I don't think the top girls are better than the top boys. |
But they do. https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2019/09/10/magazine/college-admissions-paul-tough.html |
Most overlooked part of an application. And often very important. Ask any former AO. |
Seriously, is this how you go through life? Not at all capable of backing up your claims with data? |
You two need to take this outside. |
It is that and it is other things they ask. You and dh’s alma mater, your employment, where other dc go to school. Think for a minute. Seriously. Think. |
But at need aware schools, don't the AOs have financial information of applicants who apply for FA and file the FAFSA/CSS? So they don't have to rely on the "tells"? |
Yes at need aware. But it need blind schools they do not. They can’t even see if you’ve applied for aid. But somehow they still figure everything out…. |
We have seen that parents with “big jobs and titles” and pedigreed/ multiple degrees tend to have children who get into multiple selective schools - even when they’re not the top of our private school class. |
How exactly did yours engage with colleges? What does that even mean? (If you spend so much time engaging with different colleges, how do you maintain GPA/EC/job/etc....not to mention sleep/meals/chores/family/health.... then they wonder why we have a mental health epidemic) How do they know if you browsed their site on a different computer? The whole idea of tracking kid's browsing is just creepy. |
I’m not sure, but imagine it’s attending campus tours/events, AO interviews on campus when available (WashU, Wake, Rice), online webinars, and then any in-person fall events (including sitting in on fall classes, which many T25 schools now allow and some encourage). Our school’s College counselor has also said that submitting last-minute applications without planning it out in advance tends not to work out well (other than for certain Ivies which don’t care about this stuff) because certain peers will be much more actively engaged with that same college all year long. I think it’s all an argument for starting to make your college list much earlier in the process. |