Can we analyze jennifer lopez?

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Anonymous wrote:I am confused by posts claiming that J Lo is a popular, strong, and great career now. She canceled the tour because it wasn't selling, and she would be at empty venues. She doesn't sound at all like a huge superstar.
I have not listened to or known any of her other songs except "On the Floor," which is in my gym mix. I am her age, so I should know and like her songs right?

She is relevant- she's still A list in terms of media coverage. No, very few people care about new music from her- and she actually acknowledges that in her documentary. People like her old music for nostalgia- On the Floor, Get Right, I'm Real, and more. So she's a legacy act, like many stars are now.

Her movie did well on Netflix, apparently. So no, she's not a Taylor Swift or Beyonce, in terms of current stardom. But for a woman in her 50s who was never had a voice like Whitney or Celine, or acting talent like Meryl or Viola, she's doing well.

Seems she's an industry plant. She can't sing, can't act, have her movies ever been mega hits? Yet she's been thrown in our face for 20 plus years. Enough already.

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Delusional hating. As the PP said, she doesn't have a 400 million networth for nothing.

Even your post proves her allure- you're in here posting about her, proving she draws you in.

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Anonymous wrote:I think Jennifer Lopez is having a horrible realization. She thinks she is a younger Madonna but no one cares to see her in concert while Madonna's tours are sold out worldwide. That's got to be a kick in the teeth / humbling.

She's so thirsty and desperate. Maybe she should sit her butt home and raise her kids?

God, yes. It's disgusting that a woman would dare to work. To have a career! The horror!

Career? Yes. Want/Need to be gone most of the time? Don't have kids.

There's no evidence she wants or needs to be gone most of the time. She seems to be the primary custodial parent of her children, and is photographed with them quite frequently.

Why aren't you with your kids instead of posting on DCUM?

They're grown.

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Seems she calls Ben her hero.

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Anonymous wrote:She posted on her IG. Happy Father’s Day to our hero. And a picture of Ben

Yet no acknowledgment of the actual father of her children.

lol. I thought they had a good relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:She posted on her IG. Happy Father’s Day to our hero. And a picture of Ben

Yet no acknowledgment of the actual father of her children.

lol. I thought they had a good relationship.

I get the feeling JLand Marc have a mutual understanding that they go their own ways, and the kids are mostly with her anyway because he has seven children with four women.

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Anonymous wrote:“Our hero”? Could she be any more desperate?

I felt sad for her, not scorn. A marriage breaking up is a really hard thing to go through. And if she still loves him, it’s even harder. Maybe she does feel a bit desperate about it all. But this is her life and if she wants to try to fight for the marriage in whatever way, I say good luck to her.

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Anonymous wrote:“Our hero”? Could she be any more desperate?

If I had to guess, reading between the lines it does seem like Ben has relapsed. Jen Garner is around, trying to get him back on the wagon. Jen Lopez is around, and the our hero is to remind him of his good qualities as a father.

The tour being cancelled because Jennifer L doesn't want to be away while her husband has broken sobriety. The house being sold as maybe a change of scenery, or because he's hit rock bottom and to show she's serious about him needing to commit to sobriety.

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Anonymous wrote:“Our hero”? Could she be any more desperate?

I felt sad for her, not scorn. A marriage breaking up is a really hard thing to go through. And if she still loves him, it’s even harder. Maybe she does feel a bit desperate about it all. But this is her life and if she wants to try to fight for the marriage in whatever way, I say good luck to her.

She wants to be herself and she wants to be with him. Sadly, those two states can't coexist. I think he wants to be with a different version of her and that's B.S. We all know a relationship is unhealthy if it can only work based on one person changing for the other.

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Anonymous wrote:“Our hero”? Could she be any more desperate?

I felt sad for her, not scorn. A marriage breaking up is a really hard thing to go through. And if she still loves him, it’s even harder. Maybe she does feel a bit desperate about it all. But this is her life and if she wants to try to fight for the marriage in whatever way, I say good luck to her.

It is also so completely lacking in self awareness. He is embarrassed by her public adoration. This will likely trigger the divorce announcement. I would bet money on it. Shut her up once and for all.

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One of Elaine (jlo's BFF and business partner) said it's over.

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Anonymous wrote:She posted on her IG. Happy Father’s Day to our hero. And a picture of Ben

Yet no acknowledgment of the actual father of her children.

lol. I thought they had a good relationship.

I get the feeling JLand Marc have a mutual understanding that they go their own ways, and the kids are mostly with her anyway because he has seven children with four women.

I think Marc doesn’t like Ben. Rumor was he didn’t like that Ben emailed Jen congrats on the birth of her twins.

Rumor there’s some controlling /possessive behavior with him. Control issues which is why J Lo dressed more modestly and wasn’t on the scene or working as much around him. She was miserable and wanted out after the first year of marriage but knew another quickie divorce would ruin her reputation so she stuck it out , had twins, and stayed married until the kids were 3. She wanted to have kids with Ben that entire time.

Her obsession with Ben is one I cannot understand. She thinks he is so much better than she is just because he is acclaimed in Hwood and she isn’t. If she didn’t think so lowly of her herself, she would realize she is richer and far superior to Ben. She should actually be thankful she didn’t have kids with Ben given how his family line really seemed to struggle with suicide, clinical depression, and addiction. Jennifer should realize maybe her psychic fairy godmother guru was right .

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think Jennifer Lopez is having a horrible realization. She thinks she is a younger Madonna but no one cares to see her in concert while Madonna's tours are sold out worldwide. That's got to be a kick in the teeth / humbling.

She's so thirsty and desperate. Maybe she should sit her butt home and raise her kids?

Her kids are 16. She did sit home when they were babies . Should she take up knitting sweaters and sewing as well ? After 50, women should just retire and go away gracefully

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Anonymous wrote:One of Elaine (jlo's BFF and business partner) said it's over.

Is the like asking the magic 8 ball a question? Whose random text is this?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think Jennifer Lopez is having a horrible realization. She thinks she is a younger Madonna but no one cares to see her in concert while Madonna's tours are sold out worldwide. That's got to be a kick in the teeth / humbling.

She's so thirsty and desperate. Maybe she should sit her butt home and raise her kids?

Her kids are 16. She did sit home when they were babies . Should she take up knitting sweaters and sewing as well ? After 50, women should just retire and go away gracefully

What’s your demographic?? Women after 50 should just go away? Be put out to pasture? SMDH.

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Anonymous wrote:She posted on her IG. Happy Father’s Day to our hero. And a picture of Ben

This is insane. Her hero should be her dad or Marc lol. The actual father of her kids..

Is she going to continue to stalk the Afffleck family events? Will she be there during Violets first day on campus hauling bags? I hope she doesn’t break a nail. or need cuticle cream like the night she spent in central bookings /jail . I love that she allegedly asked the cops if they had hand cream because the handcuffs were abrasive .