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Because tons of parents who either served themselves, can't afford college or refuse to pay for it pressure their kids into doing this.
I know families who refuse to give their kids any money for college or help them navigate the financial aid process - they just make them join a service academy instead. I fully admit I couldn't do it but I had a family who always talked about going to a selective college instead. I didn't have that mind set. Maybe those who are raised to think this is their best or only option are very dedicated to the process. |
As if... I couldn't pressure my kid into throwing a football or liking Brussel sprouts. You think joining the military is something people are coerced into? I come from a Military family. Every man born since 1910 and 1980 served except me. I was "all in" my whole young life but decided it wasn't for me. And I had a relative who was an academy admissions officer! I would have waltzed right in. Unlike students at most colleges who can try out majors and then completely change their minds about life after graduating - those who attend the service academies have to be solid and certain about what it is they are signing up for. |
You seem uninformed about the process and judgemental from an outside perspective. As if half the people can force their children to go. Half of mine wouldn’t pass the medical exam (I am the poster with one who was accepted but disqualified in the medical process). Sure, there are some military families where it’s core to their family values, just as Ivies are to some families. It’s not as easy as “just force them to go” when you don’t have college funds. |
| The service academies are selective for those who apply. However, the most selective students opt-out so the remaining pool is not as selective as T25 colleges. |
You can't possibly be that dense. It is an experience and commitment like no other school (save, perhaps, a seminary). Not only are they selective when it comes to applicants but the applicants have already self-selected. |
https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2023/03/08/us/us-merchant-marine-academy-sexual-assault-report-invs/index.html |
“Free” if you disregard the multiyear commitment where you might get killed on the back end. |
Seminarians. Good analogy. |
I don't think an enormous opportunity cost means what you think it means for selectivity. |
NP and I don't agree with this. My DD is currently at West Point, and she was admitted to the one Ivy she applied to. Her school's college counselor could not believe she would turn down X university for West Point, but it's because my DD's high school is in the elite civilian college bubble and don't "get" service academies. My DD's friend at West Point turned down Harvard for West Point. Both of these kids come from non-military families, and West Point was their #1 choice. I do think that for the military-connected applicants, it's a bit easier to get in because they can get a nomination through more channels. However; that might not be a blessing because it's such an intense experience, if the fit is not right, the kid is more likely to drop out. My DD has a friend who is considering a transfer right now and it sounds like it's that kind of situation. The academies are selective in a different way than civilian colleges, so it's a bit of apples to oranges. Your kid could be the perfect candidate for an elite college based on grades, rigor of classes taken, extracurricular activities, and standardized tests, but if they can't pass the fitness test, don't have proven leadership experiences, or have had some medical situation (stuff like allergies, meds taken for stuff like anxiety or ADHD etc) they probably won't get in. (and if they have those things, the academies are more forgiving on the standardized tests) |
I think a lot of great kids are going to pass on service academies because of the commitment to military service afterwards. Is that what you think I meant? 🙄 |
The self-obsession of people on this board is breathtaking sometimes. Since you don’t know anyone personally, you can’t fathom why anyone else might be interested? Where did your parents go wrong with you, exactly? |
Also, we have serious shortages in talent for some MOS’. The Services understand this. They need cyber folk and these kids look and act different than the high school soccer star and team captain who took a decent but not ridiculous course load and got good but not brilliant grades. The selection criteria at the academies will have to change over time. That being said, we have some enormously gifted STEM kids at the selective academies already - just probably not enough of them. |
Ton of students who can get in T50 or T100 wouldn't choose military life style. |
What? No, they don’t. Half the kids at other top schools can’t even function with stimulants and SSRIs |