Let me get this straight. You could care less about AAP. The thread just popped up on Recent Topics. And so read all 12 pages. Then hopped onto the thread to insult AAP parents. Then checked back later and defend yourself? Seems like you care quite a bit actually. And already have a firm view about the evils of gifted education. Which means you are probably not at all happy about Larlo's NNAT score. Please. Just do everyone a favor and move to Arlington. You'll be happier, we'll be happier. It's win-win. |
Since when was 14% the vast middle of anything? |
Well put. |
Um, no. |
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14 pages in, it's striking that GE parents hate AAP, but they can't really string together a rational reason. AAP helps the kids in AAP, is good for FCPS, is good for the county, probably brings in more money than it costs to bus the kids, takes nothing away from GE kids, except a subset of the students that the GE parents loudly disparage as unexceptional at best and socially awkward disruptive troublemakers at worst. And, in general, the FCPS GE curriculum is very good-- stronger than most of the country and comparable to APS. So the problem is???
It seems like lots of DCUM over privileged helicopter type parents have bumped up against a major area where they can't buy or do "the best" for Larla for the first time ever. With AAP in play, they have to settle for something less prestigious for Larla in the area of education. And it's not that they need FCPS GE to be better for their kid (or they would focus on that). They just don't want there to be something perceived as "better" they don't get. Even if it's not better for their specific kid-- they still have live with their friends and neighbors knowing that they were not invited to the party. And it's sad-- because the kids really don't care who has the harder spelling list or math worksheet. But it eats the parents alive, and they turn around and make their kids miserable. |
I would agree with this but for the fact that you don't shy away at all from ascribing a uniform set of views to "GE parents," as if all GE parents think and act the same. It creates the impression that you'd be more than happy to band together with all the other AAP parents and have a good laugh about the angst-ridden, bummed-out GE parents whose kids didn't quite make the cut. A more nuanced view would allow for the possibility that, DCUM diatribes notwithstanding, most parents of GE kids are find with their kids being in the GE program and that, conversely, there are more than a handful of AAP parents who bend every rule in the book just so that their own Larlas can be part of the AAP program and afford them local bragging rights. |
Most GE parents probably could care less about AAP. Their kid is in a good place and that's what's important to them. The ones bash AAP 24/7 on DCUM on the other hand.... I have never heard an AAP parent laugh because a GE parent upset that their kid was not admitted. It's the GE parents tearing apart the program-- and the kids who attend the program-- that are hard to stomach. |
Two things: Wow, just wow, that your response to inequity in a public system is that it's not going to change (and you thank God for that). Secondly, you're wrong. This program will change. You'll start to see the level IV option offered in more schools and the busing option go away in these cases. Within these schools you'll start to see the AAP curriculum offered to all kids (as it already is in some McLean schools). Then you will have to find another way to feel superior and special. May I suggest a private school where you can rightly pay for this privilege. |
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Two things: Wow, just wow, that your response to inequity in a public system is that it's not going to change (and you thank God for that). Secondly, you're wrong. This program will change. You'll start to see the level IV option offered in more schools and the busing option go away in these cases. Within these schools you'll start to see the AAP curriculum offered to all kids (as it already is in some McLean schools). Then you will have to find another way to feel superior and special. May I suggest a private school where you can rightly pay for this privilege. My youngest just started MS, so we are getting our kids out before any changes hit, but I don't think you understand how the LLIV rollout is working. They are not expanding LLIV, as much as they are creating Centers in schools that can field a full class of AAP. That's a great thing for AAP kids. They don't have to bus or change schools. And unlike with LLIV, the schools cannot pupil place GE kids to fill out the AAP classes in the new centers. Let Level III kids in in qualified subjects, yes. But they can't principal place-- at least not in the Cooper and now Thoreau new Centers. So, the classes aren't being diluted with GE kids that haven't been screened. The nice things is that the AAP Centers affected-- are often overcrowded, and this relieves that. AAP kids in the larger Centers are often in large classes (30+ kids). This will help with that too. Carson is up next-- which would be great because they are incredibly overcrowded, and can easily send 200 AAP kids to Franklin. And I agree. If an ES, like Lees Corner, is sending 20 kids to a Center (plus they retain some kids in AAP kids in LLIV and fill that out with principal placement), or 100 kids at the MS level, there is no reason that those kids just can't make one class at the base school. By virtue of a move, I have had kids in an LLIV Center that had a class that was 100% AAP, and a larger Center. And I actually think the LLIV is worse on the GE kids. Rather than moving to another school, their 2nd grade friends who qualify are right there in a "special class." They stay with the same kids for 4 years, while the other kids get random class assignments. The AAP kids end up being a tight knit group, very cliquey, and in a small school everyone knows who they are. The GE parents at our LLIV were very unhappy about the one special classroom phenomenon. And many had their kids retested privately and referred every year to get their kids in. In the Center school that was half GE, half AAP, the kids classroom assignments changed each year so the kids were less likely to make cliques. The kids mixed together a lot more and did not self segregate as much. BTW-- this was true of the parents too. In the Center, AAP was more normal, and the APP kids did not stand out the way they did in the LLIV, so the atmosphere was not as toxic. If I were GE. I would much rather have 25 kids leave my school for a Center than be right their in a special, often smaller, class that my kid still couldn't access. And generally with the "best" teacher in the grade each year, because the strong teachers are the ones the administration encourages to get AAP certified. Maybe you will be happy when you local ES becomes a Center GE kids have no access to. I loved that for my AAP kid. The smaller classes, shorter bus ride, always getting the best teacher, always having your best friend in your class. It was great. I would have been unhappy as a GE parent in that situation, and thought that they had legitimate grievances. And they had a lot of grievances. But YMMV. |
