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So, I personally know a retired MoCo police officer who served as a SRO in several schools (from the rich ones to the poor ones). He still works in local public schools in a position unrelated to security. He still sees the value in having heightened security onsite for myriad reasons.
They proactively had black police officers onsite. It worked well. Now they have low level “security” onsite. How shall I put this? Men in such positions are oftentimes doing it because they have personality issues and thrive on having “authority” over others. That’s a recipe for disaster imho. I’d rather have black police officers if critics feel like white ones can’t be trusted. Personally, I think we can trust white officers. |
No, guns are not the reason why you need a cop. You need a cop because in this country, the people who you call when you've been mugged, robbed, beaten up, raped, etc. is guess what- a cop. And guess what- those things DO happen in schools as much as you don't want to admit. There are some kids who do these terrible things and yes, they should be arrested. Do you disagree? Also, cops are in the community- they know what is happening, they hear things, and they check up on it. The SROs are able to mitigate or help prevent beef from escalating at the schools. I'm sorry to break it to you but these are cops who do this type of work. |
I 100% don't think there is an easy fix. Obviously there is no one solution. But not having guns in the home would have prevented so many of these incidents. People like to say "oh they'd just have gotten them somewhere else" - no they wouldn't! These are kids, not criminal masterminds. Half the time they bring them to school is because they think they need them to feel safe, which is a lesson easily learned by observing dad's attitude about guns. We can't get anywhere on gun control, fine, can we at least spread the message that if you want kids to be safer, you should remove guns from your own home? I found fourteen mass shooters since 2017 that got their gun via their parents, about half of which got them out of the gun safe. Having that driven home might make some people stop and think. If you are on this board saying anything like "we need cops in schools to protect our students from guns, what else can we possibly do" and you have a teenager and gun in your house, I'm telling you that removing it is a very tangible action you can and should take. Will this convince everyone, absolutely not, some of these kids have nightmare parents that seem to want them to commit a crime. But a lot of them don't - instead they have serious mental health problems, sometimes ones they are successfully hiding. |
PP again. Here- President Obama explains why SROs are important: https://obamawhitehouse.archives.gov/blog/2013/03/28/school-resource-officers |
| The answer is SROs in school but better training and accountability for these officers - maybe they wear body cam. Let's not throw out a program we need because we aren't implementing it correctly. Let's fix it. Please, the kids need safety in schools. Our "lower rated' school has so many fights and incidents. How can anyone not want another adult whose sole purpose is to make the school safer?? |
They are MCPD officers so pretty sure they’ve been wearing body cameras for a few years now. I agree they need more training — most officers are really happy to get more training for their job; the departments are often too cheap to do enough. There already is oversight through the principal but if it would make people feel better, perhaps there could be a security working group with a couple parents, a couple teachers, admin and the SRO. If there are concerns with the SRO, they can and should be elevated so the principal can request as reassignment from MCPD. |
If I’ve been attacked I call the police. If I want to prevent an attack I hire a private security company. If a mentally I’ll child is in distress I call a therapist not a cop… who do you call? Do you just want to arrest kids or do you want to stop it. Yes if a child goes a terrible thing they should be arrested. If they are just being nuckleheads do you think they should be arrested. If they are just being loud and disruptive? Do you want those kids arrested or threatened to be arrested? Do you think straight A kids who have never been in trouble should be brought into a room and interrogated by an SRO, without a parent present trying to get them to snitch on someone (often even if they were not a witness) having their possibility of college called to question to get them to say something ? Because that is what SROs do, they know who are weak and who will crack, even if they were not around or involved. No, SROs don’t mitigate issues. It’s been show time and time again there are more issues when SROs are present. I hate to break it to you your anecdotes are meaningless. |
In 2013, we have a decade of data now. Other failed Democratic laws.. 3 strikes your out, mandatory minimums. Watch “the 13th” learn some history |
So your own h has witnessed inappropriate behavior by a fellow officer? Or not? You say they aren’t perfect so he has? I am 100% sure if a teacher had witnessed child abuser they would turn the teacher in. But cops, no, never, they can’t. They won’t get back up. I’m also 109% sure your amazing h never copped to being with a bad cop and not turning them in. So tell me all about the wonderful things your H tells you about SROs. How about do a “ride along” in internal affairs, because if you haven’t seen the brutality of police officers on a ride along, your h is protecting you from the truth. Since you read I love a cop … what is the 2nd stage of being a cop? It’s the “everybody is a criminal” stage “nobody is a victim”. Since your such an expert explain that stage to the ladies and gentlemen in the audience, |
You are simplifying the issue. If they don't get a gun from home, they can easily get it elsewhere and they can use other weapons that are not guns and just as deadly. Our community needs to take a hard stance on violent behavior, especially in kids and not be afraid to have consequences. If these kids cannot be controlled and supervised by parents, they need to be in an institution. Yes, much of it is mental health but its not as simple as just saying mental health. Some of these kids have been abused in and out of school and live in a culture of violence. Our society is pretty messed up right now. Adults refuse to set good examples so we cannot expect kids to behave if adults don't. We cannot even get people to do something as basic as masking. SRO's are a good first level approach. |
What is your solution? How about you as a parent/adult volunteer to provide security since you can do it better. |
Sigh. Your assumptions about police officers are simply absurd and paint you as an "all cops are bad" type. Sure, I'll explain the book "I Love a Cop" to the audience. Simply put: the PP took that entirely out of context. (I suppose few readers here are surprised.) The book is written as a support for law enforcement spouses. It discusses the stresses of the job, particularly the transition that police have to make from the work day to their home life. Not surprisingly, the stress of policing can lead to higher divorce rates and higher suicide rates. The book attempts to educate spouses about this and to offer avenues for support. Yes, there is reference to a heightened awareness stage for younger police, one in which they may view people through binary lenses. It's just what the book (and the previous poster) refers to it as: a stage in a progression of stages. It is an understandable byproduct of having a job that shows the best and the worst of humanity. I'll admit I hated the book when I read it. It is very doom and gloom, which wasn't easy to read when I was newly married. It did help explain, however, what my spouse goes through emotionally and psychologically. I am in awe of what he is able to handle so reasonably, rationally, and compassionately. I will not entertain your internal affairs / brutality / protecting me from the truth comment. My husband is an honorable man and we are all fortunate that people like him want to be police officers. |
You wrote above that "if a child goes a terrible thing they should be arrested." And THAT is why we need SROs. Guess what? Some students do terrible things within schools, things that require consequences so the other students can remain safe. That's simply our current reality. The SRO is not there to handle the "loud and disruptive" or the "just being knucklehead" students. NOBODY on this thread has said that they should. SROs do NOT look for the ones who are "weak and who will crack." Perhaps some movie gave you that idea, but if you stepped foot into a real-world, functioning high school you'd see that isn't the case. Some of us who work in schools have seen people getting attacked, students and staff members. That's why we need SROs. You said yourself that you would call the police if you've been attacked. |
But you're acting like if there are no SROs, police are not an option when dealing with these terrible things scenarios. 911 still exists. If rapes and attempted murders are happening so frequently in school that SROs are needed on site, at the ready with their weapons, at all times, then yeah we have big problems. But if someone is using fists, 911 ought to suffice. PP was saying if you've been attacked (past tense), call the police. If you want to protect people from an attack, hire private security. Police catch criminals. They aren't bodyguards. |
Some kids could get a gun elsewhere, particularly older ones. But please don't underestimate the influence of ease and proximity. And other weapons that are not guns but just as deadly - what?? Do you think those Uvalde cops would have cowered outside as children died if the killer had a knife instead of an AR-15?? |