And what standards are these “high quality” privates held to? |
Other than accusing your opponents of being MAGA, what’s your solution? |
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But vouchers historically don't actually help anyone go to private school. If vouchers are for $5000, the price of tuition at the private schools goes up nearly $5000. It's just padding the profits for private, often religious based schools.
Private schools are also allowed to deny admission as they see fit. Your child with behavioral issues or learning disabilities that isn't thriving in public school isnt going to get into private and now they're going to be stuck in underfunded public schools with all of the other kids whose parents couldn't afford to send them to private or couldn't get in because of their own behavioral or learning issues. Private schools have "better results" because they are selective over who they admit. If you can't test well and are going to bring their numbers down, you're dropped from the program. Sure, having a cohort of other intelligent kids can motivate many kids to do better but there is no private school magic that makes the learning better other than exclusion of everyone who would hold their scores back. |
In any post I have put up, I have very carefully said that you aren’t MAGA. Your solution however uses a similar thought process. Early Release: Look if my kid came home saying they had been on a lap top for 3 hours, I would contact the school. I would request that my child read a book and be allowed outside during that block so they switch groups. I would look for camps like code ninja or martial arts programs that pick up from school for those days. I would also escalate as necessary. Principal, executive principal, etc if that continued. Keep in mind if your kid is in elementary, that may be the last thing they did or the most salient in their minds. Redistricting: Personally, I’m biding my time until the next maps come out. Then it is full frontal assault. Keep pinging them on WHY they want this. Join the facebook group fairfacts. Email your area BRAC members, school board. Keep the pressure on. Talk about how beleaguered we are as a county and how they can’t possibly have accurate enrollment information with the unemployment and deportments. Pressure has worked to have them lessen the scope and allow grandfathering. Keep it up. Alienating parents: I think not have homework is a huge issue because we as parents don’t know what our kids are doing and what they need help with. Make it mandatory. Sure some will hate this, but weekly homework issued on Monday and due on Friday keeps parents informed. It would go a long way to establish connection between home and school. |
I keep seeing this point made, and just want to ask, are you unaware of several really excellent and well regarded private schools in the area which *specifically* serve 2E and other children with learning disabilities? Or are you ignoring them because they don’t help your point? |
And do those school have space? Will the vouchers be enough to offset the enormous cost of those programs to the average family? There are some private schools that serve 2E kids (I personally know 2 families that utilize them) but there's nowhere near enough space or qualified teachers in those programs to absorb even 5% of FCPS in addition to their current student load. They would also still be selective over which 2E kids they admit and not all kids who have behavioral issues or learning disabilities are 2E. It's not going to be a solution for the vast majority of families in FCPS. Why would we gut public funding for schools and throw our tax dollars into private schools over something that doesnt even benefit the vast majority of people? |
My kid is high performing without any known learning disability/issues. And we can relatively easily afford private school, even the ones that rival college tuition. I never thought in a million years that I’d consider private school. I was a public school kid and believe in the value of that system. I believe that teachers should be paid a lot more than they are. But when the school board actively goes after my families and my neighbors because we are in a certain neighborhood and they use our kids as their resources to deploy to try to help other kids, that’s the point I say “no thanks.” And it’s because of that betrayal that I would reluctantly become an opponent of the public school system that I have always supported. I guess in a way this will become my villain backstory. |
I agree with you on homework (within reason and appropriate). On early dismissal you seem to miss the part where Reid lied to parents in 2025, took no parental feedback before the 2026 decision, and now you think it’s on parents to scramble to fix it at their own expense. This is the alienation point: if I’m taking PTO or paying for additional services to cover what is already supposed to be educational time, the school is already failed. Yes parents can mitigate the failure, but everything you suggested to mitigate the failure is a private option. If you’re saying I need to pay private organizations to educate my child…why wouldn’t I just take a voucher to offset the cost of paying a private organization to educate my child? |
| That is very narrow thinking. |
I feel the same way. I have family members who teach public school. I feel like FCPS has fundamentally lost its way in understanding its relationship to parents, BECAUSE liberal parents are so supportive of public schools. Now it’s like an abusive relationship where the abuser keeps saying you “make them” hit you. |
No I didn’t say that privates were the only option. I said to make a complaint and escalate first. I would absolutely do this repeatedly if was contemplating taking time off work over sending my kid to the aftercare. Another idea, ask one of your kids friends/parents if they can come over and the reciprocate another day. If you are unable to see that paying a private program for 40 hours a year for supplemental activities is different than paying a years worth of academic tuition I’m not sure we are agreeing on how math works. To you “Reid lied to us” point all school systems in the area “lied” because they were all scrambling last year. This year we were told well before summer. Early release PD days are common in most school districts. |
| Vouchers are just the natural outcome of the rapid urbanization of a suburban area. Poverty increases and people with money start considering other options. This is a normal progression. |
I can guarantee that you wouldn’t feel so alienated if we had homework. Not having homework establishes this disconnect where you don’t see anything your kid is working on and you have to blindly trust the school that they are educating your kid. As a parent we want to SEE the progress our kids are making. It is the biggest mistake school systems have made in the last few years. After pulling homework we start to question everything because we are running as blind “partners” Offer it and parents will feel much more connected and secure in their child’s education. |
I don’t know that I consider May “well before summer” or that five minutes at the end of a board meeting constitutes communication but sure. You can feel satisfied by that if you want. The lie was that last year was the only year we were doing it, and that we “had” to. Now here we are. You feel satisfied, I feel disrespected and alienated. We both get the same number of votes in an election and so the school needs to figure out how to get people while feel like I do to pull the lever for them. And this isn’t a math problem, so much as a roles issue. Yes, I can take PTO, or organize playdates, but the point is that my child is wasting eight days they’re supposed to be learning. If I want them to be learning on those eight days, your point is I should pay a private organization to make sure they’re learning. My point is if I am responsible for finding a private organization to educate my child eight of the days FCPS is already responsible for doing so, why don’t I just find one organization for the other 172 as well? |
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