| I wonder if those that are bashing the system would still bash it if their children were admitted by the seat of their pants. |
Thank you pp. excellent post. The AAP parents on this thread uniformly come off as bitter and threatened. They can't fathom that their kid might be contributing to the AAP bloat that is rampant in ffx county They are upset because it threatens their very core. Their identities depend on them be the most brilliant in every situation. It can't possibly be that they are not the smartest? Could it? No! |
I haven't read all of the posts on the earlier pages, but I did get sucked in when the AAP parents started chiming in with insults. I'm anti-bully like that. "Evils of gifted education." My DH and I were both in GT programs as children so definitely not opposed to GT in general. Just questioning how it's been implemented here (not really a gifted program). Anyway, we are leaning towards Arlington to cut down on commute so you might get your wish. |
I'm a Gen Ed parent and you are the one here sounding pathologically bitter. If I were you, I would try to avoid making statements about how wrapped up other people's identities are wrapped up in AAP. Seriously, you need to get a life. |
My youngest just started MS, so we are getting our kids out before any changes hit, but I don't think you understand how the LLIV rollout is working. They are not expanding LLIV, as much as they are creating Centers in schools that can field a full class of AAP. That's a great thing for AAP kids. They don't have to bus or change schools. And unlike with LLIV, the schools cannot pupil place GE kids to fill out the AAP classes in the new centers. Let Level III kids in in qualified subjects, yes. But they can't principal place-- at least not in the Cooper and now Thoreau new Centers. So, the classes aren't being diluted with GE kids that haven't been screened. The nice things is that the AAP Centers affected-- are often overcrowded, and this relieves that. AAP kids in the larger Centers are often in large classes (30+ kids). This will help with that too. Carson is up next-- which would be great because they are incredibly overcrowded, and can easily send 200 AAP kids to Franklin. And I agree. If an ES, like Lees Corner, is sending 20 kids to a Center (plus they retain some kids in AAP kids in LLIV and fill that out with principal placement), or 100 kids at the MS level, there is no reason that those kids just can't make one class at the base school. By virtue of a move, I have had kids in an LLIV Center that had a class that was 100% AAP, and a larger Center. And I actually think the LLIV is worse on the GE kids. Rather than moving to another school, their 2nd grade friends who qualify are right there in a "special class." They stay with the same kids for 4 years, while the other kids get random class assignments. The AAP kids end up being a tight knit group, very cliquey, and in a small school everyone knows who they are. The GE parents at our LLIV were very unhappy about the one special classroom phenomenon. And many had their kids retested privately and referred every year to get their kids in. In the Center school that was half GE, half AAP, the kids classroom assignments changed each year so the kids were less likely to make cliques. The kids mixed together a lot more and did not self segregate as much. BTW-- this was true of the parents too. In the Center, AAP was more normal, and the APP kids did not stand out the way they did in the LLIV, so the atmosphere was not as toxic. If I were GE. I would much rather have 25 kids leave my school for a Center than be right their in a special, often smaller, class that my kid still couldn't access. And generally with the "best" teacher in the grade each year, because the strong teachers are the ones the administration encourages to get AAP certified. Maybe you will be happy when you local ES becomes a Center GE kids have no access to. I loved that for my AAP kid. The smaller classes, shorter bus ride, always getting the best teacher, always having your best friend in your class. It was great. I would have been unhappy as a GE parent in that situation, and thought that they had legitimate grievances. And they had a lot of grievances. But YMMV. Thanks for this perspective. It makes a lot of sense to me based on my experience in the FCPS GT program, back before it was AAP when it was a much smaller group. At that time, centers were more like what it sounds like LLIV is now, where there was one class per grade of GT and the GT classes were pretty segregated from the rest of the school. The clique thing especially rings true to me, because we did basically have exactly the same kids in the class each year through 6th grade. The difference between then and LLIV is that those were centers so each class had kids from multiple schools, vs. LLIV centers now where the kids are all from the base school. I can see how the special class all from kids in the base school could make the segregation and competition even worse. I hadn't really thought of the parallels before. DD is just starting 3rd grade in the same center school that I went to. I'm definitely curious to see how similar/different the experience is for her. I believe there are 3 AAP classes in each grade at her center. I'll admit that I was surprised when I found out how expanded the program is now, but I certainly don't have enough experience yet to judge whether it is better or worse. I did feel like the screening process now felt a lot more competitive/awkward, and I felt really bad for the parents of DD's friends who were pushing so hard to get in unsuccessfully. It would be great if FFX could expand the curriculum more broadly. But the fact of the matter is, whether the program is small like it was before or more inclusive like it is now, there are always going to be kids who are selected and kids who aren't. And it is always going to create segmentation and some tension and conflict. IMO, better for the conflict to be among the parents than the kids, though. |
If you want to play referee (and why would you??? It's a lost cause), you should at least read the whole thread. The GE parents have a world of nasty going on as well. Starting with the title/ premise of the thread. This was not designed to be a thoughtful, rational discussion about the weaknesses of the system, and how to make improvements. Although there are some thoughtful posts about how improve the system from both sides, they got quickly over run with personal insults. This thread was started to bash AAP, and early posters complied. After 7-8 pages of AAP bashing, AAP parents started pushing back. It's hard to believe someone would read the title and a handful of posts at the end and decide that AAP parents are bullies. At this point in the thread, both sides are pretty equally culpable. |