Why does your husband assume that multibillion dollar hedge funds don't know how to hedge? If he can predict future markets better than the people running Harvard's endowment, I'm assuming that you guys are billionaires |
We are suckers too!! It pisses me off to such an extent. My husband should have stopped working, paid himself nothing the past few years. And we shouldn’t have saved $$. It all penalizes us now. |
Good for you, I'd rather avoid the decades of debt and forgo the counseling services. |
Also don't save or invest money. Try to spend and live lavishly. |
Not to mention that student debt is a huge driver of mental illness in adulthood. Saddle a 20 year old with 100k in debt and watch what happens ..(nothing good) |
So true…. |
Or find a path that is affordable to you. CC then onto a 4 year university. Or better yet, if your kid is a candidate for an $80K university, they likely can handle DE in HS and graduate HS with their AA and the only cost is lab fees and books, so essentially getting your AA for under $2K. Then 2 years at university. My state has several schools with high admission rates (ie if you have a 3.5+ UW gpa you will get admitted) that offer virtually most majors (including CS and engineering)---those schools are less than $25K all in per year. If you are a good student, you can get the costs down to ~$20K or less. A kid can earn $10K per year to contribute fairly easily with minimum wages being over $13+. That leaves $10K/year and ~$5K of that can be the federal student loans. So ~$5K for the family to come up with. At most you can graduate with $40K in student loans. If a kid takes the DE approach, then it's $2K for the AA in HS and $20K/year for 2 years, so at most $20K in student loans. See---there is a way to not burden yourself with loans for college. Why would you saddle yourself with $100K+ in student debt? It's a choice to do that---but you can choose another path. Even someone making $40K/year should be able to manage $20K in student loans spread over 10 years--only $222/month. And that is if the kid has no parental/family help with college (besides co-signing the extra loans). If parents can help with $4-5K, the kid might only need $10K total for the 2 years or $20K total for a 4 year university. And in reality, $10K kid earning per year is low---if you work all summer, all breaks and have a PT job while in college (8-10 hours/week) you could earn close to $15K/year. In reality, that is the smart approach----yes, it is not smart to go into major debt. People need to learn that and stop doing it. There are good choices that are more affordable, and if you are an excellent student, many of the private schools (not T50) will give you excellent merit to attract you to matriculate |
The maximum loans someone can take out for undergraduate is 27.5k. |
Yeah OK you can do that but now you gotta struggle with the mental burden of "my kid is eating meat loaf when other people's kids are eating prime rib" and "will my kids think I don't love them if they have to eat meat loaf because I refused to put prime rib on the credit card?". |
Wasn’t the article about admissions not financial aid? |
TLDR, but if you're saying we should make loans for education illegal, I'm here for it. Minors should not take on this kind of debt, even if someone signs on their behalf. |
The unsubsidized portion accrues interest while you are in school, currently 5.5%. If you need to go on a repayment plan, you may be have interest accumulating faster than you are repaying (which is what happens in most of these student loan sob stories). That's not even mentioning student loans co-signed by parents which really have no limits |
Why? Income is the primary factor in determining college financial aid. All retirement and home assets are typically not considered, and the rest of assets are assessed at 5-6%. |
And they go from having 4 years of therapy to not being able to afford therapy the second they graduate |
You said a "20 year old with 100k in debt" --you don't get that through the accrual of interest on unsubsidized loans. Private student loans aren't co-signed by parents-- parents can take on loans for their students. I am critical of the burden of student loans, but there's no need for hyperbole. The reality is challenging enough. |