We understand perfectly well. What is your end game? If it's having a kid ready for college and getting into an amazing college with money, Banneker is it. If you want your kid to be like every other lilly white kid from DC, they'll all be lumped into that same pile. |
I am not a Howard grad, but I beg to differ. Howard grads go on to amazing and respected careers. Do all schools have issues, absolutely. Are there diamonds at every school, absolutely. I think the new President is really great. |
PP here, I think you make a great point. If you don't mind sharing, where does your son attend now? |
I would have to agree. My husband and best friend are Howard grads along with a few other people I know. They are all doing well! |
DeMatha. Love it. They really get boys and acknowledge and try to get the parents to understand that you don't see the glimmer of maturity until 11th grade. What do you know, my son went from Cs to As this year. |
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Oh, please, grow up. Same as no one in this thread has said Banneker students are all ghetto; don't assume (much less say) everyone who chooses not to go there is just "other lilly white kid." |
DeMatha really gets boys because DeMatha has been an all boys school since its inception. The same could be said for Gonzaga. DeMatha really doesn't have a magic potion for boys' success other than being an all boys school. |
The logic here escapes me. Sounds like a classic case of "practice makes perfect," as opposed to a mix of cluelessness and indifference at Banneker. |
How about you stop with your angry reflexive reactions and accusations of malicious intent when clearly someone is just stating their feelings? PP isn't the first one to mention the "gate-crashing" theme - and the post they responded to certainly showed no welcoming attitude, but was quite aggressively worded. You don't need formal discrimination (nobody ever claimed that was the case) to worry about being viewed as a gate-crasher. And remember the PP who said she liked Cleveland because "all" the high-achievers were black? Even if she didn't really mean that she doesn't want ANY whites at her school, she made it clear that she would not want the school to become majority white. As long as sentiments like that are alive (on both sides), we will never truly achieve integration. |
Sorry PP, I know that for you the truth hurts. Just because others have erroneously stated the "gate crashing accusation" does not make it true. It's just another malicious or intentional lie spread without a shred of facts or evidence. And if you are going to use the Cleveland poster to bolster your lies, you should at least attempt to be forthright and use her entire posts in their entirety. Your cherry picking what you want to read and breathe life into speaks volumes. |
I really don't think you are helping your cause by continuing to accuse PPs of "lies" and malicious intent. What truth are you talking about, based on what facts or evidence? And what is the lie here? That whites are concerned about not being welcome at an all-black school? They may be wrong worrying about that, but getting angry and hurling insults at them is not going to change those feelings, and your fervent denial of any basis for this widespread concern is preposterous. |
So what, exactly, is the basis for the "widespread" concern about white children attending a majority AA school? Would you find it an equally valid for Black parents to feel the same way about their child attending a majority white school? |
PP, I don't think you know what the word "lie" means. A lie is a statement that the person who makes it knows is false. In this case, the people you are talking to actually believe they have a reason to be concerned. Whether they are right or not is another question, but calling what they are saying a lie, even a "malicious" one, is, well, malicious. I happen to believe that there is no reason to worry about this issue at Banneker, but it is disingenuous to pretend that anybody who is concerned about this must be intentionally lying because there is never any anti-white sentiment among AA. |
+1. I prefer to assume that the poster above doesn't represent the majority views at Banneker. |