Single at 29 - Are all the rich guys taken?

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Anonymous wrote:You are exactly the type I go for and about the perfect age. But not to get married or have more children, that's for sure. I'm fairly wealthy, just turned 40 and never disclose to women like you that I've had a vasectomy. I'm on a select few dating sites where I state that I am looking for something LT, possible marriage and I look for women with the same goals. I've dated and had sex with so many since my divorce 7 years ago. It used to surprise me how many were so careless about birth control and so obvious about trying to "accidentally" get pregnant in hopes of snagging me. I have so much fun with it and I've advised other men to do the same.


You sound like a prize!

A lot of the women I've dated thought so at first. But it always ends badly. Almost every one of them told me I don't need to use a condom and there is no worry of her getting pregnant.


I’ve said the same when it was true. It’s odd that you think all these women wanted to have your illegitimate child, with an uncommitted partner. Most women are not that stupid.

What are you talking about? I'm 28, desperate/eager to please PP, and *dying* to have a baby with a guy who posts on mommy forums all day. Super hot.

PP if you want, I'll have your illegitimate baby while you sit in the waiting room and then when I do the diaper changes and late night feedings you can post on DCUM.
Sounds great but, as I posted, no woman is having my baby. Not possible but I'm OK to let them think it's possible. And yes, I know how terrible that is.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You are exactly the type I go for and about the perfect age. But not to get married or have more children, that's for sure. I'm fairly wealthy, just turned 40 and never disclose to women like you that I've had a vasectomy. I'm on a select few dating sites where I state that I am looking for something LT, possible marriage and I look for women with the same goals. I've dated and had sex with so many since my divorce 7 years ago. It used to surprise me how many were so careless about birth control and so obvious about trying to "accidentally" get pregnant in hopes of snagging me. I have so much fun with it and I've advised other men to do the same.


Hope that vasectomy holds up for ya! They don't always.


This is so true. My uncle at 60 had one. Married a younger gold digger when he was 40 and she was 25. She went on to have another child after his vasectomy. Yes, it was his baby. So, as PP said, the V's don't always hold up. And, BTW, he is an OBGYN. Lol!
I was kind of shocked when I looked it up. I would have guessed less than 1 in 10,000 fail. When I had mine, they didn't just snip the Vas as I thought. The doctor removed about piece of each one and sent it for biopsy, then burned both ends of each. I don't see how it could leak or re-connect but I'm sure there are mistakes or other methods that are not as reliable.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You are exactly the type I go for and about the perfect age. But not to get married or have more children, that's for sure. I'm fairly wealthy, just turned 40 and never disclose to women like you that I've had a vasectomy. I'm on a select few dating sites where I state that I am looking for something LT, possible marriage and I look for women with the same goals. I've dated and had sex with so many since my divorce 7 years ago. It used to surprise me how many were so careless about birth control and so obvious about trying to "accidentally" get pregnant in hopes of snagging me. I have so much fun with it and I've advised other men to do the same.


Hope that vasectomy holds up for ya! They don't always.


This is so true. My uncle at 60 had one. Married a younger gold digger when he was 40 and she was 25. She went on to have another child after his vasectomy. Yes, it was his baby. So, as PP said, the V's don't always hold up. And, BTW, he is an OBGYN. Lol!
I was kind of shocked when I looked it up. I would have guessed less than 1 in 10,000 fail. When I had mine, they didn't just snip the Vas as I thought. The doctor removed about piece of each one and sent it for biopsy, then burned both ends of each. I don't see how it could leak or re-connect but I'm sure there are mistakes or other methods that are not as reliable.
Removed about a 1/4" piece of each one..or so they told me.
Anonymous
I am op. I'm not trying to break up a home or marry a 50 year old billionaire. I'm trying to meet/marry a guy about my age on track to being rich when we start having kids. He doesn't have to be a billionaire. Looking for $500k+ in mid 30s, early 40s.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am op. I'm not trying to break up a home or marry a 50 year old billionaire. I'm trying to meet/marry a guy about my age on track to being rich when we start having kids. He doesn't have to be a billionaire. Looking for $500k+ in mid 30s, early 40s.


