Don't do it. Tell someone. |
I appear happily married. However, DW suffers from crippling anxiety which sucks the life out of me. I would have been more successful if I hadn’t married her. I do love her, but I’m becoming resentful. |
I used DE too and the only people who know about it are 2 siblings and my kids. |
I didn’t lie. He never asked about my sexuality, kinks, sexual history, or anything. He’s a very self-absorbed, uncurious person. When I asked him about his sexuality, history etc, his answers were plain and it was clear he had very little sexual experience and was ashamed of that. It made what should’ve been fun conversations feel awkward and needless. When we were engaged and then soon got married, his lack of questions seemed like he was willing to accept me for whomever I am and just wanted to love me. I knew I wasn’t going to cheat, so bringing up my bisexuality to someone who really didn’t care to have the convo seemed needless. It took time for me to realize his lack of interest in basic details about others is actually a deep narcissism. By the time I realized that, I had too much contempt for him to confide. The rift has widened over time. |
Have the same feelings for my mother. |
Funnily, we have so many other issues that my sexuality doesn’t even rank in the top 10. He lied about/hid so much to get me to marry him. I’m talking his own untreated mental illness (that he refuses to treat), his sister’s raging drug addiction, his mom’s severe mental illness, his family’s racism. My secret is small potatoes in this hot mess. |
+1. We’re friends with lots of other professional couples (lawyers, PE, physicians, tech sales from top schools) our age. I would guess average income is $400-600k and net worth of $500-1000k. We all talk about the same vacations, schools, clothing, hobbies so it would seem that we have a similar financial backgrounds as early 40 something professionals. In reality, our net worth is about $10m. A few of the folks closest to us have started to put together that our position has greatly changed. What I find more fascinating is the folks that don’t know. Some treat us very well, and we hold them close - those are our true friends. Some are competitive and I almost wish I could tell them because it’s hurting our friendships. Still others make it clear they look down their noses at us/don’t think we’re worth their time. We’re moving to a nicer neighborhood soon and that’ll make things more obvious. I won’t be forgetting who treated us poorly. |
They ask after an offer and when a background check is run, they can also request transcripts. They don’t do it for every applicant. -another HR person |
I have tons of facial hair (am a woman) that I pluck by hand nightly. |
Im married and I talk to a man online. We have a very strong sexual chemistry. He lives in another state so we will never meet but our lusty conversations are fun. DH has zero drive and won’t do anything about it. I went on HRT to make things better but he’s content and not meeting my needs. I’ve tried for years. now I have an outlet. |
My most recent job didn’t do a background check but did ask for proof of education (easy for me to supply digitally — I just requested a digitally signed letter from my university’s registrar that they provided free of charge). It’s not terribly uncommon. |
I go to a nudist beach a few times a year. I have a home in Fl and there is one about 40 mins away. Haven’t ventured to a resort yet because I feel like they are very social and I’m introverted. Do you go locally? The one I that I think about going to is on the west coast of Fl. |
Laser? Or do you have to let it grow in first which would be a problem. |
You sound insane. |
I spend my time wasting hours with scammers who call from India. |