Yes, but if you are part of certain white DC circles, what you see is a world where white people are the homeowners and execs and the black people are the domestic help and the admin and building staff. |
Because people ARE still afraid of their Black neighbors in Potomac or McLean. My husband has gotten stopped by police (who've absolutely been called by neighbors a few streets over) and other "concerned citizens" several times in 3 years in our well-to-do neighborhood as he walks our dog. Our boys know that they are not allowed to jog down the street (a White person seeing a young, Black boy running is all kinds of trouble), wear hoodies or ski masks, or have their hands where people can't see them. We have to learn the best way to exist in a society that has created a narrative that we are violent and scary, no matter how much money we have. Culture is defined as social norm or custom of a group of people (e.g., celebrating holidays, eating certain foods, etc). Violence is a reaction - it can be an outcome of a socio-economic condition or survival mechanism, but it is not a part of the Black "culture." Just like school shootings aren't a part of the White "culture" (and please don't go into comparing school shooting numbers - the point is they are almost exclusively done by White people). If this was "cultural," shouldn't we assume that White people are culturally violent with all the stealing of land, stealing and enslaving of people, and years of burning and lynching that they've done (over centuries)? The last lynchings (that were literally watched for entertainment by White audiences) wasn't that long ago. But, no one makes that leap with White people, so why would you make that leap with Black people? |
Well, McLean is full of ass-hats. And VA is conservative. You wouldn’t have those issues in Silver Spring or Rockville. |
| After reading 14 pages of responses, I think the better question is "How can someone be born and raised in the DC area and NOT develop racist (or at least prejudiced) mindsets?" |
Very good point! Hmmm! |
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Ridiculous point. There is no single Black culture. There is no single White culture. There IS a very violent and misogynistic inner city gang culture that is embraced by many poor black people but not all. There IS a very violent and misogynistic rural white redneck culture that is embraced by many poor white people but not all. When a white person is fearful of black people that exhibit certain cultural signifiers that align with the violent gang subculture then people are reacting to more than just skin color alone. When a black person is fearful of white people that exhibit certain cultural signifiers that align with the racist and violent redneck subculture then they are reacting to more than just skin color alone. See? |
And the two subcultural elements you just described were both low-income. |
Exactly. Lower income people of all colors have far more in common with each other than they do with wealthy people of the same skin color. As long as we view everything as a result if racism we will never address the true causes of poverty and violence for all people. |
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Re: Low Income Communities. There’s low income white and black people working together in the same Government offices. They are coworkers, spending more hours together than with their own families. Does that just enforce the stereotypes or actually help them understand each other’s differences?
People are coming from Spotsylvania and Fredericksburg, Frederick and Clinton, McLean and Bethesda to the same office buildings. That’s not found in places in other parts of the country. |
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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8522121/Four-teens-attack-pregnant-mother-fly-kick-toddler-daughter.html
Blame the media. Stuff like this is shocking and prompts outrage and fear. Despite this sort of attack being rare, it quickly fosters a stereotype if you’ve seen it multiple times. Think about what’s covered on the evening news: crime and violence. Every night. And what does that do to your brain? To your biases? And, it’s universally low-income people. Their color depends upon your location: urban or rural. |
| OP have you seen the real estate forum? People look for school districts with the least numbers of Hispanics and AAs. |
There are also those of us who purposefully live in east county for the opposite reason. |
Yep...including people of color. Many upwardly mobile blacks and Latinos want their kids to go to less diverse schools (as opposed to schools where minorities are the majority). Why? Class. Socioeconomics. Nobody wants their kids surrounded by kids who aren’t planning to go to college. Diverse communities like MoCo don’t really have white flight anymore. Look at the demographics. Instead, you see families of all races and ethnicities scrambling to move west where zoning laws prevented the development of rentals or affordable housing. I’m convinced socioeconomics trumps race, yet we never talk about it. Perhaps because the wealthy people running our world don’t want us to get hip to economic inequality and seek to level the field? |
NP. This is so offensive. I didn’t go to college and I make mid-six figures. Go take your disastrous “Kids are bad if they aren’t go to college” or “College isn’t for everyone-but but that doesn’t apply to my kid” agenda elsewhere. |