Go to (a top) business school - ratio is well in your favor. Met my husband there. But I make $350k plus too
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am op. I'm not trying to break up a home or marry a 50 year old billionaire. I'm trying to meet/marry a guy about my age on track to being rich when we start having kids. He doesn't have to be a billionaire. Looking for $500k+ in mid 30s, early 40s.


Make your own damn $500k per year.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am op. I'm not trying to break up a home or marry a 50 year old billionaire. I'm trying to meet/marry a guy about my age on track to being rich when we start having kids. He doesn't have to be a billionaire. Looking for $500k+ in mid 30s, early 40s.


Your expectations are ridiculous.
Anonymous
Step 1: stop having shitty motives.

Step 2: fall in love, build a life together, support and encourage your partner in their career and vice versa.

Step 3: profit.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am op. I'm not trying to break up a home or marry a 50 year old billionaire. I'm trying to meet/marry a guy about my age on track to being rich when we start having kids. He doesn't have to be a billionaire. Looking for $500k+ in mid 30s, early 40s.


Surgeon. You can easily find a hospital job now with minimal education requirements
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Step 1: stop having shitty motives.

Step 2: fall in love, build a life together, support and encourage your partner in their career and vice versa.

Step 3: profit.


NP- my husband makes seven figures. I always laugh because I married him for love and never saw that coming. I would love him as the same if he made 60k a year. OP, if you're real, marry for love and work hard to build a life together.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am op. I'm not trying to break up a home or marry a 50 year old billionaire. I'm trying to meet/marry a guy about my age on track to being rich when we start having kids. He doesn't have to be a billionaire. Looking for $500k+ in mid 30s, early 40s.


Your expectations are ridiculous.



This is hilarious. I sadly have a number of friends who say the same thing and all are single heading into their 40s. They’ve all met and had plenty of great dating options but find problems with all of time. I hope OP doesn’t discount a good/great guy in search of “perfect” and end up alone.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am op. I'm not trying to break up a home or marry a 50 year old billionaire. I'm trying to meet/marry a guy about my age on track to being rich when we start having kids. He doesn't have to be a billionaire. Looking for $500k+ in mid 30s, early 40s.


Make your own damn $500k per year.


+1, so gross. make your own money OP. As has been stated ad nauseum, no man, including a wealthy one, is interested in gold diggers.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Step 1: stop having shitty motives.

Step 2: fall in love, build a life together, support and encourage your partner in their career and vice versa.

Step 3: profit.


NP- my husband makes seven figures. I always laugh because I married him for love and never saw that coming. I would love him as the same if he made 60k a year. OP, if you're real, marry for love and work hard to build a life together.


Does he look and act like bezos?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am op. I'm not trying to break up a home or marry a 50 year old billionaire. I'm trying to meet/marry a guy about my age on track to being rich when we start having kids. He doesn't have to be a billionaire. Looking for $500k+ in mid 30s, early 40s.


Make your own damn $500k per year.


+1, so gross. make your own money OP. As has been stated ad nauseum, no man, including a wealthy one, is interested in gold diggers.


Whatever you say. I went to law school for my MRS and am happily married to a partner now.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am op. I'm not trying to break up a home or marry a 50 year old billionaire. I'm trying to meet/marry a guy about my age on track to being rich when we start having kids. He doesn't have to be a billionaire. Looking for $500k+ in mid 30s, early 40s.


Make your own damn $500k per year.


+1, so gross. make your own money OP. As has been stated ad nauseum, no man, including a wealthy one, is interested in gold diggers.


Whatever you say. I went to law school for my MRS and am happily married to a partner now.


Good for you, I also went to law school, not for my MRS, and like most of my friends, I make plenty of my own money and so does my DH. That's assuming you're real because I have never heard anyone say they went to law school for their "MRS" IRL.
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