The OP’s son has okay grades (with high rigor and a high SAT score). He couldn’t get into VT on this list, and I doubt he could get into UMD. Most of the low targets/high safeties for normal high stats kids are reaches for him, unfortunately. |
Schools want high GPAs, and if OP's son is going to a school with lots of kids with much higher GPAs than him, then that's his competition. We've had multiple AOs tell us that GPA and high rigor are the most important criteria to them. My kid got into UMD and VT (with merit) with a 3.8 UW, 4.6 weighted and didn't submit test scores. |
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As getting in even top 100 schools gets more unpredictable, the importance of finding safeties the kid would actually want to attend increases.
It seems that people often pick safeties that are just watered-down versions of their target schools. I think it’s important to find safeties that have at least one characteristic the kid can get excited about, such as it’s near ski resorts, near beaches, has excellent sports, has a particularly pretty campus etc. |
| This is heartbreaking. But also a good lesson in only applying to schools that you actually be happy to attend. Building a solid college list is something so many people get wrong. Reaches are reaches. Period. This would help the overall mess of admissions to a degree too. |
What’s the unweighted gpa? |
This is a realistic outcome. |
Read the thread, she said it was 3.6. |
Often boys struggle with executive functioning/organization in 9th and 10th and have lower grades than girls for those years. |
It was dumb to waste ED on UVA with that gpa. I always feel like I could be doing more as a parent, then I read things like this and figure I’m doing alright. At least I knew enough to not have my kid do a throw away ED app. I see people on here ignoring the advice of— whole package, essays, sat, grades, targeted ECs, 4 years math, science, English, history, language over and over again. If you want your kid in at top schools, YES this is all necessary. If you don’t care, that’s fine, just stop wasting everyone’s time whining about how your kid can’t get into a top schools with his crap grades. And yes, his recs were probably crap. No teacher is excited to write a rec for a kid who underperforms. |
Agree. Test scores don’t get you in. They just prove that you can meet a school’s threshold. |
Are you this nasty in real life or only on anonymous message boards? Her kids could be super engaged and curious and all sorts of wonderful things that aren't reflected in his grades. |
Nope. Delusional. Schools don’t care about how your school fake weights grades—they report those made up GPAs because it makes the school look good. But, it really comes down to how many Bs little Johnny has. OP’s little Johnny had almost half Bs, that’s crap for UVA and CWRU. |
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You made a good list if he has options.
I hope he is happy with his ultimate choice. |
Of course rigor matters. People here are falling into a trap of grades and rigor being an either/or. It’s not, you need both, because there are plenty of kids who took BC calc, AP physics, etc and have all As. |
| OP, hopefully this will teach him that he needs to get serious and work to his potential. He can do/be anything he wants coming out of either of those schools. If he can get a 1540 the potential is there, he just needs to figure out how to live up to that potential. |