My 2nd grader’s teacher intends to mask all year

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone who does not care if people in their kids' schools are medically fragile are horrible, horrible people. Same with other school employees who don't wear masks even when they KNOW that their colleagues are imunocompromised. You suck.

I'm sorry, but the general population is not going to wear masks in perpetuity. I'm sure you believe masks are just an "inconvenience" but for many they are not, and since you don't care about that, why should we care what you think?

Did I mention the general public? I specifically said that people who do not care about actual individuals in their actual lives -- in their kids' schools, or their own schools if they are also employees -- SUCK. And they do. They are terrible human beings. Can you imagine if someone said that right to your face? "I don't care about your life or death situation -- I'm not wearing a mask for your sake."????? Or how about if they said it about your child?

This is not the kind of society I want to live in. Those people disgust me. I can't respect them.

Have you tried talking to the people in your life that are making you so angry, vs. just venting on an anonymous forum? Are you afraid to ask them to mask in perpetuity to protect you? Have you tried getting fit-tested for an N95 rather than depend on fitting yourself with a KN95?

FWIW, the parents I know IRL with medically fragile children were not willing to send them to school even when there was a mask mandate anyway. It's not good enough when they are that high risk.

It's not ME. I work with someone medically fragile. I cannot get over the a-holes who don't care and don't mask. They don't wear a mask for the sake of someone they actually know and see on a daily basis. It's mind boggling to me. I really think people like that are sociopaths or possibly low-IQ. Definitely not the best.

it's too much to ask. there have been immunocompromised people in the workplace prior to covid. shoot, pre-covid my brother returned to work after having his entire immune system rebooted with a stem cell transplant. don't think anyone at his job was masking to demostrate how much they cared about him. it just ... wasn't a thing. ps he got covid and was fine.

Yes, the key point is "PRIOR TO COVID." That means, PRIOR to a virus circulating that could harm them or kill them, they did not wear masks. That's like saying about a burning building, "I ran into that building just last week and didn't get burned. Don't be so precious about going in now."

Like I said, these people are likely low-IQ.....

Are you under the impression there were no potentially deadly respiratory infections circulating prior to covid? Talk about low IQ ….

[Anonymous]

Just glanced at a few pages of this thread. If anybody is still wondering why we are facing a national teacher shortage, you don’t need to look any further than some of the behavior presented here. Wow. To think that teachers have to put up with this angry, irrational behavior.

It’s simply a mask. It’s the teacher’s prerogative to wear it. It’s not this big of a deal.

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Anonymous wrote:Just glanced at a few pages of this thread. If anybody is still wondering why we are facing a national teacher shortage, you don’t need to look any further than some of the behavior presented here. Wow. To think that teachers have to put up with this angry, irrational behavior.

It’s simply a mask. It’s the teacher’s prerogative to wear it. It’s not this big of a deal.

Sure. Of course it doesn't have anything to do with pay, increasing administrative burdens, class size, etc. No, it's all about the mask debate.

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Anonymous wrote:Just glanced at a few pages of this thread. If anybody is still wondering why we are facing a national teacher shortage, you don’t need to look any further than some of the behavior presented here. Wow. To think that teachers have to put up with this angry, irrational behavior.

It’s simply a mask. It’s the teacher’s prerogative to wear it. It’s not this big of a deal.

Sure. Of course it doesn't have anything to do with pay, increasing administrative burdens, class size, etc. No, it's all about the mask debate.

This isn’t a simple mask debate. This is unreasonable anger and entitlement coming from a parent. Class size, admin burdens, and everything else you mention is absolutely a problem. So is absurd behavior like what is demonstrated here.

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Anonymous wrote:Just glanced at a few pages of this thread. If anybody is still wondering why we are facing a national teacher shortage, you don’t need to look any further than some of the behavior presented here. Wow. To think that teachers have to put up with this angry, irrational behavior.

It’s simply a mask. It’s the teacher’s prerogative to wear it. It’s not this big of a deal.

Sure. Of course it doesn't have anything to do with pay, increasing administrative burdens, class size, etc. No, it's all about the mask debate.

