Go read about the case in Virginia of Joaquin Shadow Rams murdering his 15 month old son for insurance money. I know far too much about this case because his lawyers hired a school psychologist to attack the mom who I happen to know and who talked to me about the case. They painted the mom as a psycho when she had reasonable concerns. The psychologist was kind of a friend and when I brought my kid to their practice she called me in to her office to chat and I came away being horrified by her. She talked about the case and was thrilled to be chosen by the lawyers to participate. There was no reason behind her opinions and was insulting and misogynistic about the mom. I got to hear about the team work going in to destroying the mom. It was 100% inappropriate. The mom sued her and the practice and if I had known earlier I would have contacted her lawyer. The legal system completely failed this child and the mom. The dad had money to build a team the who purpose of which was to destroy the mom. If you met this psychologist you would have thought she was the nicest person. She like a lot of other humans actually hates women. |
100%. Her newest Insta story is inspirational, not expressing grief or sadness. Something is most definitely up with her, whether mental health or substance abuse. Hopefully she will get treatment and win back more parenting time. She has seemed on the edge for quite a while. |
| I think it is unfortunate in both this case and the Wolf case that so few posters care at all about the wellbeing and safety of the kids. The many posters insisting the mothers should have the kids regardless of the physical or mental harm they cause them shows many don’t care at all about the best interest or health or wellbeing of the kids. The push for kids should only be with their mothers so so strong for many that they are willing to risk or accept children being harmed to support that viewpoint. In both these cases external agencies have been involved and Meghan agreed to this deal after the CPS investigation was completed. Had Meghan been found to be a safe and competent parent, she would have her kids back with her at least part of the time. The kids matter and kids should not be kept in situations and homes where their physical or mental health is at risk and their safety isn’t assured just because of a personal view that fathers aren’t good parents and that mothers should always have their kids. |
It's not "so few" but one, maybe two, Meghan fans posting. The majority believe the CPS report led to an appropriate resolution for now, as sad as it is. |
Your first sentences are so much bullshite. We know organizations are misogynistic. So much is stacked against women. I don't see at all what you are seeing. Your comment that few posters care about the kids is so off base. We all know dads who pull custody games just for $. You're just like the rest of the world in assuming the worst about women. |
Or, you could interpret that as her coping with her grief but silenced on the actual issue. How about as women we give other women the benefit of doubt? |
I don’t assume the worst about women or men. However both can be bad parents or have issues that make them unable to parent safely. There are reasons why kids may need to be removed from mothers or fathers. The focus should be on where is it the safest and most stable for the kids. If you work in social services you will quickly lose your rose coloured glasses about mothers. |
Because then children die. |
I will leave you to your delusions. |
| There is a difference between defending someone and being cynical about what a rich and powerful man's PR team has leaked to the media and achieved through the family court system. |
Yes because of her behavior, we know. |
Thank you for perfectly proving the PPs point! |
Then you would post as such instead of the screeds that have been posted on this thread about people just “knowing” Jim must be a narcissistic abuser manipulating the courts. All of these rants painting Meghan as a victim would be more factual rather than just “feelings” that poor Meghan is being mistreated. Instead of you know, the people actually being mistreated - her kids? |
The allegation came via third-party quote from a woman who'd seen video footage of prior custody exchanges and she described Jim as being rageful and frightening and putting thd kids in the middle of the conflict where Meghsb tried to shield them. Her organization is a watchdog for abusers. The organization is One Mom’s Battle. |
Multiple posters made the same claims earlier in the thread. And you’ve lost the plot if you believe anything from One Mom’s Battle. |