Disagreement over breast implants

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Anonymous wrote:There is so-called “natural looking breast augmentation”. The size of chosen implants matters ! Of it’s too big for your body, it increases the complications . Small implants will enhance it cosmetically and will have lower risks.

I’m sure these women were happy with their results:

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/41940

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/47781

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/40134

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/46087






These are natural looking


Oh, honey, no. No, they're not. At all. They're not cartoonish, but they're not natural either. Every single one of these is an example of a woman who felt ashamed she didn't have pornoboobs and bought herself a pair, but "tasteful" not gigantic. They're fake AF, and you'll be able to tell even when she's clothed.

If you want them, fine. But let's not lie about what's real and what's not. The boobs on the left in each of those comparisons are "real boobs" and the boobs on the right are "artificially-enhanced/augmented boobs". Period. They do not look real, and won't feel real, because they're not real.



Handful in my circle to include friends and family have had all types of elective cosmetic procedures.

Self included. I have implants. I don’t feel that way. I like my implants, my husband likes my implants. My implants look good to me.

Why such emphasis on whether they’re real or not ?

Do you call people out on what they’ve have done ? You kno like you hair color ? Nails? Fake knees and hips?

I have no problem sharing they’re not real. Hardstop

However, who’s inquiring? it’s not something anyone has ever asked.

Also our two young adult kids are aware. They’ve never shared - as it’s simply nothing to discuss.

Is that ok Honey ?



Assuming you're the pp in the thread... "If you want them, fine. But let's not lie about what's real and what's not."

What part did you miss? And are you aware of how ridiculously defensive and upset you sound?

If your hair is fake, I'm not going to point it out, no... unless you start some nonsense about how it looks natural, in which case, yes, I'm going to address the fact that you lie (and seem a little delusional).


Yikes! You’re mean.

She’s just insecure because her husband stares at the women with attractive boobs. Fake or not.


Ah, yes. The kindness crew continues their subthread. Y'all are trash, and fake af. The plastiboobs are just beacons to warn away higher-integrity people, I guess.


Why are you so angry ? These pictured boobs do look nice “after”, fake or not.


Nobody's saying they don't look nice. People are pointing out that the look (and feel) like what they are: fake.

Some people who can't handle that are now lashing out at the people pointing out the basic reality of fake boobs being fake. There's a lot of projection flying around this thread.
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My wife got hers, but the attention they brought additional attention. She still calls me crying and begging for a chance to have our family back after her cheating. I hope you are a better woman.
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Anonymous wrote:There is so-called “natural looking breast augmentation”. The size of chosen implants matters ! Of it’s too big for your body, it increases the complications . Small implants will enhance it cosmetically and will have lower risks.

I’m sure these women were happy with their results:

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/41940

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/47781

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/40134

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/46087






These are natural looking


Oh, honey, no. No, they're not. At all. They're not cartoonish, but they're not natural either. Every single one of these is an example of a woman who felt ashamed she didn't have pornoboobs and bought herself a pair, but "tasteful" not gigantic. They're fake AF, and you'll be able to tell even when she's clothed.

If you want them, fine. But let's not lie about what's real and what's not. The boobs on the left in each of those comparisons are "real boobs" and the boobs on the right are "artificially-enhanced/augmented boobs". Period. They do not look real, and won't feel real, because they're not real.



Handful in my circle to include friends and family have had all types of elective cosmetic procedures.

Self included. I have implants. I don’t feel that way. I like my implants, my husband likes my implants. My implants look good to me.

Why such emphasis on whether they’re real or not ?

Do you call people out on what they’ve have done ? You kno like you hair color ? Nails? Fake knees and hips?

I have no problem sharing they’re not real. Hardstop

However, who’s inquiring? it’s not something anyone has ever asked.

Also our two young adult kids are aware. They’ve never shared - as it’s simply nothing to discuss.

Is that ok Honey ?



Assuming you're the pp in the thread... "If you want them, fine. But let's not lie about what's real and what's not."

What part did you miss? And are you aware of how ridiculously defensive and upset you sound?

