Taylor Swift is struggling emotionally and leaning on Travis Kelce 'more than ever'

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Anonymous wrote:If she truly wants a minimum of 4 kids, she better get going. She’s almost 35.

Maybe (gasp) she doesn’t want kids !!!??

For her potential kids sake, I hope she doesn’t.

She called it right when she wrote the song about her kids fighting over her inheritance.

If she does want kids, she needs to learn to lie low and that doesn’t seem to be something she respects. She attacked her ex Joe for wanting a lower key life. Seems to think that life is tortured.

To each her own, but if she is smart and has empathy she won’t bring kids into her crazy world.

Are you the odd duck who takes her lyrics completely literally?

They made a fairy tale out of that. Spoiler: The odd duck is really a swan.

[Anonymous]

The crazy posts on here make more sense after reading this. Swifty fandom sounds like a cult.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm the PP who said I don't think she can have any man she wants, but not the PP who said she has narrow opportunities. I wouldn't say her mating opportunities are narrow but I do think it's fair to say there are a lot of quality men who wouldn't want to deal with her PR machine and schedule. That's not a knock on her at all. I am a fan.

yes it is a knock on her. People like you want to use Taylor Swift to make a point that no matter how beautiful and rich and accomplished a woman is, she’s still subordinate to men.

Not everyone wants to deal with the press and the security that has to carry a wound repair kit. It’s a lot.

so you’re saying her one viable partner was Prince Harry?

No. What I had to say is stated above. It’s a lot to be in love with a global superstar who needs 24-7 security and is at risk of being killed. Taylor said she has to travel with a wound repair kit.

Anyone dating her has to be able to handle all that. It’s a lot, like I said.

You can’t just run to the store for ice cream. You lose some freedoms and gain others.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If she truly wants a minimum of 4 kids, she better get going. She’s almost 35.

Maybe (gasp) she doesn’t want kids !!!??

For her potential kids sake, I hope she doesn’t.

She called it right when she wrote the song about her kids fighting over her inheritance.

If she does want kids, she needs to learn to lie low and that doesn’t seem to be something she respects. She attacked her ex Joe for wanting a lower key life. Seems to think that life is tortured.

To each her own, but if she is smart and has empathy she won’t bring kids into her crazy world.

Are you the odd duck who takes her lyrics completely literally?

DP. Is it really the "odd duck" who takes her lyrics literally when Swift draws so extensively from her own life when writing music? And there are fans who seem to spend a lot of their free time analyzing lyrics for clues.

+1

Taylor trained fans to look for Easter eggs so they do. They sometimes look to her lyrics for those Easter eggs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The crazy posts on here make more sense after reading this. Swifty fandom sounds like a cult.

I’m an unapologetic Swiftie but that’s insane. I can tell you from a Facebook Swiftie group I belong to (LOL!!) that it’s true. Some of these women are certifiable. But that’s on them. Taylor Swift creates a fandom but holy hell these people take it to such an extreme that it’s like watching a car crash. So I stay in the group and watch from afar.

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Anonymous wrote:The crazy posts on here make more sense after reading this. Swifty fandom sounds like a cult.

I’m an unapologetic Swiftie but that’s insane. I can tell you from a Facebook Swiftie group I belong to (LOL!!) that it’s true. Some of these women are certifiable. But that’s on them. Taylor Swift creates a fandom but holy hell these people take it to such an extreme that it’s like watching a car crash. So I stay in the group and watch from afar.

I like Swift a lot but I have a friend who dedicated her 20s/30s to Swift and is now rounding on 38 and is unmarried without kids and I honestly think it's because she focused too much energy, attention, and money on Taylor Swift. She's seen Eras like 8 times. Back when she still used to go on dates, she'd get mad if the guy wasn't enthusiastic about Swift. Like not even a situation where he said something negative (which is a dumb move on a guy's part -- don't yuck someone else's yum) but if she told a guy she was really into Swift and he wasn't like "omg that's amazing, I also love her" she'd never go out with him again. It was a totally unrealistic expectation and reflected an obsessive focus on Swift.

Who know, maybe without Taylor Swift my friend would have found some other way to torpedo relationships. But for her it was definitely Swift-related. Recently she was begging me to go see Swift in Europe with her and I gave her a hard no several times because I have two kids and a pretty serious job and can't jet off to Europe to see a concert at this stage in my life. The begging turned to "you don't understand because you're SO LUCKY to have found a husband and had kids and I'm all alone." But while she was obsessively following Taylor Swift I was working, dating, planning my family, and building a life and home with my DH. I'm lucky to have found him but she could have been lucky in the same way. She was on Reddit posting about the latest Taylor's Version drop and spending her savings on concert tickets.