This isn’t a simple mask debate. This is unreasonable anger and entitlement coming from a parent. Class size, admin burdens, and everything else you mention is absolutely a problem. So is absurd behavior like what is demonstrated here.

There is a nationwide teacher shortage. This parent sure is causing an awful lot of staffing turbulence.

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Anonymous wrote:His 1st grade teacher masked all year too. He has a speech delay and is behind in reading. His teacher said she is immunocompromised and plans to mask all year and maybe beyond “just to be safe”. I get it from the teacher’s perspective. But my perspective is valid too. I feel stuck.

I think we have to support the teacher but there are clear masks for teachers aren’t there?

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Anonymous wrote:Just glanced at a few pages of this thread. If anybody is still wondering why we are facing a national teacher shortage, you don’t need to look any further than some of the behavior presented here. Wow. To think that teachers have to put up with this angry, irrational behavior.

It’s simply a mask. It’s the teacher’s prerogative to wear it. It’s not this big of a deal.

Sure. Of course it doesn't have anything to do with pay, increasing administrative burdens, class size, etc. No, it's all about the mask debate.

This isn’t a simple mask debate. This is unreasonable anger and entitlement coming from a parent. Class size, admin burdens, and everything else you mention is absolutely a problem. So is absurd behavior like what is demonstrated here.

There is a nationwide teacher shortage. This parent sure is causing an awful lot of staffing turbulence.

I think the masking may hold more weight than we realize- think about it. There is a staffing shortage in MCPS, but in relative terms, not as bad as nationwide. MCPS has more masking overall and OP’s hysterics aside, most parents don’t care (or are even grateful for it). More masks = safer teachers = better retention. More places need to prioritize teacher safety.

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Anonymous wrote:I understand both points of view in this scenario - the teacher's and the parent's. It IS possible to do that, btw. I think you have options, OP. Unstick yourself.

+1 I agree- nobody is to blame here- agree with both teacher for protecting herself and the OP. OP is not saying the teacher shouldn’t mask either.

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Anonymous wrote:His 1st grade teacher masked all year too. He has a speech delay and is behind in reading. His teacher said she is immunocompromised and plans to mask all year and maybe beyond “just to be safe”. I get it from the teacher’s perspective. But my perspective is valid too. I feel stuck.

I think we have to support the teacher but there are clear masks for teachers aren’t there?

Clear masks are not N95.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Just glanced at a few pages of this thread. If anybody is still wondering why we are facing a national teacher shortage, you don’t need to look any further than some of the behavior presented here. Wow. To think that teachers have to put up with this angry, irrational behavior.

It’s simply a mask. It’s the teacher’s prerogative to wear it. It’s not this big of a deal.

Sure. Of course it doesn't have anything to do with pay, increasing administrative burdens, class size, etc. No, it's all about the mask debate.

This isn’t a simple mask debate. This is unreasonable anger and entitlement coming from a parent. Class size, admin burdens, and everything else you mention is absolutely a problem. So is absurd behavior like what is demonstrated here.

If you think OP sounds angry that's on you. She is concerned and you don't think that's valid. Parents were also concerned about school closures, and they were right. As long as you see parents as always wrong, entitled, unreasonable, you will always feel like a victim.

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Anonymous wrote:Just glanced at a few pages of this thread. If anybody is still wondering why we are facing a national teacher shortage, you don’t need to look any further than some of the behavior presented here. Wow. To think that teachers have to put up with this angry, irrational behavior.

It’s simply a mask. It’s the teacher’s prerogative to wear it. It’s not this big of a deal.

Sure. Of course it doesn't have anything to do with pay, increasing administrative burdens, class size, etc. No, it's all about the mask debate.

This isn’t a simple mask debate. This is unreasonable anger and entitlement coming from a parent. Class size, admin burdens, and everything else you mention is absolutely a problem. So is absurd behavior like what is demonstrated here.

If you think OP sounds angry that's on you. She is concerned and you don't think that's valid. Parents were also concerned about school closures, and they were right. As long as you see parents as always wrong, entitled, unreasonable, you will always feel like a victim.

No, I’m not buying this. Disagreeing with ONE angry parent on DCUM isn’t seeing “parents as always wrong, entitled, unreasonable.” Nowhere do I make any statement that REMOTELY makes me one to be a victim, either.

