They still do. A friend of mine is from Singapore and she commented that she wished her parents had not been as academically focused because she was enjoying exploring new activities with her kids in Minnesota. Both she and her husband have PhDs and love learning but her description of her childhood was lots of studying and music practice with little down time. She always mentions the malls that are all tutoring operations in Singapore and how they are open until 11 PM 7 days a week. South Korea and Japan close down airports during testing days so that the sounds of planes taking off and landing don't disturb the kids during testing. Academics are seen in a very different light then they are in the US. |
maybe parents here value education, but balance that with valuing their children's childhoods |
Their model is that everyone is in advanced math, and the children who are not ready are expected to attend cram schools or get the tutoring that they need to keep up. It's not the teacher's responsibility to differentiate downward for the struggling kids. That model would never fly in US public schools. |
| I value my children's childhood, and I don't want them to need extra schooling outside of school hours. That's precisely why I want them challenged in school and not wasting hours each week on math instruction that is remedial for them. |
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So do I but now that I know what they aren’t learning, you bet I’m supplementing. |
Same here. This whole experience hit home how little us being taught and how slowly it goes. I would have been more aware if tests papers were sent home and my kid had assigned homework. |
| +1 but not everyone has parents who value academics or can help at home so no one can be assigned homework anymore. |
And then there are the parents who expect schools to teach everything. |
Too far away to cover the math issue? Fairfax County Virginia is too far from Washington DC? WaPo can't survey parents and students in FCPS or those who know the system? beyond that the WaPo could read actual FCPS statistically valid longitudinal studies on cohort groups with and without full day kindergarten or 1 or 2 years of preschool. It could review actual curriculum [like old backback dumps] and see what parents provide because FCPS does not. And what about Perry Stein the writer of the article on The Brookings Institute study of this anonymous message board? https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/education/dc-urban-moms-school-segregation-study/2021/03/31/8320b6e4-9160-11eb-a74e-1f4cf89fd948_story.html “The corollary of well-off people concentrating in certain schools is that poverty is concentrated in other schools,” said Vanessa Williamson, the study’s lead author. “One of the challenges of segregation — beyond the moral commitment of living in a multiracial society — is the fact that it results in resource hoarding and that is unfair.” Without further reading the drivel what is the resource hoarding of public money? Or does Williams mean private $ for afterschooling [by parent or tutor or parental provisions of materials] or $ paid for a schools PTA? Resource hoarding and FCPS. Obviously none of these researchers would like the results on those preK and K studies. Nor would they like the per pupil costs and program budgets. Subjective conclusions that fit the spin don't match objective information. |
| They had no problem offering an opinion on the school board race, but they can't cover this? Okay. |
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More and more people are just going to homeschool. Is that what they want?
I was told by someone on DCUM that I shouldn't be allowed to homeschool my high achieving kids because apparently it's my moral obligation to help the local school districts, even if my own kids get nothing out of it (it's not enough that we're paying for that service that we're not even using). Parents will eventually realize that "just supplementing" for an hour a day is literally all we do for homeschooling. And then kids have time for doing fun stuff. Parents aren't going to have their kids waste time at school and then teach everything at home. |
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I think the reporter meant “too far away” in time. Like it won’t happen soon.
But I disagree. You have to publicize it now so there can be full debate on the merits before it is implemented. People don’t understand the psychological stress for kids that suffer when they are not challenged. It is not good. |
Feel free. FCPS isn't a for-profit company looking to retain it's customers. Leave, it's fine. Children enroll in public education every year. |
But how will it improve the society-wide equity gap if the more affluent kids leave FCPS for private school or homeschooling? FCPS might be able to show more equity on paper, but they aren't doing anything to improve societal ills. |