The arrested development of some Swift fans is really something. Grow up. She's just a pop star.

[Anonymous]

To some, Taylor Swift has become their friend, family, spiritual fulfillment. The case of the woman closing on 40 with the continued obsession is sad because she doesn't sound content with her choices.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The crazy posts on here make more sense after reading this. Swifty fandom sounds like a cult.

I’m an unapologetic Swiftie but that’s insane. I can tell you from a Facebook Swiftie group I belong to (LOL!!) that it’s true. Some of these women are certifiable. But that’s on them. Taylor Swift creates a fandom but holy hell these people take it to such an extreme that it’s like watching a car crash. So I stay in the group and watch from afar.

I like Swift a lot but I have a friend who dedicated her 20s/30s to Swift and is now rounding on 38 and is unmarried without kids and I honestly think it's because she focused too much energy, attention, and money on Taylor Swift. She's seen Eras like 8 times. Back when she still used to go on dates, she'd get mad if the guy wasn't enthusiastic about Swift. Like not even a situation where he said something negative (which is a dumb move on a guy's part -- don't yuck someone else's yum) but if she told a guy she was really into Swift and he wasn't like "omg that's amazing, I also love her" she'd never go out with him again. It was a totally unrealistic expectation and reflected an obsessive focus on Swift.

Who know, maybe without Taylor Swift my friend would have found some other way to torpedo relationships. But for her it was definitely Swift-related. Recently she was begging me to go see Swift in Europe with her and I gave her a hard no several times because I have two kids and a pretty serious job and can't jet off to Europe to see a concert at this stage in my life. The begging turned to "you don't understand because you're SO LUCKY to have found a husband and had kids and I'm all alone." But while she was obsessively following Taylor Swift I was working, dating, planning my family, and building a life and home with my DH. I'm lucky to have found him but she could have been lucky in the same way. She was on Reddit posting about the latest Taylor's Version drop and spending her savings on concert tickets.

The arrested development of some Swift fans is really something. Grow up. She's just a pop star.

It is something to behold. Sounds like your friend needs to hear this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The crazy posts on here make more sense after reading this. Swifty fandom sounds like a cult.

So - a sample size of TWO women was used for this ridiculous article. Thank you for your contribution to the crazy posts.

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Anonymous wrote:The crazy posts on here make more sense after reading this. Swifty fandom sounds like a cult.

In that article the men are clearly the problem. Basically the more their wives spoke up and advocated for themselves, the more their husbands blamed it on Taylor Swift.

And the musician husband? Yikes. I’m not a Taylor fan, but I dated a musician a few years ago who HATED her. Said it wasn’t “real” music. Didn’t like when I pointed out that he’d been trying to make a music career work for the last 15 years with zero success, so maybe he’s not in a position to determine what is it isn’t good music.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The crazy posts on here make more sense after reading this. Swifty fandom sounds like a cult.

In that article the men are clearly the problem. Basically the more their wives spoke up and advocated for themselves, the more their husbands blamed it on Taylor Swift.

And the musician husband? Yikes. I’m not a Taylor fan, but I dated a musician a few years ago who HATED her. Said it wasn’t “real” music. Didn’t like when I pointed out that he’d been trying to make a music career work for the last 15 years with zero success, so maybe he’s not in a position to determine what is it isn’t good music.

You mean the TWO men in the article? Just stop trying to make fetch happen. This article is trash and has nothing to do with the millions of TS fans.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like Taylor and Travis (separately and together) but I don't think she is ever going to marry or procreate with him. I think she wants different/better "breeding stock" if she wants kids at all.

Only someone on DCUM would think one of the world’s elite athletes is inferior “breeding stock.”

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Anonymous wrote:I don't agree that TS can get any man she wants. Yes, she's rich, talented, and pretty, but she's also very "curated" and trying to keep up/fit in with that is... a lot. Travis seems to take it in stride so good for both of them.

She can get any man she wants same way George Clooney could get any woman he wanted at 35.

If she could do better, she'd do better. She's middle aged and nearly barren, if she even has any viable eggs left. She's with this low class idiot jock because she feels that's the best she can do at this advanced age. Sexy rich men her age are either all already married or they'll go for someone 10 years younger and hotter, who can give them a few healthy babies.

