Husbands - what do you REALLY think about your post-pregnancy/breastfeeding wife's breasts?

[Anonymous]

TheManWithAUsername wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not all husbands are that shallow. I would love to get mine done and while my DH does not complain I am sure that he would like perkier breast. However we both agree (him more than me), that it is not worth it to undergo major surgery and pain. In fact he was totally taken aback when I mentioned the idea.

I think you meant to post this in the thread, "Women: what do you think of men who don't oppose plastic surgery?"

It's always funny to me when a woman posts here with a question explicitly directed to men and a bunch of women immediately jump on.

Dude, it's a relationship forum on a parenting web site. And you wonder why mostly women are responding?

The good news, OP, is that nature takes care of this. As women's boobs get saggier, the men they've married likely aren't skyrocketing in income and their dicks get more flaccid, so the number of women who want to fuck them shrinks (I'll exclude the 1% of men in this country who make enough money to get a hot 20 something to overlook theri 40 year old plus body and two kids). See how great it works out?

[Anonymous]

the men they've married likely aren't skyrocketing in income and their dicks get more flaccid, so the number of women who want to fuck them shrinks (I'll exclude the 1% of men in this country who make enough money to get a hot 20 something to overlook theri 40 year old plus body and two kids). See how great it works out?

I love you

[TheManWithAUsername]

Anonymous wrote:

TheManWithAUsername wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not all husbands are that shallow. I would love to get mine done and while my DH does not complain I am sure that he would like perkier breast. However we both agree (him more than me), that it is not worth it to undergo major surgery and pain. In fact he was totally taken aback when I mentioned the idea.

I think you meant to post this in the thread, "Women: what do you think of men who don't oppose plastic surgery?"

It's always funny to me when a woman posts here with a question explicitly directed to men and a bunch of women immediately jump on.

Dude, it's a relationship forum on a parenting web site. And you wonder why mostly women are responding?

More like I'm wondering how women who constantly complain about how foolish their men are can't comply with a specific written request.

[Anonymous]

According to my husband he is an ass man, good thing because my boobs are a wreck now! Total turnoff during sex too

[Anonymous]

Men think about their wives' appearence the same way moms think about their kids' appearence.

[Anonymous]

I'm interested to hear the men's opinions as well (but ALSO THE WOMEN'S SHEESH).

I was really worried about this and asked my husband who basically said that he was proud of me for breastfeeding and that the changes in my body because of birthing and nursing a child were beautiful to him.

I'm just gonna believe that because it's lovely .

P.S. - omg my boobs are so hideous now.

[TheManWithAUsername]

Anonymous wrote:I was really worried about this and asked my husband who basically said that he was proud of me for breastfeeding and that the changes in my body because of birthing and nursing a child were beautiful to him.

It's a lovely sentiment, but I don't believe it for a second. Sorry, but y'all asked.

BTW, this might get more male response in the explicit forum.

[Anonymous]

Seriously.. am I the ONLY one that finds TheManWithAUsername to be really obnoxious?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Seriously.. am I the ONLY one that finds TheManWithAUsername to be really obnoxious?

Yes you are. And yes I'm a woman.

He was honest, and you didn't like what he had to say. His validation that, yes, saggy boobs are indeed a turn-off, but your awesome husband won't tell you because he loves you enough to not want to hurt your feelings, and it offended you.

But hey. The truth hurts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Seriously.. am I the ONLY one that finds TheManWithAUsername to be really obnoxious?

No, you're not the only one. He's telling us about our own anatomy (as if we're gonna have an "aha" moment from his elucidations) over on the explicit forum.

[Anonymous]

Not the only one, 19.19, because I agree. I think that makes 3 of us so far.

[TheManWithAUsername]

Periodically here, a woman starts a thread asking men for frank opinions about female looks. Men respond, and some other women jump in to call men shallow and insulting pigs.

Don't ask the question if you might not be able to handle the answer. As I said in another thread, I don't start threads asking whether my job is impressive enough for women or whether I dress well enough.

Anonymous wrote:No, you're not the only one. He's telling us about our own anatomy (as if we're gonna have an "aha" moment from his elucidations) over on the explicit forum.

Wow - you are a committed moron. I referenced research about female anatomy, and you - and you alone - somehow found that to be condescending.

[Anonymous]

TheManWithAUsername wrote:Periodically here, a woman starts a thread asking men for frank opinions about female looks. Men respond, and some other women jump in to call men shallow and insulting pigs.

Don't ask the question if you might not be able to handle the answer. As I said in another thread, I don't start threads asking whether my job is impressive enough for women or whether I dress well enough.

Anonymous wrote:No, you're not the only one. He's telling us about our own anatomy (as if we're gonna have an "aha" moment from his elucidations) over on the explicit forum.

Wow - you are a committed moron. I referenced research about female anatomy, and you - and you alone - somehow found that to be condescending.

Um, ManWithAUsername, I was over there in the explicit forum too and I definitely did not have a problem with you jumping in on the discussion about anatomy but... you are kind of complaining about women answering a question addressed to men here and you did answer a question which was addressed to women in the explicit forum. As, I said, it didn't bother me a bit and I responded quite pleasantly to your contribution over there. (I ordered the book you recommended too But you don't need to be condescending over here.

And I'm just reading this one. I have no input on breasts because I think mine still look pretty good.

[TheManWithAUsername]

Anonymous wrote:Um, ManWithAUsername, I was over there in the explicit forum too and I definitely did not have a problem with you jumping in on the discussion about anatomy but... you are kind of complaining about women answering a question addressed to men here and you did answer a question which was addressed to women in the explicit forum. As, I said, it didn't bother me a bit and I responded quite pleasantly to your contribution over there. (I ordered the book you recommended too But you don't need to be condescending over here.

Yeah - I was aware of the hypocrisy when I posted there - that's why I apologized for interrupting when I posted. And if someone had posted here to, e.g., refer to a survey of men's opinions on post-BF boobs, that would have been analogous to what I did there.

Anyway, I don't normally think it's some huge deal when people clutter a thread. I was mostly responding here to a woman who immediately referred to me as "shallow" after I simply gave my answer to the OP's question (on the first page, IIRC). You're right that I shouldn't have directed my response so generally, and I apologize for that.

[Anonymous]

Well I'm the OP and I seriously did want honest men's opinions. I adore that PP's husband said he loves her breasts no matter what bc of what they've accomplished. That is beautiful. Even if he really prefers perkier tits, I love that he can see beyond that to how awesome his wife's body is. I want to hear those stories, but I also want to hear HONEST men's opinions, and I imagine honestly a lot of men love their wives but would love tthem to have the breasts they did pre-pregnancy if really asked. I don't think that's offensive. I'd rather have them too