Husbands - what do you REALLY think about your post-pregnancy/breastfeeding wife's breasts?

[Anonymous]

I recently weaned by 22mo and after two pregnancies and almost four years total of breastfeeding, my formerly (admittedly always somewhat saggy) D-cup breasts have become flat B-cups. I hate them. My husband loves breasts, any breasts (but of course notices large ones), and has said nothing other than wonderful things about them, but I don't believe him because they look awful. Husbands - what do you truly think about your wife's breasts? Would you want her to get implants or a lift?

[Anonymous]

Oh jeez, why do you have such low self esteem that you'd slit your body open for a guy? what happened to you in your childhood and teens?

[Anonymous]

Lady, sooner or later, we're all going to have saggy tits. Big ones sag even faster.

Might as well give your boobs to someone who appreciates them. Your baby loved them for what they could do, not how they looked.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh jeez, why do you have such low self esteem that you'd slit your body open for a guy? what happened to you in your childhood and teens?

Have no objections to breast surgery and if not for the whole general anesthesia thing, I would have done a lift myself BUT would only do it for me not bc I was worried about what my DH thinks.

[Anonymous]

I have no kids. My boobs are D's and have been saggy since college bc of how quickly they grew. It is what is it!

[Anonymous]

Just have sex with a really sexy bra that helps your issues (push up for example). Problem solved.

[Anonymous]

I bet he's glad to have them back to himself. If he says he likes them then there is no reason to doubt it.

[Anonymous]

i bet he's glad that he's getting action. put a sexy top on 'em and call it a day.

[TheManWithAUsername]

Anonymous wrote:Husbands - what do you truly think about your wife's breasts? Would you want her to get implants or a lift?

My DW's breasts survived much better than most.

From your description, I would almost certainly want you to have the work done if I were your husband. If you think they're flat and saggy, he probably does too.

There's a short thread in the explicit forum right now from a woman who just had them done.

[Anonymous]

Not all husbands are that shallow. I would love to get mine done and while my DH does not complain I am sure that he would like perkier breast. However we both agree (him more than me), that it is not worth it to undergo major surgery and pain. In fact he was totally taken aback when I mentioned the idea.

[TheManWithAUsername]

Anonymous wrote:Not all husbands are that shallow. I would love to get mine done and while my DH does not complain I am sure that he would like perkier breast. However we both agree (him more than me), that it is not worth it to undergo major surgery and pain. In fact he was totally taken aback when I mentioned the idea.

I think you meant to post this in the thread, "Women: what do you think of men who don't oppose plastic surgery?"

It's always funny to me when a woman posts here with a question explicitly directed to men and a bunch of women immediately jump on.

[Anonymous]

My DH is sad that they are flabby and not as full anymore, but he still loves that they are his and they are still boobs.

[Anonymous]

I want to get a breast reduction and lift post-kids. My husband says he doesn't see anything wrong with them and is opposed to the idea. Maybe he is afraid I will die under the knife in some freak accident, and he will actually have to clean the litterbox.

[Anonymous]

I've been having similar thoughts. I've nursed 3 children and went from small B tear drop shaped breast to smaller than A deflated looking balloons. I've always been fine with smaller boobs, but I just can't stand the current skin to tissue ratio - skin's winning.

As a pp mentioned, I'm extremely torn b/c of the idea of a freak accident while getting a boob job. What a dumb way to kick it. My DH says it's up to me whatever I choose.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh jeez, why do you have such low self esteem that you'd slit your body open for a guy? what happened to you in your childhood and teens?

I'm not the OP but I can tell you that when you grow with a father that comments on how flat chested you are, and notices AND comments frequently on women's "equipment" it can take a toll on a girls self-esteem. Throw in numerous comments in your early teen years from boys asking "why are you so flat?", "how could you be so flat?", "are you really a guy?", then yes, it does shatter the self-esteem. I would love to implants but my DH would freak if I did. He says he loves my small boobs but secretly I can't help but wonder why.