+1. Someone here has a weird infatuation with ribbons. |
DP, this varies by team. Our coach encourages the club swimmers to just go to club practice so that they can focus on the summer only kids during summer practice. The club kids all go to the social events, pep rallies, help with junior coaching the little ones, etc. but they are only rarely at summer practice. |
| I guess you could just drop the code of conduct rule 2. Is that what the club swimmers want? |
As the parent of a club swimmer I would be thrilled if they were banned from summer swim. I’m so over all things swim by the time summer rolls around. That particular rule also has the wiggle room of “attending every practice I can” which a club kid could say I can’t attend summer practice because of club practice. |
| Club swim parent and team rep here - I just want to encourage everyone to volunteer for their summer teams and think about how to make it more fun for everyone. We struggle sometimes between wanting to be competitive and inadvertently making it less fun. What we’ve taken away is really making sure we prioritize B meets and team wide activities. I’m sure we are not the best at it, but I believe most reps want to find this balance and if you have ideas or want to take this on please let them know! |
I think the registration has a field for how many practices that they are planning to attend. I wouldn't call it a ban, but it would be nice if they had to make a choice. Swim at an A-meet or swim at a club meet. I think many a camper would be happier if that were the situation. I mean can't the clubs put on B-meets that would basically just be the equivalent of A-meets for summer league. Is it any wonder US Swimming registration is dropping. |
2. I will attend every practice and meet that I can and will notify my coach if I cannot. Hey Coach, I won't be at practice, ever, because I have club practice. Coach - cool, thanks, see you Saturday! This "rule" is vague, and this is exactly how it works. |
Then they conveniently show up for the all-star week practices when the pool is nearly empty. |
Well, for many kids, club season is over then. No more practice conflict. |
DP. The PP didn't address the underlying point. Namely, it's the summer swim parents who want their kids to swim in A meets on Saturdays because they show up to summer swim practices. But just showing up isn't how the world works. Attendance is irrelevant to performance |
Yes, your kid can swim all year round and still lose to summer league swimmer, my daughter beat many club swimmers this summer. The parents still aren't fun to be around. |
The parents who are complaining are those whose kids don't get to swim in A meets because there are club swimmers on the team who are faster. Not everyone in club swim is fast, but many are because they swim all year round (4+ times a week). If your kid doesn't want to do that, and only wants to show up for summer swim practices, they'll swim B meets for the most part. Complaining about this as somehow being unfair is a waste of time. The parents of club swimmers are generally very nice, but they take swimming very seriously. As such, they may prefer to spend time with other parents who feel the same (I.e., compare notes, shared experiences, etc). That said, there are some insufferable club swim parents, but they're rare and their kids often drop swimming as they get older. |
Just saying there are plenty of slow swimmers that don't make A-meets in the clubs. What about them, can we ding on them? I don't know why they sign up for summer league at all. |
The fastest HS club swimmers aren’t even around that week. |
I agree. People with similar experiences tend to hang out with each other. It’s a natural phenomenon and not exclusive to swimming. Most parents of faster club swimmers are pretty chill when it comes to summer swim as USA swim meets are more important. There is something unique about summer swim that is very different culturally from club swim. Swimmers love the atmosphere and ability to join their friends that may do other activities and sports during the remainder of the year. It would upset many club swimmers if they were excluded from summer swim. |