, you really do.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

You are talking about "abuse" and abuse, verbal or physical, will be taken very seriously at the police station.

See, this is what happens when a locally-focused website leaks into national usage. I don't know where you're writing from, PP -- Lenexa, Kansas? Pleasant Hills, AZ? -- but here in the District of Columbia, your basic MPD officer will not give you the time of day if you complain about name calling that ends there. Not only that, you'll probably get a lecture on wasting their resources.

There were two carjackings in Ward 3 this week, did everyone catch that? Do they have carjackings where you live PP?

So simpering about your husband being a douche, well, no.

(and OP, you do have my sympathy, you really do.)

This is also what happens when crazed feminists start reading between the lines, looking for an opportunity to scream ABUSE at every turn.

If you think this statement alone is "abuse," 19:01, I have a bridge I'd love to sell you in Arizona....

[Anonymous]

You and H (definitely not DH) need to fix this. Your kid could grow up having problems with women. H is an ass. Don't let that ass get away with his shit or just kick him to the curb.