We have actually DE-evolved with more digitalization. |
Someone who insults someone who has a different opinion than you needs serious help. |
So in that case the school communicated to your child that the after school program got cancelled. My child didn’t know the after school private lesson got cancelled because the instructor contacted me to cancel. I would then call the school to tell them but they told me to email the last period teacher. That was the only way my child knew to catch the bus home isntead. Explain to me how else this could have been done. |
Get help for what? Someone literally insulted my executive functioning for something beyond my control and for what the school told me to do? Explain how you would have handled it. |
It sounds like your kid didn't do private lessons after school which sometimes get cancelled. It was easy for your kid to figure it out becuase the school told her it was cancelled. Apples to oranges. |
You still could have picked your child up and just driven him/her home instead of taking him/her to his/her lesson. The school doesn't need to be involved at all in knowing if your kid is going to a private lesson after-school. Why would they care? |
You text your kid, and kid turns on their phone at 3:00 and sees it. They don't need to see it at noon. |
I have to constantly check my cellphone as part of my job. It’s time we accepted that kids’ use of Snapchat and instagram is part of training for their future jobs. We’re expected to be able to toggle between emails and texts and paying attention in meetings at work. When kids are texting and playing games during a lecture at school they’re learning essential skills that they’ll have to be able to apply in the real world. Paying attention to a class without any distractions actually probably harms their ability to develop skills at multitasking. |
. I would’ve just picked my kid up anyway. |
By the time they see it they would have missed the bus. And my child actually didn’t get a phone until a few months in during 8th grade. So no, I don’t actually have an addicted to a phone kid because we waited until 8th and had strict rules. |
Sure. You’d waste your time and gas money and just be able to leave work even if you didn’t have to. Ok. All because of a new rule that Johnny can’t check his own texts at lunch. |
| Blanket rules like this just don’t work. There always has to be some exceptions. |
DP. Get help for calling people POS and telling them to eff off because they suggest other possible solutions. Also, your kid can check their phone when they are dismissed at the end of the school day before going to kiss n ride or the bus. Seriously you are freaking out about nothing. |
You don’t know if they wouldn’t see the text in time for the bus. Heck, my kids don’t always see stuff even now when they are checking their phones during the day. |
Blanket rules absolutely can work. If there is something SO important and urgent that your child MUST be able to have their cell phone, then there is something else going on. Like if their parent is dying in a hospital. Then the kid probably wouldn’t be at school anyway. There just aren’t many situations that warrant urgent communication like that and when they do come up there are other solutions. |