| Any sense of what percentage of Hardy 8th graders will opt for MacArthur this year? |
Talk about twisting language. A team of 9th graders will be destroyed on the field. But the goal is to make it a varsity sport in when the kids can compete. |
How would anyone know this? |
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To answer the original question, we may leave Hardy because of MacArthur. Kids are still in upper elementary school, so we have a few years to make decisions and arrange things, but if they can't figure out an easier way for inbound kids to and from that location every day, we will not attend the new school.
I'm excited by what I heard at the virtual open house and think it could be a great opportunity for my kids. The principal's enthusiasm and energy was palpable. It will probably be a fantastic school in a few years. But an hour commute each way for an inbound school is a deal breaker. |
What would your alternative be? |
NP. You are out if your mind if you think physical fights “happen at most schools” and isn’t violence. It IS violence, it’s not normal and it doesn’t happen at most schools. I attended public schools k-12 in a suburban area. Never saw or heard of a physical fight. My kids have been in private school in DC PK-12 and never seen or heard about a physical fight. It’s truly insane that you think this is okay and normal. Holy crap, what goes on in your house? |
DP. I agree. The amount of physical violence that happens is nuts. |
| First of all “fight” doesn’t equate physical violence. Then no fights in suburban schools? Very hard to believe. They are typically huge and probably you were not aware of everything that happened. Also a fight may not mean something serious necessarily. It could be a typical, insignificant boy scuffle. I have seen that with my brothers so many times.. Many school shootings have happened in suburban schools through the years. So do you think there may be gun violence there but no fights ever? |
You think our kids don't know the difference between a fight and a sibling scuffle? You can keep downplaying and dismissing, but that's not convincing anyone aware of the reports of our own kids. No one is saying that there are daily brawls and injuries and major trauma. I am saying the fighting is more than acceptable, more than my children have experienced in the past at DCPS schools, and far more than I was ever exposed to. It is enough to be unnerving and stressful for my child, and I don't see why anyone should have to put up with that. I'm sorry you have such low standards. |
| Stop feeding the trolls. |
Which ones are the trolls? |
This. It seems crazy that parents are downplaying these prevalent issues in DCPS as normal. It’s not. The trolls are the ones in denial of not just the fights but huge behavior problems that exist that affects lots of students, the learning environment, etc.. |
| Are we talking about Hardy or DCPS? Doesn’t that make a huge difference? How widespread and nasty are these fights at Hardy’s? Nobody downplays violence when our kids may be affected. I just feel like we are not talking about the same thing. |
I think we are talking about Hardy? My kid is at Hardy and reports of fighting are so routine that it seems like alsmlt part of the nightly school download. She reported one to us a couple weeks ago where there was blood drawn and another recently where the AP had to pull the students off each other. Also, she hasn’t had gym in weeks because the girls locker room is locked and the PE teacher refuses to have gym as a result despite the fact that the children don’t even seem to change. Thankfully her stint in gym is almost over because the guy sounds like a total a-hole who hates girls. |
| My 6th grade daughter at Hardy has also reported her gym teacher is sexist. |