Do rich men really desire skinny women?

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Anonymous wrote:What am I with my stats? 5’4, 144, 39/30/38. I don’t even know!


You need to lose about 15 to 20lbs. I’m 5’8” 138, 37/25/38 with a normal BMI . At 144, your BMI is overweight.


No. It is not.


Considering most people lie about their weight, BMI is still 25 which is considered overweight. Especially belly weight which is the cause of all kinds of health issues.


At 144, BMI is not overweight.


Unless you are training hard with a lot of muscle mass your weight is fine . But with a waist measurement at 30 I highly doubt it. But this is the mindset of women these days with the obesity epidemic. People are getting more and more excepting of being overweight and just don’t give a shit anymore. I’ve traveled to England, Ireland and the same there . Obesity population there was unbelievable. This one man knew rt away I was a tourist. I asked why, he said because I was so fit(size6), and we don’t see women like you much around here.


Apparently people are also getting more and more accepting of being illiterate. Maybe take some time away from the gym and from patting yourself on the back, and take a refresher course in the English language.


I think the “illiterate” poster will live a much longer healthier life than the overweight grammar police. Deflection as usual.


Sorry, no. I’m thin AND have an excellent grasp of the English language.
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I'm thin (120, 5'6", size two for the past 20 years, with the exception of two pregnancies and the 6 months following the births). Not saying it's good or bad, but I have experience with men who prefer skinny women, and at least one of them told me that he is grossed out by soft, fat bellies. I could feel that when I was a little bit out of shape, he wouldn't even touch the soft areas. That guy is now a very rich lawyer in the DC area.
(I didn't marry him btw. My husband is a total wonderful person who doesn't seem as picky about it and literally always says "you look gorgeous!" no matter how rough I look. I stay thin to look good on clothes and for everyone else, not him. Definitely happy that I had kids with a nicer person!)
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Anonymous wrote:My husband is rich and I know he doesn't desire a skinny woman - stick figures he calls them. I'm 5'6" and weigh 135 and while I'm sure he would prefer that I have bigger boobs he seems very happy with what I have.
At 5'6" and 135 pounds, you are just what men want. With some boobs and a nice bubble butt, we can even spot you another 10 pounds.


+1. That's nice and juicy
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I think there are two levels or types of men who like “thin” women. I also think these men have v different opinions of what thin actually means.

On the one hand there is a man who wants a woman of maybe a decent height, who is fairly fit and in shape. This could look like a size 0 or a size 8, but the actually thinness is more a value of fitness balanced with curves in the right spots and who appears pretty “thin”. This kind of guy appreciates the womanly aspects of a woman and I think will continue to love his wife/partner even during life’s fluctuations of ten pounds here, ten pounds there.

Then there is the guy who I actually think has some deep-seated mother issues or something. They like skinny skinny women. Like model skinny. No shorter than 5’7”/5’8” and has a hard time stomaching anything over 120. Might be genuinely turned off by rolls or cellulite. My BIL is one of these guys. It is honestly so weird. This kind of guy has no issue calling a woman fat, and might actually experience some revulsion if he sees wobbly parts. They love the collar bone, rib cage, hip bone situation.
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Anonymous wrote:I’m thin (size four) and curvy (DD boobs, big butt). I’m fit. My husband is an executive and we are very well-off. I don’t feel excluded from the very skinny white women in our circle, but I know I don’t look like them.


A size 4 isn’t what it used to be, more like a size 8 in the 1950’s. Just saying...


Did you wear adult clothes in the 1950s???
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Anonymous wrote:My daughter nearly died from an eating disorder. She spent four months in an inpatient facility. She has been in recovery for 18 months, thankfully. At 5’7 and 90 pounds she still wasn’t “skinny enough”. I blame every single woman on this thread fat shaming others, including the OP. You have no idea the damage you do. You have no idea who might be reading this thread. And yes, as women, we are fuking responsible for each other.

And before you fat shame me, I’m 53 years old, 5’5 and 115 pounds. I don’t diet. I eat like a horse. It’s genetics. I am naturally thin. That doesn’t make me better than my 200 pound friend.


I am so sorry about what your daughter went through. I went through something similar in my teens and twenties and agree that the fat shaming and sense of moral superiority based on physical size is deranged.

I have a daughter now and I have realized in the last few years (she is still young) how incredible important it is to throw out and divorce myself from any belief that my value or any woman’s value is linked to their body shape or size. I recovered from my eating disorder years ago but after having a baby I realized I had held on to some lingering beliefs and still aspired to be thin.

Working on letting go of these beliefs and embracing how much important it is to nourish and care for the wellness and fitness of my body, and to embrace my body at whatever size that takes me, is something I am going for myself but also for my daughter. I know if I cannot truly love myself at any size then I am that much less likely to imbue such values onto my daughter. I don’t ever ever want her to experience the self-loathing, fear or food and fear of weight gain I experienced.

