I am 35 and my libido is crazy

Anonymous
I got married very young (20) and honestly, sex was always a chore for me. My DH is 14 years older than me and he used to want it daily. I never enjoyed sex until I had my tubes tied at age 33. Now its like I can't get enough, and my poor DH just doesn't seem as interested as I do. It sucks! I wonder if this is normal or am I just weird?
Anonymous
If this is true I will tie my wifes tubes myself tonight
Anonymous
I did a 180 at around age 36. I'm not sure what happened. Ages 30-36--virtually no interest except maybe during ovulation (hormone surges and all that).

now--age 37 and I actually really want sex all the time. And I've been married to the same man for 10 years and have 3 kids.

I think it's definitely an age thing rather than a "having tubes tied" thing. I've heard this before about age (and I don't have my tubes tied).
Anonymous
If you're that way now, wait until you get to be around 45; that's when a lot of us started going crazy for sex!
Anonymous
bump
Anonymous
I am wondering if not having to worry about getting pregnant has something to do with it?
Anonymous
34 and horny as hell.
Anonymous
34 here and horny as hell.
Anonymous
I am 34 and have always had a very strong sex drive. I haven't noticed an increase yet, but if that happens... wowza!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If you're that way now, wait until you get to be around 45; that's when a lot of us started going crazy for sex!


I second this. You have no idea what crazy libido is until you hit your 40's!!!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you're that way now, wait until you get to be around 45; that's when a lot of us started going crazy for sex!


I second this. You have no idea what crazy libido is until you hit your 40's!!!



Really? I was worried that it would go down as I got older.
Anonymous
34 here, always had a strong sex drive but it's been ramping up like crazy the past few years, even after having a baby (when I thought the opposite would happen). I'm scared to hear that it could continue to get worse for another DECADE! My drive is already so much higher than DH's and it's very, very, frustrating.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you're that way now, wait until you get to be around 45; that's when a lot of us started going crazy for sex!


I second this. You have no idea what crazy libido is until you hit your 40's!!!



So true! I am 42 and never stop thinking about sex.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you're that way now, wait until you get to be around 45; that's when a lot of us started going crazy for sex!


I second this. You have no idea what crazy libido is until you hit your 40's!!!



So true! I am 42 and never stop thinking about sex.


Ditto, starting to understand men....
Anonymous
34 year old man here. Are you ladies actually looking to do something about the issue, or you just here to vent? Cause I might be able to help.
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