Typo abvove. Should read: Oh please. Nobody is saying that these two children ought not to be punished or face serious consequences - it just that the punishment is too harsh for the nature of this crime. The expulsion for the last third of their senior year seems particularly cruel - it gives them no opportunity to rehabilitate themselves at a different school. If they were expelled as sophomores, they could go to a different school, behave and perform well for two years, and be able to say to colleges or employers that they made a mistake and learned from it. This expulsion gives them no second chance - no opportunity to build a clean record at a different school. |
You have no idea and you sound like a fool when you base your assumptions on no actual knowledge of the children involved. |
Another way to look at it is it is such a small school (about 60 kids in a class) that everyone is diverse and unique, including the white kids. These kids have been together since fifth grade. Sometimes when you are comfortable with people and like them, you also feel comfortable zinging and roasting. Sounds like the jokes were flying. Was this one tasteless and over the line? Of course. But to read a malicious intention along the lines of above I would like to see these kids had a record of victimizing others. |
So, which is it? Was the kid congenitally unable to make a good choice because his brain was underdeveloped? Or was he unable because his parents were "not like DCUM posters" even though his parents DID have the wherewithal to get him into a highly competitive charter? Even if BOTH are true, I can see why Princeton might decide that someone congenitally unable to make good decisions might be a bad bet for a highly coveted spot. |
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No one is saying the child's brain was underdeveloped. Children, all children, have moments of impulsivity. They also lack experience that factors in to what they do. Teenagers pay higher car insurance for this reason, no?
That combined with WLs somewhat inconsistent approach to discipline (this would be the first and only veer towards tough love I've heard of from them) is a recipe for disaster. I would hope Princeton shows compassion and looks at the sum of the child rather than one splitsecond poor decision. |
| What I love is that if this was a Muslim student who was responsible for the bomb threat you all would be speculating on how he got radicalized. But since it was non-Muslim students impersonating a Muslim, all of a sudden it's a harmless prank, or a tragedy that they faced consequences. |
No Cutts did not say this. I don't know the kids who sent the email but from the school rumor mill, I don't believe they meant the email as a hate crime. However, unintended consequences can be much worse than intended ones. I'm a WL parent who supports the administration's decision. This is harsh punishment but I believe deserved in this case. From emails the parents have gotten, it appears that Latin is working with the kids who were expelled to help in the transition to a new school. This can be a huge opportunity for these kids and others to learn the importance of thinking through what they say and do. They will not learn if there are not consequences for their actions. |
And you agree with that? |
Thank you, rational WL parent. I appreciate your contributions to this thread. |
So the WL parents (and kids) who don't agree with this decision are not rational? Ok.... |
Wouldn't logical consequences be an appropriate response to the unintended consequences of their action? Or are you conflating the unintended consequences of their actions (hurt and pain caused) with the intentional consequences of the administration (expulsion)which I'm agreeing these two students most likely did not expect. For the unintended hurt or disruption caused by their thoughtless actions wouldn't the route of an apology, working to repair it with the community through service or education bring about the most learning for everyone? How does exclusion help here exactly for the kids involved and the kids in the 'to learn' as you state above? Please explain. And feel free to check out the diagrams of the "expulsion to prison" pipeline in the sources below. http://knowledgecenter.csg.org/kc/content/unintended-consequences-school-discpline https://safesupportivelearning.ed.gov/sites/default/files/sssta/20110323_Implementation5.pdf http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/112/5/1206.full?cited-by=yes;112/5/1206 |
Considering I haven't seen a single WL parent other than PP express any concern for the victim, correct. For all the "we've known each other since 5th grade, we love each other" I hear when it comes to the bullies, folks are pretty silent on the victim. It makes me think this really was a bullying incident by popular kids against someone less so, and/or that the school isn't as tight as they like to believe. |
+1. Bomb threats will get you expelled from any school and fired (and arrested) from any job. Can't believe the posters making excuses for the two idiots. |
| Seriously, if the two kids were Muslim would anyone be questioning the expulsion? Feel sorry for them, maybe, but not arguing that in this climate that's the right thing to do. How is arguing against expulsion here not just white privilege expecting understanding treatment of kids who obviously never would do anything bad and just didn't think things through, whereas if the kids were black and/or Muslim there would be an unspoken understanding that there was some problem with their home life or upbringing that ultimately led the kids to these bad decisions? |
This. Kids called in a bomb threat when I was in high school (before the internet...!) and they were expelled. Who has tolerance for this kind of shit? No one, that's who. Welcome to the real world. |