Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm a private school administrator reading the comments about the disparity in admin costs vs teacher salaries. I think that administrations might be scaled in some areas, but not in the DC area.
We want to put most of our time and resources towards the students, but the parents require an incredible amount of personalized attention in this region. You're busy, so we ramp up communications to make your lives easier. You want to socialize with your fellow parents or fellow alumni, so we hold loads of events. You want the very best facilities, so fundraisers are needed. You want lots and lots of hand-holding through the college process, so we staff up there. You want every kind of club and program to help your child find their specific strength and build a resume around it, so we're always adding new opportunities.
The Head of School, any associate or assistant heads, any division heads had better be available around the clock. I got torn apart by a parent on the phone this summer because I didn't answer a message within 24 hours -- while I was on a family vacation after the worst 2 years of school in the history of school. A colleague gets endless calls from alumni who think something is too woke, and lots of calls from alumni who don't think the program is woke enough. The language you use with us is DEMEANING.
We're all ready to quit. Teachers and staff. There's no amount of money that makes this job worthwhile. Everything that is wrong in society right now feels amplified in the microcosm of school. And hell yes, the pandemic has had a lot to do with it. The only people who will stay are those who can't imagine any other job than one working with children. Let's hope that there are enough of them.
It's a troubling time for sure. I'm sad to read this and to hear that your experience isn't unique.
Perhaps I'm an anomaly parent, but I welcome a conversation from admin/leadership that reflects a prioritization reset. Frankly, I think that competitive teacher salaries should be one of the top priorities to attract and retain top talent, but I suspect that it isn't. Also, the lack of transparency and clear credentialing is clearly an issue in the profession broadly. I don't understand all of them but just reading this thread suggests a lot of variance that needs to be addressed. If certifications aren't valuable/valued, then perhaps that needs to be revamped and tied to clear salary bumps, along with education bumps for advanced degrees. I have no idea what our schools' staff credentials/criteria are. Shouldn't that be transparent? If teaching/curricular quality metrics aren't clear, that leads to a focus on what can be measured or observed, such a shiny buildings and fancy events. But what really matters more?
Private schools do not have unlimited resources and parents are always going to want and demand *more* but academic quality should be the top priority. The problem with leadership trying to please everyone and offer a wide breadth of everything is that resources are spread too thin and quality is sacrificed. Then everyone is burned out and annoyed - parents, admin, teachers, and students. In DC's upper school, clubs rarely ever meet. College counseling is shaky with meaningful turnover and limited student attention so most parents with means pay for outside help anyway. Community events exist but are half-hearted. For example, sporting events are unevenly/not supported by students. DEI really seems to be an event-focused box-checking exercise, such as outside having speakers, rather than truly looking inward and doing the work on culture, process, and an attitude of inclusion. So much of the admin planning and energy just seems to be focused on the optics. Clear priorities/strategy, communication of those priorities, and boundary setting are desperately needed IMO.
As someone else mentioned, I've observed significant administrative bloat over the past few years and could not describe if my life depended on it what the responsibilities of many of those roles are. It's annoying and just seems like a waste of $. I'd rather pay for top flight teachers that inspire.
I'm tired of seeing these entitled parents behaving horribly and yet their offspring seemingly just benefit, not to mention it is frustrating that these jerks are making life miserable for the whole community. And guess what? The kids are then in turn learning that bad behavior and spreading it on to their peers.
Parents need to hear "no" with unreasonable demands. If you are on vacation, the parent must wait or accept help from a colleague. Your HOS needs to back you up, even if it means pissing off a big donor. Otherwise, the cycle never stops and the students don't get the modeled behavior they need from the adults in their lives.
I get all you are saying, and agree to most of it. However, that is one of the reasons many families chose private; for the "Concierge Service". Of course parents should always be polite and mindful when asking, but that's what we expect; above and beyond service for our kid and for us.