If your hair is fake, I'm not going to point it out, no... unless you start some nonsense about how it looks natural, in which case, yes, I'm going to address the fact that you lie (and seem a little delusional).


Yikes! You’re mean.

She’s just insecure because her husband stares at the women with attractive boobs. Fake or not.


Ah, yes. The kindness crew continues their subthread. Y'all are trash, and fake af. The plastiboobs are just beacons to warn away higher-integrity people, I guess.

Jealousy is not a good look.


+1 too bad there is no elective surgery to fix that jealousy .. UGH!


People who are insecure love this narrative of others being "jealous" of them/their life/their spouse/their boobs... If other people are jealous of the thing, it must be worth having. I'm not jealous of fake boobs. I've had plenty of opportunities to play with them, and if I wanted a pair, I can afford them. So no, my pointing out the reality of their appearance (fake boobs are fake) isn't "jealousy", and alleging an anon is jealous of you only reveals your continued insecurity.

It's relevant to the thread: People who get surgery to "fix" their perceived "flaws" don't fix the psychology that caused them to see their otherwise-healthy bodies as "flawed" in the first place. Women over 40 who have had kids won't naturally have the breast form/structure of a teen/twentysomething. That's not a flaw, it's a simple reality.
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Anonymous wrote:I think the biggest problem on this thread is that women don't seem to know what boobs should look like. Men may not either, especially with the porn they watch, but if any woman reading this thinks any of the linked "after" pics look real, well, sorry you got brainwashed by airbrushed beauty mags and actresses with implants.

If you have a teens boobs in your thirties, nobody is going to think it's because of diet and exercise. If you have a teen's boobs in your 40s or beyond, people will think you're vain af and somewhat disordered. After that, nobody probably cares much about your boobs, so you might as well just let them be natural boobs.


Sorry but if a woman wants to feel more beautiful and don’t have saggy boobs it’s her choice. She doesn’t owe you or any crazed feminists to continue suffering in silence. Particular if 90% of people won’t tell if the boobs are real or not. I bet this pictured woman would agree with me:

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/40912

She WANTED their photo published to tell other women that life doesn’t end with deflated boobs after 40.
That's well worth whatever she paid. Dr. did a great job. I'm sure she is happy with them.
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Anonymous wrote:Mine look very similar to this, still small and simply raised by the hidden implant. (but I had a larger chest before the procedure):

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/46089


That's not a natural-looking shape, even in your early 20s. It's definitely not a natural shape at 45.


Not sure about your boobs but mine looked exactly like that in my 20s before the breastfeeding


Right and if you are middled aged, they look fake AF. Because that’s what happens with boobs- they lose volume and firmness. So no, it’s not natural to be 45-50 and have boobs that look like that.
You must not have seen many in real life. Plenty of women in their 50s, especially the ones with smaller boobs still have that level of firmness. My current GF is 50 and has had 5 kids and her boobs are firm as hell. They don't all sag although the larger ones do have a shorter shelf life.
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Anonymous wrote:There is so-called “natural looking breast augmentation”. The size of chosen implants matters ! Of it’s too big for your body, it increases the complications . Small implants will enhance it cosmetically and will have lower risks.

I’m sure these women were happy with their results:

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/41940

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/47781

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/40134

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/46087






These are natural looking


Yes they are not the bolt on balloons of the 80s and 90s but they look fake. There's a way natural breasts sit that can't be replicated. I'm pretty much in the camp of do what makes you happy.

When it comes to op I think it's worth waiting, researching and talking more about it with her husband. .


They look uncomfortable!
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Anonymous wrote:I think the biggest problem on this thread is that women don't seem to know what boobs should look like. Men may not either, especially with the porn they watch, but if any woman reading this thinks any of the linked "after" pics look real, well, sorry you got brainwashed by airbrushed beauty mags and actresses with implants.

If you have a teens boobs in your thirties, nobody is going to think it's because of diet and exercise. If you have a teen's boobs in your 40s or beyond, people will think you're vain af and somewhat disordered. After that, nobody probably cares much about your boobs, so you might as well just let them be natural boobs.