A teacher has a right to wear a mask without invoking the ire of a parent. I have elementary aged kids. I would prefer no masks, but a mask isn’t that much of an issue if a teacher decides to wear one. Is the teacher prepared? Does the teacher track my child’s progress? Does my child get regular and consistent feedback on assignments? All of that is more important.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am so thankful myself and my 3 friends resigned from teaching at the end of last year. We are enjoying the peace and quiet of staying at home and putting our children and ourselves first. I have never been happier. We hear all the horror stories about the parents and admin and shortages and we are so happy we made the right decision. I have no advice to offer as I am off duty. MCPS has reached out to us 4 times offering us incentives to come back. NO thanks.

Have a great year!

You realize the horror stories about shortages is because people like you and your friends quit your careers, right? You are actually enjoying what you have stuck your former colleagues with? Nice.

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Anonymous wrote:I am so thankful myself and my 3 friends resigned from teaching at the end of last year. We are enjoying the peace and quiet of staying at home and putting our children and ourselves first. I have never been happier. We hear all the horror stories about the parents and admin and shortages and we are so happy we made the right decision. I have no advice to offer as I am off duty. MCPS has reached out to us 4 times offering us incentives to come back. NO thanks.

Have a great year!

You realize the horror stories about shortages is because people like you and your friends quit your careers, right? You are actually enjoying what you have stuck your former colleagues with? Nice.

Teacher here. To the previous poster who was a teacher, CONGRATS for finding a better deal elsewhere. I don’t remotely mind that you left us with more work. Your departure, along with the many other recent departures, are making a statement. This job isn’t sustainable and teachers are miserable. I lost a department member this week and I am losing a planning period to help cover. I don’t resent her at all. I understand why she left.

I may be following.

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Anonymous wrote:There is no clear evidence that masks impact children’s speech or social skills. It’s just something that gets repeated because anti-maskers need a justification.

False. There is PLENTIFUL research on the impact of masks on communication; and pre-existing research on the role of faces and learning social skills/emotions/language. Beyond that, masks are an invasive intervention. It's just not true that you can mandate any intervention as long as there is not "clear evidence" against it. (Or whatever evidentiary standard you're using; it's a moving goal post.) Likewise claim that "blind kids learn to speak just fine, masks are not a problem!" is false. It's well known that visually impaired kids need specialized instruction for acquiring language and social skills because of the missing nonverbal cues.

I'm not even going to post the research here because there's so much. Anyone who is interested can search on Google Scholar.

There are also millions of dead people from covid. So what's your point? Teachers should risk their lives and well being for your benefit?

DP: The only point being made by OP and people who understand her point of view is that she has a valid reason to get her child switched to one of the other available classrooms. The does not harm the teacher in any way, shape, or form. This teacher can keep masking as she needs to do, and the child can have an adult model of speech in a different classroom whose facial expressions are fully available to her.

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Anonymous wrote:There is no clear evidence that masks impact children’s speech or social skills. It’s just something that gets repeated because anti-maskers need a justification.

False. There is PLENTIFUL research on the impact of masks on communication; and pre-existing research on the role of faces and learning social skills/emotions/language. Beyond that, masks are an invasive intervention. It's just not true that you can mandate any intervention as long as there is not "clear evidence" against it. (Or whatever evidentiary standard you're using; it's a moving goal post.) Likewise claim that "blind kids learn to speak just fine, masks are not a problem!" is false. It's well known that visually impaired kids need specialized instruction for acquiring language and social skills because of the missing nonverbal cues.

I'm not even going to post the research here because there's so much. Anyone who is interested can search on Google Scholar.

There are also millions of dead people from covid. So what's your point? Teachers should risk their lives and well being for your benefit?

DP: The only point being made by OP and people who understand her point of view is that she has a valid reason to get her child switched to one of the other available classrooms. The does not harm the teacher in any way, shape, or form. This teacher can keep masking as she needs to do, and the child can have an adult model of speech in a different classroom whose facial expressions are fully available to her.

What happens when the OP finds out that the masked teacher is actually the stronger teacher? Would she demand her child be moved back? Or is the lack of a mask simply more important than any other variable?