Yeah I’m sure Taylor is sad she’s with a giant, sexy, funny 3x Super Bowl champ instead of … what, a hedge fund manager? She’s so sad she missed out on the Jared Kushners of the world 😂

That post explains so much about women in the DC area. I’ve watched the Kelce brothers’ podcast a couple of times. Travis is not an intellectual, but he’s smart and funny and he’s very sweet with Jason’s girls and they obviously adore him. He’ll make a great dad.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The crazy posts on here make more sense after reading this. Swifty fandom sounds like a cult.

I’m an unapologetic Swiftie but that’s insane. I can tell you from a Facebook Swiftie group I belong to (LOL!!) that it’s true. Some of these women are certifiable. But that’s on them. Taylor Swift creates a fandom but holy hell these people take it to such an extreme that it’s like watching a car crash. So I stay in the group and watch from afar.

I like Swift a lot but I have a friend who dedicated her 20s/30s to Swift and is now rounding on 38 and is unmarried without kids and I honestly think it's because she focused too much energy, attention, and money on Taylor Swift. She's seen Eras like 8 times. Back when she still used to go on dates, she'd get mad if the guy wasn't enthusiastic about Swift. Like not even a situation where he said something negative (which is a dumb move on a guy's part -- don't yuck someone else's yum) but if she told a guy she was really into Swift and he wasn't like "omg that's amazing, I also love her" she'd never go out with him again. It was a totally unrealistic expectation and reflected an obsessive focus on Swift.

Who know, maybe without Taylor Swift my friend would have found some other way to torpedo relationships. But for her it was definitely Swift-related. Recently she was begging me to go see Swift in Europe with her and I gave her a hard no several times because I have two kids and a pretty serious job and can't jet off to Europe to see a concert at this stage in my life. The begging turned to "you don't understand because you're SO LUCKY to have found a husband and had kids and I'm all alone." But while she was obsessively following Taylor Swift I was working, dating, planning my family, and building a life and home with my DH. I'm lucky to have found him but she could have been lucky in the same way. She was on Reddit posting about the latest Taylor's Version drop and spending her savings on concert tickets.

The arrested development of some Swift fans is really something. Grow up. She's just a pop star.

I mean it sounds like she has some level of mental illness or neurodiversity and this is what she chose to fixate on. Plenty of women like TS music and still got married. TS gets to be a billionaire, I can't live off her reflected glory lol.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The crazy posts on here make more sense after reading this. Swifty fandom sounds like a cult.

I’m an unapologetic Swiftie but that’s insane. I can tell you from a Facebook Swiftie group I belong to (LOL!!) that it’s true. Some of these women are certifiable. But that’s on them. Taylor Swift creates a fandom but holy hell these people take it to such an extreme that it’s like watching a car crash. So I stay in the group and watch from afar.

I like Swift a lot but I have a friend who dedicated her 20s/30s to Swift and is now rounding on 38 and is unmarried without kids and I honestly think it's because she focused too much energy, attention, and money on Taylor Swift. She's seen Eras like 8 times. Back when she still used to go on dates, she'd get mad if the guy wasn't enthusiastic about Swift. Like not even a situation where he said something negative (which is a dumb move on a guy's part -- don't yuck someone else's yum) but if she told a guy she was really into Swift and he wasn't like "omg that's amazing, I also love her" she'd never go out with him again. It was a totally unrealistic expectation and reflected an obsessive focus on Swift.

Who know, maybe without Taylor Swift my friend would have found some other way to torpedo relationships. But for her it was definitely Swift-related. Recently she was begging me to go see Swift in Europe with her and I gave her a hard no several times because I have two kids and a pretty serious job and can't jet off to Europe to see a concert at this stage in my life. The begging turned to "you don't understand because you're SO LUCKY to have found a husband and had kids and I'm all alone." But while she was obsessively following Taylor Swift I was working, dating, planning my family, and building a life and home with my DH. I'm lucky to have found him but she could have been lucky in the same way. She was on Reddit posting about the latest Taylor's Version drop and spending her savings on concert tickets.

The arrested development of some Swift fans is really something. Grow up. She's just a pop star.

Peope still talk about marriage and kids like that’s what you’re supposed to do as a badge of honor. Marriage and kids isn’t everything. Some people enjoy life without that commitment and that’s fine, also