Sorry but if a woman wants to feel more beautiful and don’t have saggy boobs it’s her choice. She doesn’t owe you or any crazed feminists to continue suffering in silence. Particular if 90% of people won’t tell if the boobs are real or not. I bet this pictured woman would agree with me:

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/40912

She WANTED their photo published to tell other women that life doesn’t end with deflated boobs after 40.
That's well worth whatever she paid. Dr. did a great job. I'm sure she is happy with them.


You don't have to get implants to achieve that
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Anonymous wrote:There is so-called “natural looking breast augmentation”. The size of chosen implants matters ! Of it’s too big for your body, it increases the complications . Small implants will enhance it cosmetically and will have lower risks.

I’m sure these women were happy with their results:

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/41940

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/47781

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/40134

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/46087






These are natural looking


Oh, honey, no. No, they're not. At all. They're not cartoonish, but they're not natural either. Every single one of these is an example of a woman who felt ashamed she didn't have pornoboobs and bought herself a pair, but "tasteful" not gigantic. They're fake AF, and you'll be able to tell even when she's clothed.

If you want them, fine. But let's not lie about what's real and what's not. The boobs on the left in each of those comparisons are "real boobs" and the boobs on the right are "artificially-enhanced/augmented boobs". Period. They do not look real, and won't feel real, because they're not real.



Handful in my circle to include friends and family have had all types of elective cosmetic procedures.

Self included. I have implants. I don’t feel that way. I like my implants, my husband likes my implants. My implants look good to me.

Why such emphasis on whether they’re real or not ?

Do you call people out on what they’ve have done ? You kno like you hair color ? Nails? Fake knees and hips?

I have no problem sharing they’re not real. Hardstop

However, who’s inquiring? it’s not something anyone has ever asked.

Also our two young adult kids are aware. They’ve never shared - as it’s simply nothing to discuss.

Is that ok Honey ?



Assuming you're the pp in the thread... "If you want them, fine. But let's not lie about what's real and what's not."

What part did you miss? And are you aware of how ridiculously defensive and upset you sound?

If your hair is fake, I'm not going to point it out, no... unless you start some nonsense about how it looks natural, in which case, yes, I'm going to address the fact that you lie (and seem a little delusional).


Yikes! You’re mean.

She’s just insecure because her husband stares at the women with attractive boobs. Fake or not.


Ah, yes. The kindness crew continues their subthread. Y'all are trash, and fake af. The plastiboobs are just beacons to warn away higher-integrity people, I guess.

Jealousy is not a good look.


+1 too bad there is no elective surgery to fix that jealousy .. UGH!


People who are insecure love this narrative of others being "jealous" of them/their life/their spouse/their boobs... If other people are jealous of the thing, it must be worth having. I'm not jealous of fake boobs. I've had plenty of opportunities to play with them, and if I wanted a pair, I can afford them. So no, my pointing out the reality of their appearance (fake boobs are fake) isn't "jealousy", and alleging an anon is jealous of you only reveals your continued insecurity.

It's relevant to the thread: People who get surgery to "fix" their perceived "flaws" don't fix the psychology that caused them to see their otherwise-healthy bodies as "flawed" in the first place. Women over 40 who have had kids won't naturally have the breast form/structure of a teen/twentysomething. That's not a flaw, it's a simple reality.

You should reflect on why other people’s decisions trigger you so much. Their body, their choice.
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The woman with the saggy breasts looks like she had a reduction, not implants. That's what I had. The breasts sometimes lose volume on the upper half and they also drop. You have enough breadt tissue to construct a firm breast with normal volume.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think the biggest problem on this thread is that women don't seem to know what boobs should look like. Men may not either, especially with the porn they watch, but if any woman reading this thinks any of the linked "after" pics look real, well, sorry you got brainwashed by airbrushed beauty mags and actresses with implants.

If you have a teens boobs in your thirties, nobody is going to think it's because of diet and exercise. If you have a teen's boobs in your 40s or beyond, people will think you're vain af and somewhat disordered. After that, nobody probably cares much about your boobs, so you might as well just let them be natural boobs.