It is so important for women to truly stand up for one another. I appreciate your post and I truly believe that whatever size each poster is, I hope that you have love for your self. This is your one life and one body. F the rest and enjoy it. I wish you a man (or whatever your partner preference is) that can truly love you for every size you need to be to be healthy.
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Anonymous wrote:Went to gtown waterfront last night.. didnt see anyone larger than size 4.


Surprised you saw anyone
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Anonymous wrote:Actually the average American women is now a size 16-18. Sad. Having a partner that is not overweight is a smart choice considering health, reproducing, and longevity. But being thin and in shape shows dedication and self control- both which I would see as positive characteristic.


I fact-checked this and you are correct. What I find odd is that the average size is 16-18, yet the average weight is 170 lbs. A 170lb woman is not a size 16-18. 170lbs = about a size 12. A woman would have to be 200+ lbs to be a size 16-18.


You do realize that women come in different heights, right? You speak as though we are all one height. I am 5’2” and 170 on me would absolutely be a 16.
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Anonymous wrote:Rich men marry skinny women. They have affairs with curvy women. Sexy = trashy & low class

(I don't feel this way, but unfortunately many do.)


This is, unfortunately, how it's viewed in DC. It's the opposite in Los Angeles and most major cities, where it's seen as high class to be able to afford a truly beautiful/sexy woman. But in DC, strangely, it can work against you to be notably beautiful or "sexy". SO that woman with a very cute face who was born with an hourglass knockout figure, anywhere else, would be highly sought after. In DC she will probably be treated as a low class social pariah, unless she takes steps to make herself look as frumpy and shapeless as possible.

it's that old "marrying Jackie will look a lot better for politics than marrying Marilyn"
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Anonymous wrote:...Does anyone else suspect that there is a DCUM out there who recently got dumped for a thin woman? There are a few too many threads questioning how any man "could possibly be attracted to a thin woman?!" It is all a big DUH to 90% of the population.

I'm sorry for your loss OP, please don't take it out on anyone other than your sack of shit partner.


No, it's too desperate. It's a woman who bet everything on "iron will" would make her skinny and get the man of her dreams, but still no guys are paying her the attention she thinks she deserves. And it pisses her off, so she's going to tell herself it's just a matter of time, and all those less-skinny whores will get their comeuppance.

But no matter how loud you yell at them, men won't like you just because you've convinced yourself they should. If you have to try this hard, there is something off about you that skinny won't hide.


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This reminds me of the current season of Below Deck where the very skinny woman is outraged that the man she has a crush on is obsessed/pursuing a woman who is more fuller figured. And she keeps dropping comments about how she's more fit or hotter or anything else. And the guy wants nothing to do with her
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Anonymous wrote:Very rich men marry women who are skinny because other rich men’s wives are skinny and the wives control social opportunities to network. If your wife isn’t accepted because is not skinny enough or she is too young or the “wrong kind of brown”, you are screwed.


This is a fantasy concocted in your mind.
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Anonymous wrote:I think it depends what culture/ethnicity the rich man is from.
In the Caucasian culture, yes, thin is preferred. In many other cultures a bit of "heft" is preferred in women.

Consider that in your dating choices if you are on the heavier side as a woman.


Even that is changing in white culture. The Kardashians have been the standard of beauty for the past ten years or so.

IMO Addison Rae is probably the sex symbol for young white men, and she's definitely not skinny. Not overweight either- probably in the "normal" BMI category, or a bit thicc.

Her body is about what I see young men really losing it over and "simping" for. I came up in the early 2000s when it was all about being very thin. I think all those girls now would not fit the beauty ideal. Now it's all about being "thicc" or "slim thicc" and having some "meat on your bones".
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It’s all about that WAP.
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Anonymous wrote:I think it depends what culture/ethnicity the rich man is from.
In the Caucasian culture, yes, thin is preferred. In many other cultures a bit of "heft" is preferred in women.

Consider that in your dating choices if you are on the heavier side as a woman.


Even that is changing in white culture. The Kardashians have been the standard of beauty for the past ten years or so.

IMO Addison Rae is probably the sex symbol for young white men, and she's definitely not skinny. Not overweight either- probably in the "normal" BMI category, or a bit thicc.

Her body is about what I see young men really losing it over and "simping" for. I came up in the early 2000s when it was all about being very thin. I think all those girls now would not fit the beauty ideal. Now it's all about being "thicc" or "slim thicc" and having some "meat on your bones".


I am an older millennial and grew up during the heroin chic Kate moss era where we drank Fresca and ate a bowl of cucumbers for lunch. THIS is SO much healthier than that. Thank goodness was for this. I, as a grown a$$ woman am grateful that this is what is being boosted nowadays.
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