Thank You for your post, but I think its a bit deeper than that, which is what makes it so problematic and detracting from a sense of community. My DC is a very humble young adult and always takes in a room before ever speaking up. Why? He is really interested and hoping that someone else ( or many ) people in the room are smarter than him and that he can learn from them. The OPPOSITE of that is a person who thinks ( or needs to think) that they are the smartest person in the room, that everyone else is inferior and then, if for some reason that is not acknowledged by a class rank or college admission.... well, there is HELL to pay. Another stereotype is that really beautiful women can't be smart too. Seriously, I had a team mate who was an Engineering major at a top 5 Engineering school AND she was a NCAA D1 full ride athlete, but she was also a cover model. She had about 200K set aside from modeling when she was in HS that she would show me how she was investing in the stock market ( a hobby of hers because she also liked numbers) You wouldn't believe the knives that came out for this girl.... classmates who would go to the Dean and suggest she was sleeping with the Professor and that was how she got a coveted internship. People who alleged she must be on 'roids to run that well... Now, if she had been ugly as dirt, they probably would have accepted her and been nice to her. Her crime: smart, talented and very beautiful. Sick world |
Huh!?! It’s nothing deep. Their kid didn’t get in…. End of story. Blaming it on athletes assuming they have less academic ability is an easy mark. I also hear a lot about kids padding their resume for college admissions, creating non profits, etc. They wouldn’t be complaining if their kid was accepted. |
Holton total matriculation to Ivy schools has nothing to do with this thread. If there are examples of Holton athletes attending Ivy then so be it, but it’s getting way off course. |
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Private schools value student-athletes not just athletes. The kid who excels in the playing field and in the classroom has always been the goal. Being well rounded. I don’t know anyone at our private school whose goal for their kid is to play div 1 sports or even to get an athletics scholarship. It’s not that kind of crowd.
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Really? Most private schools have kids whose goal is that and when it is your kid's goal, believe me, it becomes your goal too as a parent. |
| Someone told me Gonzaga doesn't recruit basketball players because it is harder to get into the school vs other schools that do recruit? Truth or just talk. |
I got bridge in Brooklyn too and I’ll sell it to you real cheap. |
It is not harder to get into Gonzaga than it is to Maret, Sidwell, STA, and even Landon. All of which recruit. |
| GDS is full of athletic recruits with great hand-eye coordination. |
Was that meant as a joke? |
| Face it, a very small percentage of kids are good enough to be recruited and they have a better chance of getting recruited for college than an independent school. |
Sounds a lot like my child. Does he attend a Big3? |
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On a somewhat related note, the people that view sports as a "hook" for college admissions in the same way they view a legacy as a hook have no idea what they are talking about.
The legacy is something your are born into, while the sports hook is based on years of hard work and unrelenting dedication. My DS, who now plays division 1, attended a Big 3 school. One year she was injured and couldn't do anything for 8 months. We couldn't believe how time she had to get her work done, get good rest, spend time with friends. To play at high a level was obviously her choice, and one she does not regret, but for anyone to suggest that legacy and sports hooks are the same probably hasn't had a child go through the process. |
Playing a D1 sport is equivalent to working a full time job. |