Sorry but if a woman wants to feel more beautiful and don’t have saggy boobs it’s her choice. She doesn’t owe you or any crazed feminists to continue suffering in silence. Particular if 90% of people won’t tell if the boobs are real or not. I bet this pictured woman would agree with me:

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/40912

She WANTED their photo published to tell other women that life doesn’t end with deflated boobs after 40.
That's well worth whatever she paid. Dr. did a great job. I'm sure she is happy with them.


You don't have to get implants to achieve that


You literally need implants to achieve that. AND the reduction first
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is so-called “natural looking breast augmentation”. The size of chosen implants matters ! Of it’s too big for your body, it increases the complications . Small implants will enhance it cosmetically and will have lower risks.

I’m sure these women were happy with their results:

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/41940

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/47781

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/40134

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/46087






These are natural looking


Yes they are not the bolt on balloons of the 80s and 90s but they look fake. There's a way natural breasts sit that can't be replicated. I'm pretty much in the camp of do what makes you happy.

When it comes to op I think it's worth waiting, researching and talking more about it with her husband. .


They look uncomfortable!


They look and feel very comfortable - my boyfriend loves mine !
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Anonymous wrote:People will know you are a bimbo.


I’m a professional woman with high income and nice implants. I love when men call me “babe” !
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Anonymous wrote:Mine look very similar to this, still small and simply raised by the hidden implant. (but I had a larger chest before the procedure):

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/46089


That's not a natural-looking shape, even in your early 20s. It's definitely not a natural shape at 45.


Not sure about your boobs but mine looked exactly like that in my 20s before the breastfeeding


Right and if you are middled aged, they look fake AF. Because that’s what happens with boobs- they lose volume and firmness. So no, it’s not natural to be 45-50 and have boobs that look like that.
You must not have seen many in real life. Plenty of women in their 50s, especially the ones with smaller boobs still have that level of firmness. My current GF is 50 and has had 5 kids and her boobs are firm as hell. They don't all sag although the larger ones do have a shorter shelf life.


Are you one of the guys who actually has no idea about implants?
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is so-called “natural looking breast augmentation”. The size of chosen implants matters ! Of it’s too big for your body, it increases the complications . Small implants will enhance it cosmetically and will have lower risks.

I’m sure these women were happy with their results:

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/41940

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/47781

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/40134

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/46087






These are natural looking


Oh, honey, no. No, they're not. At all. They're not cartoonish, but they're not natural either. Every single one of these is an example of a woman who felt ashamed she didn't have pornoboobs and bought herself a pair, but "tasteful" not gigantic. They're fake AF, and you'll be able to tell even when she's clothed.

If you want them, fine. But let's not lie about what's real and what's not. The boobs on the left in each of those comparisons are "real boobs" and the boobs on the right are "artificially-enhanced/augmented boobs". Period. They do not look real, and won't feel real, because they're not real.



Handful in my circle to include friends and family have had all types of elective cosmetic procedures.

Self included. I have implants. I don’t feel that way. I like my implants, my husband likes my implants. My implants look good to me.

Why such emphasis on whether they’re real or not ?

Do you call people out on what they’ve have done ? You kno like you hair color ? Nails? Fake knees and hips?

I have no problem sharing they’re not real. Hardstop

However, who’s inquiring? it’s not something anyone has ever asked.

Also our two young adult kids are aware. They’ve never shared - as it’s simply nothing to discuss.

Is that ok Honey ?



Assuming you're the pp in the thread... "If you want them, fine. But let's not lie about what's real and what's not."

What part did you miss? And are you aware of how ridiculously defensive and upset you sound?

If your hair is fake, I'm not going to point it out, no... unless you start some nonsense about how it looks natural, in which case, yes, I'm going to address the fact that you lie (and seem a little delusional).


Yikes! You’re mean.

She’s just insecure because her husband stares at the women with attractive boobs. Fake or not.


Ah, yes. The kindness crew continues their subthread. Y'all are trash, and fake af. The plastiboobs are just beacons to warn away higher-integrity people, I guess.

Jealousy is not a good look.


+1 too bad there is no elective surgery to fix that jealousy .. UGH!


