Underlying intelligence is similar to underlying physical strength. Both are malleable, plastic and change with loading conditions. If you use your brain this can be measured by improvement in intelligence. Similarly, if you use your muscle this can be measured by improvement in strength. Of course, both intelligence and strength are not infinite quantities. Both change throughout the life cycle and with aging. Both are subject to atrophy of disuse. I know this is too abstract and difficult for laypeople to grasp let alone comprehend. You need to go to school and study to find out! |
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I thought a John Lennon quote might be appropriate here -- “When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down ‘happy’. They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life.” |
Hear Hear. Well said. Thank you. |
More gibberish from empty blue bottles sitting on the wall. |
I am afraid no one here is interested in living your life. We prefer ours. Studying and preparation are happy habits for us. We are certainly glad you and your life are happy. |
But, how can this be so, if intelligence and performance is fixed no amount of prepping will screw up any results. Does going to the best school in a fancy neighborhood with in house and year round fancy tutors also screw-up the results? Or is the latter different from prep. You sound like a big old cheating cry baby. Boo hoo. |
Great! I''m happy...hopefully it all works out for you and your loved ones. Although, one fine day you might be surprised to find that after all that precious work ('happy habits") you did just for them - they're not happy; especially with you. ![]() |
P.S. did I neglect to mention that DC is in the pool; no prepping -- still happy. |
What should the County do? What a legal predicament for her majesty? If her majesty told her subjects they can't study and prepare for her tests and examinations then why is her majesty in the business of education. This betrays her mission of ensuring children reach their full academic potential. Why should her majesty endorse any study habit: Kumon, Mercer, private tutors, school teachers tutoring their favorite pupils on the side for extra doe, online educational instruction, summer school academic instruction or a couple of sample questions on their web site? How on earth can another child screw up the results of another unless the other child feels entitled even if she came in dead last on the test and didn't get a trophy? Baby, that's life. Deal with it or get your child off the pot if you are incapable of providing guidance and mentorship for your children. Other parents are able to guide and motivate their children without inadequate parents with gifted children thinking these parents are somehow cheating because their own brilliant children can't compete. If your children are gifted and brilliant why worry over dark bubbles on a worksheet. What's her majesty, the County to do without the D.C. lawyers coming after them? |
Irrelevant, no one cares whether DC swims. Just don't drown. |
Yikes. You are dangerous. I take back my good wishes for you and your loved ones. I do hope that your DC figures out how shallow you are. Signing off...not to return. |
Be careful. You are right.
Diving in shallow waters is quite dangerous. |
Yes, but some start out stronger than others. Two people doing exactly the same workouts are not going to have the same increases in strength. One could become much stronger than the other, even lifting the same weights the same number of times. Everyone is capable of learning and increasing their knowledge base. Some will learn faster than others and have the capacity for deeper understanding than others. Children who grasp concepts and deal with new ideas more quickly that others need the AAP classroom. Kids who need the AAP classroom will not need tutoring and outside help. I wouldn't be surprised if the kids at TJ who needed extra math help last year were among the children prepping for the CoGAT way back in second grade. |
Most people can benefit from extra help, even though they may not needed. I wish I had prepared my elder kid when she was little. I trusted her intelligence and thought she would be fine on her own for everything - which she did. When other parents hired tutors, I refused to even think about it because my daughter was doing great in class. Guess what, she missed TJ by a hair. She was in the pool but did not have extra-curriculum math-science activities to show "genuine interest" in science and technology! My daughter regretted even to this day which makes me feel guilty. She did ask for a few Johns Hopkins talented youth summer programs but I never signed her up for any for various reasons.
So my advice for young parents: do all you can when your kids want them! |