Why would you need to do that? Did they not run the net price calculator? |
| Do you really expect the secret sauce for free? That, right there, eliminates you. |
My kids have met plenty of white females going to top schools. Maybe your assessment was off. |
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Can only speak to my experiences. First kid got in Cornell, Duke and Michigan. Chose Michigan because received a Shipman scholarship- no tuition payments for four years and other benefits as well, ranging from a big slug of meal points to special football tickets. Perfect SAT scores, lots of AP - went to base school as opposed to TJ.
Daughter number 2 got in everywhere she applied. Went to Princeton. Perfect SAT’s highest score in the state on PSAT. 12 5’s on AP tests. TJ alum - a school which has more negatives than meet the eye. Princeton still was a stroke of luck- they turn down others with similar stats. Both schools provided an excellent education. No one place is ideal. You get out of what you put into it. I went to Duke from the Midwest in the late 70’s. Very poor single mother home. 4:06 high school miler. Won a national championship race. 1400 SAT - difficult for me as my brother and I - my brother an even faster runner- had no one in the immediate family who went to college. Athletics very corrupting in a sense - even the top schools were recruiting me as opposed to my hoping to get admitted. Athletic scholarships not really ideal for serious students. I had no interest in teaching or coaching - a common pursuit with my college rivals. Went to a good high school but not prepared for Duke all that well. Poor and a social outcast. Likely should have taken one of the Big 10 offers I had just for social reasons. No complaints and happy my kids had choices without worrying one iota about money. Very lucky I just was not a high mileage runner and Duke let me train often on my own - lots of speed work in a limited time frame. Grateful for the opportunity at Duke. and very lucky. |
They are often never enough. The high stats gets you to the table, but there are 100 applications for every 3 seats available from there, so do the math and apply widely. |
| Having high stats and being a gifted athlete is the secret sauce. |
Well a gifted something. If not a recruited athlete, these kids are exceptional musical talents, or writing, or stem, etc. It's an intimidating group. |
Yes. Legacy or URM too. |
Don't know about legacy status but the urm's are as intimidating talent wise as all the rest. |
Yes, and they don't make up the numbers some parents think they do. Top school campuses still have a long way to go with representing URMs in the student body. |
| My kid was admitted to Columbia and I can only surmise why. Truly. I nearly fainted when the news came through I was so surprised. DCPS school, perfect GPA having taken all the toughest courses, a bunch of APs. ACT score was a 35, super scored. White kid. Upper middle class, we get financial aid. Decent athlete but not playing at college. We never hired a tutor, never took a course for SAT/ACT. Kid never led a club, barely had any leadership at school. But kid had jobs every summer and did some entrepreneurial stuff outside of school: innovative ideas and contributing to community stuff. Kid wrote a spectacular essay that combined ways they made up for sub-standard education at DCPS school and concern for neighbors/resilience during the pandemic. NO HOOKS. NO LEGACY. Neither parent nor grandparents attended an ivy. Definitely luck played a part and an applicant who stood out in areas other than academic or athletic achievement. When I meet classmates at Columbia, they all seem to be similarly interesting and connected people. Maybe something is going right at Columbia admissions? |
I’m sorry but this is just absolutely not true in my experience dealing with kids from HYPSC schools |
Is the C for Cornell? |
Columbia |
+1 My friend's son got accepted into Harvard by being a high stats, gifted athlete, and an URM. This kid was a triple threat. He checked off every box that college admission counselors are looking for. Best of all he is the most humble and gracious kid that I have ever met. I am so proud of him! |