People who are insecure love this narrative of others being "jealous" of them/their life/their spouse/their boobs... If other people are jealous of the thing, it must be worth having. I'm not jealous of fake boobs. I've had plenty of opportunities to play with them, and if I wanted a pair, I can afford them. So no, my pointing out the reality of their appearance (fake boobs are fake) isn't "jealousy", and alleging an anon is jealous of you only reveals your continued insecurity.

It's relevant to the thread: People who get surgery to "fix" their perceived "flaws" don't fix the psychology that caused them to see their otherwise-healthy bodies as "flawed" in the first place. Women over 40 who have had kids won't naturally have the breast form/structure of a teen/twentysomething. That's not a flaw, it's a simple reality.

You should reflect on why other people’s decisions trigger you so much. Their body, their choice.


Reflect on why you read an anonymous message board but post to shame people who take the time to rxpress different preferences. You should reflect on why other people’s views trigger you so much.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is so-called “natural looking breast augmentation”. The size of chosen implants matters ! Of it’s too big for your body, it increases the complications . Small implants will enhance it cosmetically and will have lower risks.

I’m sure these women were happy with their results:

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/41940

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/47781

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/40134

https://www.plasticsurgery.org/photo-gallery/procedure/breast-augmentation/case/46087






These are natural looking


Oh, honey, no. No, they're not. At all. They're not cartoonish, but they're not natural either. Every single one of these is an example of a woman who felt ashamed she didn't have pornoboobs and bought herself a pair, but "tasteful" not gigantic. They're fake AF, and you'll be able to tell even when she's clothed.

If you want them, fine. But let's not lie about what's real and what's not. The boobs on the left in each of those comparisons are "real boobs" and the boobs on the right are "artificially-enhanced/augmented boobs". Period. They do not look real, and won't feel real, because they're not real.



Handful in my circle to include friends and family have had all types of elective cosmetic procedures.

Self included. I have implants. I don’t feel that way. I like my implants, my husband likes my implants. My implants look good to me.

Why such emphasis on whether they’re real or not ?

Do you call people out on what they’ve have done ? You kno like you hair color ? Nails? Fake knees and hips?

I have no problem sharing they’re not real. Hardstop

However, who’s inquiring? it’s not something anyone has ever asked.

Also our two young adult kids are aware. They’ve never shared - as it’s simply nothing to discuss.

Is that ok Honey ?



Assuming you're the pp in the thread... "If you want them, fine. But let's not lie about what's real and what's not."

What part did you miss? And are you aware of how ridiculously defensive and upset you sound?

If your hair is fake, I'm not going to point it out, no... unless you start some nonsense about how it looks natural, in which case, yes, I'm going to address the fact that you lie (and seem a little delusional).


Yikes! You’re mean.

She’s just insecure because her husband stares at the women with attractive boobs. Fake or not.


Ah, yes. The kindness crew continues their subthread. Y'all are trash, and fake af. The plastiboobs are just beacons to warn away higher-integrity people, I guess.

Jealousy is not a good look.


+1 too bad there is no elective surgery to fix that jealousy .. UGH!


People who are insecure love this narrative of others being "jealous" of them/their life/their spouse/their boobs... If other people are jealous of the thing, it must be worth having. I'm not jealous of fake boobs. I've had plenty of opportunities to play with them, and if I wanted a pair, I can afford them. So no, my pointing out the reality of their appearance (fake boobs are fake) isn't "jealousy", and alleging an anon is jealous of you only reveals your continued insecurity.

It's relevant to the thread: People who get surgery to "fix" their perceived "flaws" don't fix the psychology that caused them to see their otherwise-healthy bodies as "flawed" in the first place. Women over 40 who have had kids won't naturally have the breast form/structure of a teen/twentysomething. That's not a flaw, it's a simple reality.

You should reflect on why other people’s decisions trigger you so much. Their body, their choice.


And you might reflect on why other people having opinions that differ from yours sets you off in such a combative way, especially if you believe what you posted above. You do have the right to make your own choices, just like other people have the right to disagree and dislike what you choose.
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