Would you marry someone who's been divorced 3 times already???

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:While I wouldn't date or marry someone who had been divorced three times, I also wouldn't consider them a 'three time loser'. Sometimes divorce is winning- every marriage isn't built to last.

I would. If you didn't learn your lesson the first two times, failing a third time makes you a three-time loser.

If your first two marriages end in divorce, get the hint already.

You aren't getting it- who said they 'lost' all three times?

[Anonymous]

I was the fourth wife.
Wouldn't do it again.

[Anonymous]

Let me get out my calendar. OK, I've flipped to yesterday. Nope, "be born" wasn't on there. So no--I would not marry someone who has been divorced three times.

[Anonymous]

I don't think I could do it. I'd wonder why this person wanted to be married again so badly (cause I'm guessing a thrice-divorced person is on the second half of their life so not trying to have kids) rather than focused on having a really great relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was wife #2 to a man who is on wife #4. I really think #4 is the one.

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was the fourth wife.
Wouldn't do it again.

Do tell.

[Anonymous]

Eeeewww no

[Anonymous]

It depends. I don't see being married as a success and being divorced as a failure. Never have.

[Anonymous]

My dad divorced three times before he met my step mom. They've been together for 20 years now. I think it all depends on what you want out of the relationship (ie, kids, etc)

[Anonymous]

What are the divorce stats for 3rd and 4th marriages?

Past behavior predicts future behavior.

[Anonymous]

I would have a girls only dinner party and invite all three ex-wives. Then I would listen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My dad divorced three times before he met my step mom. They've been together for 20 years now. I think it all depends on what you want out of the relationship (ie, kids, etc)

That is some awful short marriages, he must have started at 18 years old.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would have a girls only dinner party and invite all three ex-wives. Then I would listen.

Smart girl. I always tell friends to talk to his exes if they want to find out what he's really like. Pull up his divorces online from the county. So many bull shiters out there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My dad divorced three times before he met my step mom. They've been together for 20 years now. I think it all depends on what you want out of the relationship (ie, kids, etc)

That is some awful short marriages, he must have started at 18 years old.

I assume you know how old PP is???