Girl. I went to private and had to read tons of books. But are you all forgetting about Cliff Notes? It was our version of internet summaries. Btw, My kids have done AAP/Honors/IB in FCPS and they’ve had to read entire books in school. We also go to library, have always encouraged reading, etc. I think a huge part of it is too much screen time and parental importance placed on reading. |
Oh for goodness sake. I have always read with DC. I read a lot. And my kid is an athlete and in AP and honors classes. They don’t read books. Maybe 3 all of HS. And dc doesn’t like to read outside of school, no matter how much I wish otherwise. So no. Not the case for everyone. |
It’s too bad you couldn’t teach your child self-discipline. |
I think you clearly skipped some complex reading lessons yourself, somewhere along the line. |
It is difficult to disentangle whether a school is good because it is good at teaching kids, or good because it has smart kids that don't need to be taught much, or good because the data used to show that the school is good is bogus or corrupted. Highly rated schools that don't bother assigning books are probably somewhere in the latter two categories. |
| They probably attended Fairfax County schools. They don’t like to burden students with reading books in high school because it’s too much to ask students to read outside of school. |
Yes, I read War and Peace and it is interesting. |
| Not really surprising when it is the overwhelming view of parents on this board that the humanities are a complete waste of time, and everyone needs to be studying CS to make maximum $$ in tech or finance. |
The fact that you think it's boring just shows you haven't trained your mind to understand it. This is why when people say "Who cares what kids read, just let them read!" I always flinch. Minds and character are for training, and what you read will train you. Start reading the good stuff and you'll be able to read the harder, longer good stuff when you're older. |
Meanwhile some of the very best minds in actual computer science - not software engineering or cowboy coding or being an elite "hacker," but the people who invented the very concepts that drive computing - will tell you the liberal arts are critical to their thinking. |
It’s all just taste and opinion. You sound like someone that also believes that you should only listen to classical music and opera. Why not just accept people like what they like and don’t like what they don’t like and move on. |
Although it tends to be philosophy and logic vs reading fiction. Einstein loved the great thinkers, but you don’t read about him extolling the virtues of literature authors. |
I have one of each, and I find smugness over having reader kids extremely annoying. I am not a good parent to one child and a bad one to the other because one loves reading and one never reads. We have always encouraged reading and read a lot ourselves. |
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I went to FCPS in the 90s and we had lots of assigned books in high school, but I have to say, I don’t think I ever really fully grasped what I was reading. I’ve always thought it’s kind of odd that we expect teenagers with almost no life experience to understand themes in literature written by adults for adults.
Nevertheless, despite my lack of understanding and over dependence on Cliff’s Notes, I got a 5 on my AP English test and never took another English class again. Many years later, as an adult, I discovered a love of reading, revisited many of the novels I read in high school, and finally understood what they were all about! Now I have teenagers who both love to read, but honestly, I’m not too sure they’re really getting it either. |
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In the 90s, my AP Lit teacher (private HS in the NYC area) told us we wouldn't get to all the books on the list for the exam and we should go rent the movies for as many as we could.
We read full books, but even then the amount of material on the AP exam didn't lend itself to being covered. I imagine the list is the same or longer now? |